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"D-W-M-A-S Finest"
dwmas_Finest wants to know:
"How do I get pl - 'pople' to be... 'pert'... wh..."
"How do I get people to be quiet while I'm watching TV?"
Good question. I want that answer, too.
Oh, good luck. That's a tough one.
Straight up just tell them to shut up.
People are people, and it's hard to shut them up.
A good silent, but deadly fart helps.
You need to yell at them and say, "Hey, be quiet or Imma kick you."
Go up to them and say "Shhh! Be quiet!"
Shhh! Be quiet! You're annoying my TV time.
Try to ask it as nice as possible.
If you're too mean, they might be like, "Hey, I'm not doing what you're asking me to, because you asked meanly."
You have to negotiate and make deals.
They don't like it when you're loud, so that's how it feels for you.
The other thing that you want to do that might be helpful is to turn on the closed captioning.
Try to distract them. Like, if it's a little girl, just give them a bunch of dolls and put it in another room.
And if it's a little boy, and he likes Hot Wheels, just get a little car and push it into another room.
But if you're an adult, um...
I don't know how to do that.
Bottom line, if you're really frustrated, buy your own TV and go watch it by yourself.
OK, this comes from "live your life and carry on"
That's pretty good right there.
"When is a good age to start dating?"
Be at least out of middle school.
How many parents do you know that like... "Oh yeah, we met in third grade and we've just been love pugs ever since"?
15, 16, 17
Most of those people turn out just fine in life.
My brother's 15 and he is not, so it might be over 15.
At 15, like when you have quinceanera, if you're a Hispanic, then like you're a woman.
[At] 15 you could start.
In my day, when I was young, my dad didn't let me go out on dates until I was 15.
And looking back, that was fine.
16. I think that's when you're more mature and ready to handle a relationship.
Sometimes the law is 18. You have to be 18 and up.
17 and a half bay-bos!
You're about to be an adult and you're pretty young.
So, you have enough time to marry another person if you want to break up.
I think we know ourselves the best and you'll be able to know when you're ready to date.
You have to get your parents' permission first.
You start when it's right for you and when your parents agree.
If you can get pregnant, or get somebody pregnant
then you're probably the age where you could be dating. It's a question of *should* you be?
"Edel C"... Edel... "e-DEL", I don't know
"How do you deal with a boss who drives you crazy?"
[chuckles softly]
Well... I don't work
so I wouldn't know.
There were a few times when I thought the boss was crazy, and he really wasn't.
He was just - he was just being a good boss.
If your boss drives you crazy, you most likely do not enjoy your job.
So I say do something you enjoy, ah, so
basically what I'm telling you is just quit.
I worked for many many years in the legal profession as a secretary
and lawyers are some of the craziest people in the world.
So you either decide you're gonna put up with it
or you go get another job.
Try your best to fire him.
Just try not to hang out with the boss too much
try to ignore him, and try not to - just try not to be in the same room with him a lot.
I mean, it's your boss, man. You gotta deal with it.
Don't worry about your crazy boss. Save some money, and then start looking for another job.
Just go with the flow. You're gettin' paid... to let the boss drive you crazy.
Quit the job!
I'm done!
but I'm not saying I did, but that is just an example.
Kaylee F wants to know:
"how do you handle peer pressure?"
You ignore it, simple. You ignore it.
Just don't think about it.
Just be yourself.
That's funny because we still have peer pressure, even at my age.
You know how you best handle it? Pay no attention to it.
I know that seems hard, but if you pay no attention they have no power over you.
If you don't take pressure well, just... blow everything off.
Anything they would say, just drown it out. In one ear, out the other.
Peer pressure's a tricky thing to handle, cuz it is hard watching all your friends do something and you not doing it.
You really have to kinda know who you are.
Especially when it comes to like drug and alcohol and all that stuff.
If it's something that you're not comfortable with, then you should not do it no matter what.
All I can tell you is to be strong, and maybe check your own beliefs.
You've gotta stand for something, or you will fall for anything.
Whatever people said to me, or you know, if they asked me to do something, I'd say "You know what?"
"I don't want to, and if you have a problem with that, you can go f**k yourself"
"Like, I'm gonna do me and you do you, and if you're gonna have to, like, force me to do something I don't want to, you're not my friend."
The best way to handle peer pressure is decide: who are you? What's important to you? What do you wanna do?
And believe that what you think is really more important than what other people are thinking.
And that's hard to do. But it's do-able
and it might help if you found a friend who believed the same way so you can kind of support one another.
Peer pressure becomes very easy to handle as you get older
because you don't really give a flying flip about what anyone else thinks.
Oh, this is from The Easter Bunny!!
"The Easter Bunny" wants to know:
"How do I stop watching so much YouTube? It's become a problem."
I say this on behalf of Youtube:
[whisper] Don't stop watching YouTube.
Don't stop watching YouTube. It's not a problem. You're fine.
I don't know. I - I have addiction too and I can't
that's all I do, just eat, sleep, drink, watch YouTube, and play catch.
I suggest don't stop watching. Because I'm on YouTube.
So why would I want YOU to stop watching ME?
I don't know how to help you man, I'm sorry.
Go see a therapist maybe?
If I knew that, I would tell you, but I don't know that.
It's become a problem for me too.
Turn off the computer.
That's it.
Close your browser, close your laptop or turn off your monitor.
Problem solved.
Well, just click out the video right now, and then, uh, leave.
That - that's a start.
- (Fine Bros, from behind camera) No! Nooo! - [Seth chuckles ] Ok no, jk!
Find a different interest.
Try reading a book.
You can really get lost in it, but you do have to have a time limit.
Set a time limit for yourself and you say:
"Alright, I'm gonna do YouTube for x number of minutes."
When the timer rings, you go, "Ok, I'm done."
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