Why haven't you checked out the program called Hooked?
You were obviously having trouble with meeting attracting women.
I'm not saying that to put you down.
I was in the exact same situation over 10 years ago.
I had no idea what to say to girls to make them interested or how to flirt with them.
You got to get yourself on board as soon as possible and learn the proper steps and techniques
on how to attract women.
You don't have to be tall, good looking, or rich.
None of those things to be able to spike the emotions of a woman.
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In this video, we're going to be diving into what it means to flirt with a girl who might
not be as interested in you.
I want to talk about this concept called calibration.
It's a little bit more of an advanced topic.
I'm not saying it's advanced like it's something that you shouldn't be using now.
Even if you're a beginner status, you can still do this.
What I'm saying is it takes a little bit more work to get good at this.
It takes a little bit more of understanding how someone is feeling in an interaction.
Let's get into this.
This idea of calibration is not a term that I've made up before.
I've heard it from other dating gurus.
The way I use this in terms of how to calibrate to an interaction is you got to understand
how a woman is feeling in an interaction.
A lot of guys will go to a woman, do an approach, maybe during the day, in a bar, and they get
this gut feeling.
Because you're human, you're talking to another human, you can tell if a woman is interested
in you or not.
The signs that she's not interested, she's looking away, she's looking at her phone,
she's not giving you eye contact, she's not smiling at you, she's not giving you these
flirty signals.
If you're going over there, and you're trying to hit on her, pick her up and you're trying
to say some flirty line or a compliment, it's obviously not going to work.
You don't want to start with going too sexual or too flirty if the girl isn't initially
interested.
You calibrate, which means you adapt to how she's feeling.
You got to pick this up if you do a lot of approaches.
That's why I talked about Hooked program at the very beginning of this video.
That teaches you how to do all these approaches, get out there and beat your approach anxiety.
Once you're doing all these approaches, you're going to understand how she's feeling in the
interaction.
Once you know how she's feeling, you're going to get this calibration.
You're going to know whether you can flirt more and amp up the sexual tension, or if
you need to what's called get more comfort with her.
You dial it back and you talk more about topics that aren't necessarily, flirting with her
and stuff that's more of a get to know you.
You toggle back and forth between flirting and get to know you.
You go back and forth until you can ramp up the flirtiness, when you see that you're showing
more signs of interest.
Signs of interest being that she's asking you questions back, she's looking at you,
spacing you in conversation, she's laughing, she's smiling and maybe she's playing with
her hair a little bit.
When you get those kind of initial signs of interest, you can push it further faster.
You don't want to jump in too fast and too flirty because she's like, what's going on?
Who is this guy?
What's happening?
You're going to scare her off.
You got to get to know her a little bit.
I'm also going to put a link in the description below to this thing called Chick Crack.
It's a video you can get for free.
It is a video teaching you all the topics of conversation that women love.
You might want to use that to start off, to get things flowing with her, then you can
start flirting with her more.
If you want to know how to flirt, I got about 30 videos on this channel to teach you how
to do that.
We're not going to go into the concept of flirting.
Just understand that the concept is something that you dial up, dial down, toggle back and
forth between to get her to get interested in you.
That's why this is sort of an art.
This is why this is something that isn’t necessarily 100% logical like if this then
that.
You gotta go in there.
Use a little bit of intuition which you already have, and understanding how she's feeling,
then you can use the logic of I can tell right now, I'm feeling she's not really interested.
Let's dial it back a little bit.
Let's get to know her a little bit.
Let's come up with a fun conversation to talk about.
Wait, now she's showing a little more interest.
Let me show a little bit more interest in her.
Let me tease her.
That's flirting technique.
Let me be a bit more playful.
You go back and forth, and boom, you ramp it up to the point where you're super flirting
with her.
At that point, you can maybe go for a kiss, you can take around to a new location, maybe
get a cup of coffee if you guys are out during the day.
If it's at a bar, you take her to the bar, grab a drink, go somewhere else, go outside,
whatever it is, you can even take her home if it escalates to that point.
Or at the very least, get her number to see her another time.
I hope I didn't overwhelm you here.
I'm going to summarize this again.
In order to flirt with a girl who's not so much interested, you're not sure, you got
to dial it back, and go back and forth between comfort and flirting.
If you want to learn how to do enough approaches where you can be able to get this process
down to a science so you're seeing actual results and meeting a lot more women, get
the Hooked program.
We can guide you along step by step so you can understand how to put this stuff in action.
It doesn't matter how old you are, at least you have to be 18, but doesn't matter how
much you're making or what you look like, there are techniques in this program that
teach you exactly what to do to be able to pull the triggers of attraction and get her
interested.
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Let’s hear comment from you.
I'll be there talking to you as well.
Hope you understand this will break down a little bit and I'll see you on the next video.