Hey, what's up guys?
Kris Krohn here.
Today, I'm going to be sharing with you 4 secrets on how to be a successful as possible
in your 20's.
If you're not doing this 4 things, you're screwed.
Check it out.
So, the first of the 4 things that you need if you really want to be successful is you
have to have focus.
A lot of people don't know exactly what they want in life and frankly, that's true of most
people until the day they die.
We're so familiar with what we don't want.
But we don't know what actually we do want.
So, today, I'm going to share with you somethings that you've got to be thinking about.
When it comes to focus, 3 things.
You've got to be thinking about your body, your health.
You have to have goals for your health.
If not, you're going to wind up fat, nearly dead or probably not having the life that
you want.
Number 2, you got to have financial goals.
Money, right?
Like, what's your plan?
Because being successful absolutely takes financial planning.
And then the 3rd one is what do you want in your relationships?
What do you want them to look like?
What's going to work for you?
What's going to bring you joy?
What's going to bring you happiness?
You got to get clear on what you want specifically when it comes to your body, money and health.
And you got to put your focus on that.
If you can't do that, then you're going to be just chasing whatever circumstance and
problems comes up in life.
And that's how people wake up.
Late in their 40's or 50's and say, "What I've done with my life?"
Not very much.
The second thing that you need are some brand new AS IF beliefs.
What is an AS IF belief?
I was sitting down talking with a new friend of mine just right out there on the deck couple
of night ago.
Real late.
And he confided in me and he said, "You know Kris?
I just...
I don't feel successful."
And I said, "Dude, what are you talking about?
You sold the company, you made some great money, you've had a great career.
You have a career high in demand.
You've got 4 amazing children.
A wife that loves you.
What do you mean you're not successful?"
He's like, "I don't know.
I guess until I'm driving that car and I can pick the one that I want, then I'll feel successful."
And I said, "No, you won't."
And he said, "What?"
Dude, are you kidding me?
If you're operating system today says that when I have this, I'll feel successful.
It has nothing to do with the bloody car.
By the time you get the car, you'll replace it with something else you need to feel successful.
You never start feeling successful after you've had a number of achievements.
The only way you'll feel successful is when you tell yourself you are and you start believing
it.
This is what I call AS IF beliefs.
And AS IF belief means that you're going to believe in what you want as if it's actually
already occurred.
Now, some of you are like, "Well, Kris.
That doesn't really make sense."
But I'm going to tell you right now that I believe that was millionaire before I was
one.
And I'm not a billionaire yet, but I've been believing I am for the last 10 years.
In fact, I know the exact day and moment that I declare that I am.
And pretty much anything I've been able to create stemed from a faith and belief in myself
first before I brought about the actions that a person with that level of belief can to
actually produce the result that I wanted.
So, here's what that means.
It means that number 1: When you know what you're focusing on...
"What do I want from my health and body?
What do I want for my relationships?
What do I want financially?"
It means that I want you to develop AS IF beliefs for each one of those right now as
if you already have them.
That's what it means to have an AS IF beliefs.
So, for example, if you're trying to lose 50 pounds so that you can weigh 200 pounds
then you want to believe that you're 200 pounds.
You got to believe and live as if you're already there.
Because a person 200 pounds makes different physical decisions.
They exercise different at the gym.
They eat different things.
If you want to become that person and if you want to become, you got to believe that you
are.
It's the same thing when it comes to money.
You got to be willing to believe that you're something before you actually are.
If you say, "Kris, I'm on this channel because I want to be a successful investor."
Then guess what?
Then you need to believe in advance that you already are a successful investor.
And in your mind, you want to see yourself already having done several deals this year.
Because you start acting like that person.
Does it make sense?
Same thing with relationships.
You need to decide what kind of relationships you want right now upfront in your life.
You want to decide how wholesome, how good, how nurturing, how supportive they are.
The closer you are to understanding what it is you want, the higher likelihood you have
actually getting it.
Most of us focus on what we don't want and that's why we get that.
So, you got to have focus but number 2: You've got to back it up with belief.
Number 3 is now it comes down to consistency with habits.
Because if you know what you want and you know how to believe then it's got to be followed
up with you executing certain actions.
And so, the question is what do you need to be doing to actually fulfill those focus.
What do you need to do to actually make those goals if you will, actually happen.
Everyday there's an actions step that you can take.
You don't need to achieve it today.
You just need to be in process of it.
You got to be putting effort in it.
it's got to be obsessed up here.
It's got to be on your mind.
It's got to be actually something that you're dwelling on and that you're pondering about,
right?
So, this 3rd one is you got to be consistent in the tasks or the habits that are actually
going to make that inevitable future.
For example, if I'm trying to change my body or I'm trying to put more muscle and I'm trying
to do something like that, then I want to think about it everyday.
I want to become obsessed with it.
I want to lean and guide my actions.
The 3rd step is really is to consistently take action in the right way because when
we're inconsistent, we lose focus and then we're out of sight, out of mind.
Focus with consistency means to keep that focus and you got to back it up not just with
beliefs.
You got to back it up with actions.
So, how do you do that on a daily basis.
With your body, you got to work that body every single day.
With money, you're probably going to invest money which means you got to be savers to
become an investor.
So, how can you work on that every single day?
I mean your relationships, dude how do you achieve an unconditional love?
How can you actually learned to be the lover to be the person the connector that says,
"Hey, I show up and I'm connecting with you whether you show up or not.
I'm developing unconditional love.
It means that the habit has to express itself daily.
And number 4, the final one is probably my favorite.
It's audacity.
Tenacity.
It's to be bold.
It's to step up.
And no matter what the goal is.
No matter what you're trying to accomplish that you're willing to show up and do something
dynamic to make it happen.
It's not easy always to put the right food in your mouth or to wake up and go to the
gym.
It's not always easy to actually be the bigger person and actually forgives someone when
they've wronged you because you're striving to become the kind of person that can be in
an unconditional loving type of relationship.
It's not always easy to be the saver and the investor when the part of you just wants to
splurge and go to best buy and buy that big freaking TV or go buy the new car.
Reality is it does take some discipline.
But I think in the end, number 4 really comes down to tenacity, audacity.
Bold enough that says, "I'm going to do this."
Most of the people in the world aren't consistently working on these 3 areas of life.
And today, we've talked about knowing what you want to achieve in those areas, we've
talked about the belief that it's going to require and to put yourself into that future
and to get yourself conscious mind to see yourself being there each and everyday.
So you take action like that.
The 3rd one is to take action.
And then last one is to be bold.
To be daring.
To do big things instead of small things.
These 4 things, these 4 habits, these 4 disciplines will help you become extraordinary successful
at any time in your life.
But if you can do it consistently here in your 20's, you're going to change the game
and the dialogue for your destiny.
So, my friend, that's what it takes.
And those are the 4 tips that I got for you today.
Hey, thank you so much for watching today's video.
I hope it was helpful.
Please comment below and share other tips that you found for being successful in your
20's.
Or what you think about the 4 tips that I've shared with you today.
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