Four Ways to Make the Narcissist Obsess Over You! Stick around to the end of
this video as I reveal four ways to make a narcissistic person utterly obsess over you!
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become obsessed with you or in fact anyone? I believe they can for many reasons, such as
because it suits them... they want what they can't have or because they feel insecure
Billy stood up to his narcissistic ex-girlfriend who disrespected him, put him down, treated him
badly by leaving the relationship... by standing up to her! She then became obsessed with him
"I became like an Adonis overnight" he said "it was too little too late though... but all of a sudden
because I left her she wanted me so badly!" said Billy. Signs of obsession with narcissism can
include = a lack of boundaries... they may show up to your work or stand outside your house into the
early hours of the morning... they don't care what they do, what they say, how they behave it's all
with the intention of getting what they cannot have, which is you! Stalking online... assuming you
still follow each other on social media or have each other's details, some way or another expect
to be bombarded... they'll watch you like a hawk and blow up your inbox too, with many messages and more
They don't take no for an answer... you cannot say no to a narcissist and not expect them to
go down without a fight! No is not part of their entitled spoilt vocabulary, they want
everything and anything now and always on their terms and yes narcissists are drama
queens naturally, but they'll step up a level massively when they become obsessed with you
They'll be way more emotional, they'll act more over the top just to try and get your attention
back for you to respond, you to acknowledge them and so on... that's what they want... your attention
Good or bad more than anything else! Here are four ways to make the narcissists obsess over you!
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The longer you willingly choose to endure and put up with a narcissist the worse they become
the more advantage they'll take of you... the more they'll abuse you, the more you'll get hurt and
betrayed.... that's a fact and I'm speaking from experience here... that's how it normally pans out
They think and feel "I can do whatever I want to them, with them etc" and happily they carry on
doing so! Therefore the only logical solution or anything else is to walk away physically, mentally
spiritually and emotionally = it's the only option you've got! Emma warned her narcissistic boyfriend
to start treating her better... he ignored her, cheated on her and was terrible. He laughed
and said "if you leave me you'd be a fool! In fact you're never gonna leave me!" Emma did leave him
packed her bags, moved out to another house and ended the relationship in a brave manner
leaving him entirely alone, miserable and in the mess he created on his own
Something changed... he recognized he was now alone... no more girlfriend... no one woman to clean up after
him... no one woman to sleep with him etc.. he snapped! Begged Emma back... he sent her so many stupid gifts
stood outside her new house, he couldn't focus on his job, he became a mess! All because Emma
stood up to him, stayed strong and walked away "I'm sorry" she said "I don't want to be with you anymore
You had your chance and you blew it multiple times!" "PLEASE" he begged "I'll do whatever you want!
I can't get you out of my mind! I'm obsessed with you!!!" Yes classic obsessive behavior and classic
toxic behavior as well. Walk away entirely from them to make them utterly obsessed with you
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No contact is so powerful, it can work on almost anyone and everyone in any scenario or
circumstance... I once broke up with a narcissist once and the biggest mistake I ever made was never
going no contact with her... I kept her number... her social media... the messages... all her details
and very cleverly and eventually she hoovered me back in and somehow we were back together again!
It was a huge mistake doing so, we ended up arguing more and wasting more time together
dating in a toxic relationship! That's why I'm always saying to all my viewers to go no contact
and to stay no contact no matter what! Don't get me wrong, the toxic ex I had was persistent and
obsessive... the first time we split up without going no contact... but the second time and ultimately the
final time we split well I went completely cold turkey on her. I blocked her, removed
her off everything and even if she found a way to communicate I still didn't respond because it was
well and truly over! I wanted nothing to do with her and I needed to move on... it was one of the best
decisions I ever made in my life. She became so obsessive, sent dozens of emails, gifts as well... she
sent messages through other people "How is SCG? What is he doing? Where is he going? Is he seeing someone?
I need to talk to him, it's driving me crazy, someone help please!" she'd say
The final argument we actually had she spoke to me like I didn't exist... going no contact she treated
me like I was the last man on Earth. Stop the phone calls.... stop the texts... stop the DMS... stop the private
messages... Block, delete, move on! No contact equals absolute obsession with a narcissist!
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Let's suppose you do walk away and go no contact with the narcissist
There's still ANOTHER way to make them obsess over you....that's not to cave in and to give in to their
manipulation... it's to remain strong firm... to say no and keep your boundaries... even if they get in touch
Most likely (just like I and many others) you tried reasoning, talking things through, counseling
changing, you tried it all.... you sacrificed your life, time, energy, money, resources for the narcissist
What did it get you? It got you more abused, more neglected, more disrespected... it got
you nowhere with them... because they're difficult people and very toxic as well
That's why staying firm realistically is the only option here and by staying firm it's basically
saying no to them... saying no to a relationship... saying no to a friendship... saying no to socializing
saying no to doing anything with them, to talking with them to having them in and around your life
This will drive them insane as due to their ego and delusion they assume you need them
On the contrary nobody needs or wants a toxic person in their life ever... they cannot and will
not comprehend that form of rejection... "Why do they think they're saying no to me....Why are they
saying no to me...Why don't they need me in my life... I thought I was special.... Who do they think they are!"
Those are some of the examples of what's racing through the minds of a narcissist
especially when you stand your ground... oh by the way congratulations for doing so!
Not many people would be so brave and strong to stand up in this way
Stay firm, say no, don't cave in and that will make them utterly obsessed with you
The best revenge is massive success and in this context success is living a good happy
healthy genuine life without the narcissist! You know firsthand what it's like being around a
narcissist or dating one or being married to one, being friends with one, working with one, living with one
being related to one....now it's time to test the waters without one and speaking firsthand let
me tell you life's so much better! Yes in the short term it will be shocking, disappointing
to eliminate a person who meant at one stage so much to you... but over time with healing and
recovery I'm telling you that you'll be living your best life ever... without such a toxic person
They're gonna hate this, they'll be envious of you being happy, smiling, carefree not needing them
at all... it will make the narcissist's blood boil... they'll be Green With Envy... as you've
successfully managed to eliminate them from your life and on top of that you're not sitting around
moping and feeling sorry for yourself. Do that initially then eventually after recovering put
yourself back out there if you want to date or if you want to meet new people. Associate
with genuine people who want the best for you... that will make them rage... make the narcissists
so upset and it will make them obsess over you so much... especially if you're dating or marrying
someone else or you've got a new group of friends or you've started your own family
or you've started working with other people and so on and so forth.... Live Well without them!