- So when I saw you, I decided that I would date you.
And through our conversations, I decided
that I would still date you!
- Yes!
- So I'm 31, which is an age
I wanna meet a person that can be
well, first of all, that's an autonomous adult.
Just a person that is their own thing,
that does their own stuff,
but still likes the idea of building of team.
So I'm talking in the long form
so looking for in my life?
I'm looking for an actual partner.
I'm looking for a person that
I can start to plan a life with.
- Will you sing to me, please?
- Hmm, what can I sing?
♪ You are my sunshine ♪
♪ My only sunshine ♪
♪ You make me happy ♪
♪ When skies are gray ♪
♪ You'll never know dear ♪
♪ How much I love you ♪
♪ Please don't take my sunshine away ♪
- And of all the people that have died,
the one whose death was hardest for me was my father.
He actually passed away in December.
- Oh, I'm sorry.
- Yeah, and I know you had mentioned nine years ago, right,
your father had passed? - Yeah.
On New Year's Eve, 2006, at 10:31 PM.
Was he sick?
- You know what, it kind of was super sudden, actually.
- Oh gosh.
My dad was sick for a long time.
- Yeah.
- And you never want anyone that you love to die, obviously,
but when he passed away, it was a little different.
It was time, so it was like a huge relief almost,
which you never wanna say, but gosh.
Seeing someone get sick for three years was shitty.
So, I'm sorry for your loss. - Oh.
- It gets better.
You all right?
- It's good to hear.
It's super nice to meet you.
- I am so in love with you.
And I love you.
- Well, I'm still in love with you, so.
- [Together] We are in love.
- Yes - Yes.
- We are in love.
- Head over heels in love.
He's my number one forever.
- Are you in love with me?
- Yeah, I'm in love with you.
- Cool.
- I love you, too.
- Good.
- Wanna answer on three?
- Sure.
Okay, ready?
- [Together] One, two, three.
- Yes. - Yes.
- Yes. - Yes .
- It's been almost a decade that we've been together.
- And we've been married for three years.
- Three years.
- Whoa. - I don't know if I could even
drive home without you .
- That's a good point.
I kind of navigate everything.
- Yeah you're the one that does the map.
You value yourself as an individual
and you give me space to be an individual.
- Yeah.
- And we are who we are together.
- And we're still best friends.
- Yeah we are.
- [Together] After all this time.
- Did you just see that ?
- Dream date.
- Ooh.
- Woo, um.
- I would probably go to Disneyland.
- Yeah, pretty much bring some flowers.
- A scary movie and we both have popcorn
and we reach each other's hand into the popcorn
and then like go outside and in pouring raining.
I drop her off and that's where we share our first kiss.
- Me, going to the movies alone, and no one bothering me.
- My dream date would be with Tom Felton,
who plays Draco Malfoy in all the Harry Potter movies.
Oh my goodness he's so .
- I think love is, uh.
Love is a way,
actually I'm not really sure how to answer.
- Love means a lot to me.
It means a lot.
I love my family, my grandchildren,
all of that.
It means a lot.
- I got a Facebook friend request from someone
and I usually don't respond to friend requests on Facebook
from people that I don't know,
but this guy was super hot, so I said yes.
So then we started chatting back and forth
and he asked me out on a date.
We had this amazing first date.
He starts talking about poetry and how much he loves poetry
and it was like, Oh my god,
that's so funny because I love poetry as well,
and I had found this poem years ago
somewhere online, but there was no author.
There was no name attached to this poem,
but I loved it so much that I printed it out
on a little piece of paper and put it in my wallet.
And every so often,
I would kind of remember that it was there
and I would look at it and I was like,
"Oh, we had this poem is great."
And I'd put it back in my wallet and then
six months would go by and I'd find it again.
So we're sitting there at dinner,
and I said, "Oh you're gonna love this poem.
"It's my favorite poem."
And I handed it to him and he goes, "Is this a joke?"
And I said, "No, why?"
And he said, "Well, I wrote this poem."
And, you know, my mind was blown.
I had been carrying his poem in my wallet
for like six or eight years, whatever it was.
"Wait for the guy who kisses your forehead,
"who wants to show you off to the world
"when you're wearing sweats.
"Who holds your hand in front of his friends,
"Wait for the guy who is constantly reminding you
"of how much he cares about you
"and how lucky he is to have you.
"Wait for the guy who turns to his friends and says,
"That's him.
"Wait for the guy who only wants you."
- I wondered what you were thinking.
- How wonderful it was to just sit here
and look at my wife for a change.
Without discussing work, business
and situations.
- When I look at you really closely,
I realize how much I need you
and what you mean to me.
Because that's the truth.
And I couldn't imagine being with anybody else.
- Can you guys demonstrate to us good kissing?
- You want to?
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