Hey, there.
Adam LoDolce from SexyConfidence.com, where I help the 21st-century woman create a love
life that she absolutely freaking loves.
In this video right now, I'm going to be talking about the 13 -- yes, you heard it -- 13 signs
that your new relationship is going to end in heartbreak.
Make sure you watch this full video.
You like the guy, but you also liked the last guy, and he broke up with you because you
don't like onion rings.
The wonders of love.
Now you want to be smart and read the signs before getting in too deep.
Number one.
Your friends and family: They don't like him.
Now, I'm not talking about your negative Nancy friend who literally doesn't like anyone;
I'm talking like no one likes this guy and no one has anything good to say about this
guy.
It almost seems to you that no one sees him for the way he really is, but in reality,
it's you who probably doesn't see him for who he really is.
Number two: You're constantly analyzing about whether or not to break up with him.
Now, I get it.
In a new relationship, I think it's natural to have a little bit of questions about whether
or not it's right, but this goes a little bit further.
If it's plaguing your mind about what's wrong with him, then chances are there's something
seriously wrong.
Number three: You're only attracted him because he's hard to get.
Is he evasive?
Is he flaky?
Does that ... turn you on a little bit?
If so, you're going to want to do some more inner work as to why it is that you're only
into people who really outwardly don't want you.
Number four: You don't know anything about this guy except that he's good in bed.
Now, in my experience, relationships founded only on sex: usually they end up only going
about three months, because that's right around the point when sex starts to matter less.
Number five: He cheated on his last girlfriend with you, and now he's dating you.
Once a cheater, always a cheater.
Number six: He's super secretive about his phone.
If that dude won't give you the password to his phone to let you skip to the next song
on Pandora, then some bad shit is happening on that phone.
Number seven: You've caught him in many lies before.
Here's the problem with lying.
Once you start catching people lying all the time, then you're always going to be wondering
what lies haven't you caught him in?
Number eight: You have unrealistic expectations of what a relationship really is.
Maybe you want a man who's really caring and soft and sensitive but you also want a man
who's really exciting and hard to get, or you want a man who's really tall and really
handsome but you don't want a man who attracts the attention of other women.
These are the types of things that are going to happen in relationships.
You can't have one without the other, so you want to set your expectations with what a
relationship really looks like.
Number nine: When you two argue, you're worried that he might physically hurt you.
Point blank, a real man never touches a woman.
Number 10: He's never content with anything in life.
Now, there are some people out there whose homeostasis of happiness is always that they're
just not really happy.
They always want more out of love, they want more out of life.
If you're finding that you're with a person who they're never content with anything and
they always want more out of everything, then you're going to find that the relationship
will generally end.
Number 11: He always puts his own needs over yours.
Now, I personally think that a healthy relationship means that you put his needs first and he
puts your needs first, thus creating an amazing balance.
Number 12 is you expect that a boyfriend will solve all of your life's problems.
Now, a boyfriend might solve your love life's problems right now, but that shitty job you
have right now is still a shitty job.
Number 13, finally, is that he's emotionally polarizing.
This basically means that from his perspective, either your relationship is doing really,
really well and he's really, really into it or it's doing really, really poorly.
He's just not able to just be and just be normal, be in a normal relationship.
He's either really good or really, really bad.
There you have it.
Those are the 13 signs your new relationship will end in heartbreak.
Which of these signs have you seen in a relationship, and did it end in heartbreak?
Give a comment right there below.
Also, if you enjoyed this video and you want to avoid heartbreak in the future, make sure
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every single stage of dating, love, and relationships.
Thank you so much for watching, and I will speak to you, you sexy lady, next Thursday.
Bye bye.