Hey, what's going on? Tripp Kramer here from Tripp Advice.com. On today's video, I want
to talk about this problem going on with modern women and this discussion that has been rampant
all over YouTube and the Internet. It's just a conversation that I've stayed out of for a
little while. But now I'm starting to formulate my opinions on this and I wanted to share them
with you. Yes, I do believe that modern women, a lot of these women, in this day and age, are
causing some problems and they are saying some things that are hypocritical... I'll
talk about that in just a second, and just giving bad advice to other men and that's
what's causing some of these big problems. And I wanted to share some of this with you because
I want to make sure you don't get caught up in this trap or get confused when you hear modern
women talking about some of these topics. I want you to stay focused on what the correct
way to attract women is and what the best way for you to go about this whole dating thing is.
Let's start with one of the first things that seems to be a problem that I'm hearing from modern
women. Well. they're being very hypocritical. They're saying things like, they don't need a
man. And I'm not saying that they do need a man, I'm telling you, this is what they're saying.
A lot of them are saying, I don't need a man. I don't need a man. I don't need a man. That's fine.
But then at the same time, what makes that hypocritical, a little strange that they're
saying that is the fact that they're also wanting a man to pay the bills or be the one who picks
up the first date. This is a big conversation that's been going on for decades about who should
pay for the first day. I'm of the belief that men should pay for the first date, but that's a whole
discussion altogether. My point here is, it's very hypocritical to say that you don't need a man,
but all of a sudden when the first date comes around and the bill comes, that all of a sudden,
you want him to pay. What happened to this whole equality thing? I think it'd be better
if a woman said something like, I don't need a man and therefore then made sure that she splits
the bill no matter what. That would make them at least look the least hypocritical as possible,
if they wanted to look that way. I also don't like that a lot of these modern women are
saying things that are putting down men. A lot of this is that they're putting down men
in order to bring themselves up. And I know that a lot of women are saying well, women have been
put down for years and they couldn't vote and they couldn't own property and all these things.
And I understand that, I understand. But I don't think it's going to help to put down men and call
everything toxic masculinity and talking about things that men are doing completely wrong
only to bring them up as in a way that they're saying that females are superior to men.
This is a big problem too. Next... they are trying to say that they want men to be masculine and
feminine. at the same time. What they're saying is they want you... ok, you listening... they
want you to be feminine. They also want you to be masculine. What does this mean? They want you to
be vulnerable. They say men should be vulnerable and talk about his feelings and all that stuff.
Let me tell you something... the only reason, and no one's talking about this, the only reason
why women are saying that they want a man to be vulnerable is because of their own insecurities
thinking the man doesn't like them. They know that if a man is vulnerable with them, then he likes
them. That's the deep analysis there. But this is a problem because they're saying to all their guy
friends and they're putting onto the world, guys be vulnerable. This is getting confusing because
a man is like okay, I'll be vulnerable. I'll tell a woman all my problems. And then what happens?
She starts to become un-attracted to him now that he's puking all of his emotions and problems onto
her when men should be working those things out on their own, talking to therapists and talking
to their friends, and not trying to get a woman to solve his problems. They want him to be feminine.
But they're also saying all they want him to be masculine and do all the masculine things. We're
getting these two ideas here. It's confusing men, it's causing problems. The next one,
the big problem here is a conversation that's happening between modern women is that
they think that their career and they think that their studies and degrees and all those things
are what men find attractive. Here's the thing... this has nothing to do with you.
I guess if any women are watching me, they'll get some advice here. But I think it's an interesting
conversation, that women are thinking that when they are getting higher in education status,
or financial status, that's more attractive. But we know as guys, that's not that attractive to us.
Yeah, it might be to some guys a little bit. Like oh yeah, that's cool. She's super smart, whatever.
Oh, that's awesome, she's got a doctorate. You might think, that's sexy. But it's not doing much
for you in terms of attraction. You know what makes you attracted to a woman. I don't even
have to say it. The issue is that they're thinking that, but here's where it gets tough. Then I come
on and I say something like oh that's not that attractive. Or all these other dating coaches
are saying too, that's not attractive. And they're like, that's the man trying to keep the woman
down. No, it's not. I don't care what women do. I don't think that they shouldn't have more money.
I don't think that they shouldn't get more of an education. Of course, they should. If they want
to do that, they can do that. But what they've got to know is that's not attractive to a man
necessarily. And that they have to work on more things that are more feminine that will be more
attractive to a man. There you go. These are some things to think about. I might be making more
videos. Press the like if you want to make more videos on this topic and this big conversation
that's going around YouTube. Happy to do it. It's interesting to have this conversation with you.
We'll see where this video takes us. Thanks for watching. I'll see you on the next video.