one thing really stood out that i wanted to share with you today and it happened
on tony robbins stage welcome to the dean graziosi show all
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i want to share one thing this is relevant to you with everything i'm
reading combine that there was a gentleman when
tony does date with destiny he literally asks if there's anybody in
the audience that's thinking about suicide
pretty tough question to ask and tony says i'm guessing about 10 with the size
of this audience nine people raised their hand
this gentleman raises his hand and tony tony walks out in the audience gets
right off to him says can tell me what's going on in your life he's like well my
mom was sick when i was young so i quit
college and decided to take care of her for a year
and he said a year turned into 20-something years
and she lasted and i was there taking care of her and he's like i never dated
i didn't go out and now my mom passed away and he said i
am the person who gets made fun of at the office i don't know how to dress
i've never been with a woman i've never even kissed a woman i don't know how to
date i've tried online dating and i embarrass
myself there's no purpose in this life i go to
work i get nothing i'm not i don't want to be here anymore
so tony does some things that are completely shocked i want to go up and
hug the guy but tony was right he's the one who
knows how to do this tony shocked him and said
all right that story would make me want to kill myself how long you been telling
that crap story and that's only done not because he
doesn't care he wants to shock him out of this
state of like getting into it right so long story short what i want to share
with you is this tony does some things he gets he gets
him up on stage and he gets two chairs and he puts a chair over here and he
puts a chair over here and he puts a white board here and he puts a white
board over here and this is the lesson for today he says
to him okay i'm i hear all the things you're going
through tell me what you don't want so tony writes really sloppy if you've ever
been to his event you can't even read what he says he says
what he what don't you want and the guy says
he says i don't want to be alone i'm going to just scribble i'm not going to
write all this out i'm just going to tell you this how fast tony cause i
don't want to be alone i don't want to get made fun of
i don't want to feel insecure i don't want to
i don't want to be in a job i hate and this guy goes on
and tony can't write as fast as what he doesn't want he doesn't want to be sad
at night he doesn't want to feel that he's facing
the world all by himself he doesn't want to feel like a weirdo when he goes to he
literally said weirdo when he goes to a party
and leaves insecure and tony's just writing and scribbling like this and
tony's making a mess and he's like okay so he gets tony tony gets him up
comes over to this other chair sits him in the other chair and says what
do want what do you want he says okay tell me what you want and the guy sits
there and goes
um i don't want to be alone anymore don't use ah no no no that's on this
list that's what you don't you don't want to be alone okay tell me
he says he thinks he says
i don't get made fun of anymore tony that's what you don't want
this gentleman could not say for minutes it seemed like an hour what he
wanted so think about that that's like getting
in your car and you're going to go on a trip and you
get in the car and the family's in the car the kids are in the back and you say
we're going on a trip um we're not going to go to florida let's go
well where the hell are you going and then i combine that with all everything
i'm reading and knowing my personal life and
the things i've manifested and thought about
when you think about what you don't want if you think about i don't want to be
alone i don't want to be alone i don't want to be alone
i don't want to be alone what happens you are alone
because what you put your attention on is what you get this poor guy did not
have a list of what he wanted finally he said i want to be in a
relationship tony said hallelujah he wants something what kind of girl do
you want he went oh i don't know he didn't even he wanted a relationship
he barely knew he wanted a relationship when he said he wanted a relationship he
didn't know what kind of girl what what color hair how old what she did for
a living do you want somebody who's positive negative what he he literally
spent so many years thinking about what he didn't want
all he kept doing is compounding and manifesting what he didn't want
and i watched this live this guy's life change when he did simply one thing
made a list of what he wanted and tony said to him and then again all the
things that i've done in my own personal life
what if you woke up tomorrow and made sure you didn't think about what you
didn't want you just envisioned what you wanted and
it was coming true tomorrow will be the same no matter what
you tell your brain if you're in debt if you have an illness
right now if you don't feel the best you're going through a divorce or a
troubled relationship or you're in a dead relationship and you don't know how
to fix it here's the thing if you focus on what
you don't want it's still going to be there
either way but what if you focus on making that relationship finding a spark
or maybe ending something that's really bad or finding somebody new
or focus on yes i'm in debt right now but i'm going to focus on
where i want to go when i'm not out of debt because again tomorrow will be
there and you will be in living in the moment
you're in and you have a choice do i want to focus on what's wrong and
what i don't want or do i want to focus on what i do want
that was such a powerful thing when i got to watch that firsthand
and i watched him go from this guy in a state of wanting to kill himself
writing his what he wanted and tony went deep on him do you know 15 minutes later
he was up on stage they spiked his hair they
rolled up his sleeves he was on stage dancing like i had never
seen the smile it was probably the big he said it was the most fun he had ever
had in his life only because he stopped thinking for
just one minute what he didn't want and started thinking what he did so my
challenge to you this week
is how many things are on your i don't want list
that are causing you to get exactly that and i want you to delete that list that
i want you to make the do want list and try each day this week
to focus on what you want even if you're going through hell even
if you're in a tough time in your life focus on what you want
and watch how it uplifts you and can take you on another level listen i do
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