It is so freakin hot. We are very close to the equator right now. Tripp Kramer
here from www.trippadvice.com. If you're watching this then you know me, hello
again. If you're watching this and you've never heard of me, I'd like to introduce
myself. My name is Tripp and I am your personal dating coach.
On today's episode, today's vlog we are gonna be talking about how to get a
girlfriend in this crazy year of 2018. A lot different from maybe back in the
1950's. Open your eyes and look at me. No I don't think I will kiss you.
Although you need kissing badly. That's what's wrong with you. You should be
kissed and often and by someone who knows how.
I'm Bruce Nolan for Eyewitness News back to you.
So what's much different from 2018 to 2017, 2016 well not much but this is the
first video I've ever done where it's talking about the year and I think that
there is something different about the times now in terms of getting a
girlfriend and I think one of them is something I've talked about in the past
on my channel. A loss of attention span. I think everyone's attention span is a lot
lower. I think right now it's a lot different because we're playing this
digital game meaning we are now on apps and online dating and it's become
completely normal to meet women online. Much different than years ago. Now over
here at Tripp Advice I do things a little bit differently
in terms of helping guys get girlfriends. I take a way different route than
the normal route and that's because this is the thing that actually works. A lot
of people what they do is they just hope for the best and hopefully a woman comes
along who they get introduced to. Maybe at work, maybe at school, maybe they get
introduced in their social circle. That's a very common way but over here at Tripp
Advice, what we're doing is we're being more proactive about it. Instead of being
reactive. Reactive means that you're just allowing things that kind of happened to
you but proactive means that we're gonna actually do something about it. I'd like
to believe that we're moving towards a place in our society where we're not
settling anymore and we're trying to get the best. On the other hand, that could
be very dangerous because if you're always looking for the next best thing,
you're never gonna find it but on the positive side, at least we're always
trying to get something that is really suited for us and I believe that that
same concept still applies here in the dating world so what we do is we take
both of those concepts and we marry them and then we get to the point where we're
saying hey this is gonna be a little bit of a numbers game and we're gonna be
trying to meet a lot of girls to find the one that's best suited for us. Quick
update: I am in Sri Lanka still under the most southern point in a place called
Marissa. Gonna be here for the next week. I highly recommend if anyone is going to
go to Sri Lanka to check out Marissa because it's one of the
nicest beaches that I've been to pretty much in the Southeast Asia.
Minus maybe Koh Tao in Thailand but I suggest you go.
Headed right now to a little secret paradise area. Gonna do some droning
take some photographs, takes a little walk to get there.
Made it to the little section of paradise. Check it out.
Alright Tripp Advice night mode and we're gonna give you the plan of action
and the plan of action here is to actually take your week and set aside
certain days that you're gonna be using different mediums or different types of
ways to meet different girls so the best thing that you could do right now in
2018 is take advantage of every single possible opportunity that you have. That
comes in the form of meeting girls in person, which I talked to you about a lot,
meeting girls on apps, meeting girls through online dating and meeting girls
through events and you can find those events by going online such as meetup
com or even using Facebook events to find gatherings where people are going
to be so you have a chance to meet another new girl. Here's just a sample
schedule for your week and everyday use one app and do swiping for about 10
minutes. Every for example Thursday Saturday maybe even Sunday you go out to
meet a girl at night where something is going on. Maybe every Monday and
Wednesday you're doing an event that you found on Facebook or meetup.com. Maybe
everyday alongside the 10 minutes of the apps, you're doing some messaging on one
of the dating site platforms and the reason why I'm saying using only one app
and one dating site platform is because we're already doing a lot here.
We don't need to overwhelm ourselves. I like to just kind of keep it simple.
Use one app, use one site, go to a couple events per weekend, go out in a social
setting a couple nights for a week like a bar like a club. If you don't want to
do that because you feel like you're too old or it's not your style,
that's fine. Another thing you can do is go out during the day or make
it a point every Saturday to run some errands. All your errands are done on
Saturday so when you leave the house it's giving you an excuse not to just go
run the errand but meet another girl. See how this is working?
Yes! Say it again. Yes!
Make me believe it. Yes! Yes! Yes!
In 2018 you have so many opportunities and I want you to take advantage of them
and if you read the title and I said how to get the "hot" girlfriend in 2018 that's
because now you have your choice. You have more choice, more opportunities. This
is not like I said earlier like 50-70 years ago where you can only
meet the people who are in your town or through your community. Now the sky's the
limit. I have people who are
asking me questions in Tripp's Corner, my private Facebook group, and
through comments on YouTube about how to attract the girl that they met online or
they met somewhere from work and they live thousands of miles away. Now
we're connected to so many more people and that's what I want from you.
That's the big message of this video is how do you get yourself out there more?
And I gave you that answer. Is it easy? No it's not easy. Is there gonna be a lot of
work? Yeah it's gonna be a lot of work but anything
that derives the result that you want in this world is gonna take a lot of work
and energy and effort that you might not think you have to do but then again I'd
say the ends absolutely justify the means.
Alright I want to see if any of you are actually gonna do this. I give a lot of
advice on this channel but I want to see actually who's taking the advice so
write down below if you're gonna use a schedule or something similar to it.
If you have another idea of a schedule you could do similar to what I said, write it
down in the comments below. Let's get this going, let's talk about this and
give each other ideas so we can help each other be able to complete a
schedule like this so we can be in front of more women so you could have the
girlfriend of your dreams. Write that comment below. See you tomorrow.