[MUSIC PLAYING]
Hi, everyone. My name is Priya.
Are we ready to get started? - Yee-haw!
- Let's do it. - Let's do it.
OK. We're in Nashville.
So we have to break out our lasso, obviously.
So 5, 6, 7, 8, we lasso to the front.
We boogie to the back.
(SINGING) When she struts her stuff,
a boy can't get enough because she's high class, just
trying to get a smile from her.
No chance you're going to get her phone number.
She knows what she's got and how it moves.
CLINT: We're boot-scooting.
We got our boats down.
We're boogieing.
Spot on, baby.
Spot on.
Spot on, what she said.
(SINGING) Let's get wild tonight and act like strangers.
Go Clint!
I always admire Clint's dancing.
He always gets into it, give it all that he gots.
I'm, like, get on down.
Get on down, Clint.
Do your thing.
(SINGING) Let's get wild tonight.
Shake your body.
You hook that!
Oh, dang!
(SINGING) It's an old times, good times, last goodbye.
Let's get wild tonight and act like strangers.
I ain't trying to change ya.
I'm just remembering what summer love was like.
JASMINE: I'm over it.
I'm done.
What [BLEEP]!
Literally, I'm trying to dance with you.
I'm your wife, but you don't want to dance with your wife.
Instead, you want to go dance with the instructor.
Do you even care about this marriage?
I'm [BLEEP] done.
I'm sick of this [BLEEP].
I'm just over it in general.
I'm over everything.
I'm tired of giving my all and putting forth effort for him
to continue to do things that are basically
just a slap in the face.
CREW: So what do you want to do?
JASMINE: I don't [BLEEP] know.
In that moment, I needed him to think about me, and he didn't.
What the hell was that?
AIRRIS: I'm sorry.
I apologize.
The way I took the situation, the girl
was, like, showing me a dance because I was literally
like the worst dancer.
Like, I sucked, so I felt like maybe
she was showing me a move.
That's not even, like, my type that I go for.
But I'm acknowledging what you were feeling.
With the state of our relationship,
I totally understand why it looked as bad to you as it did.
And I'm not-- I'm not diminishing your feelings
or telling you you shouldn't feel a certain type of way.
But it wasn't like I was, like, ah, screw this.
I'm just going to dance with this girl.
Like, I was literally minding my own business.
But you literally didn't have to dance with her.
You're right. You're correct.
I didn't have to.
So I think we-- did we lose a-- we lost a couple.
We lost a group.
MAN: We lost Airris and Jas.
(SINGING) Turn up our love.
Give me the dream I adore.
Never enough, I need that pleasure so pure.
I don't want compromise.
All that I need is your own.
I got a hole inside my heart.
It's got me begging for more.
Turn it up!
Just turn it up.
Turn it up!
Till the needle slacks.
Till the power breaks.
Till the window cracks.
Just turn it up!
AIRRIS: So you're looking forward
to this visit with Dr. Pepper?
I think it'll be--
I think it'll be good.
With decision day fast approaching--
This is so needed.
PEPPER SCHWARTZ: We, the experts,
are meeting with the couples to help them confront the truth
within themselves and with their partner
and examine any lingering questions they have.
Thank you for coming to see us.
Of course.
Are you kidding me?
Yeah, sure, I'm here to help.
PEPPER SCHWARTZ: So they have the opportunity
to work through them before Decision Day.
[KNOCK ON DOOR]
Hi.
JASMINE: Hi!
Oh, sorry.
PEPPER SCHWARTZ: It's OK. I'm a dog person.
JASMINE: OK, OK. She loves people.
PEPPER SCHWARTZ: Oh, hello, sweetie.
JASMINE: She greets everybody.
PEPPER SCHWARTZ: Good to see you.
JASMINE: It's good to see you, too.
PEPPER SCHWARTZ: Good to see you.
AIRRIS: Hello, again.
PEPPER SCHWARTZ: All right.
So I gather a lot's been going on since last we talked.
Yeah.
PEPPER SCHWARTZ: Tell me a little bit
about the emotional climate here and what you've
been through in the last 24 hours,
and then we can move on from there.
OK.
Well, this week for me was just a super emotional week.
I'm learning a lot about myself and my emotions
and how I cope with conflict.
And then on top of that, last night the line dance instructor
came up to him and grabbed him and went
off and started dancing, and it just triggered me.
And I was, like, I'm no longer not showing my feelings
or speaking up.
So it's just kind of, like, I'm not cool with this, so I'm out.
AIRRIS: I was aware, and I was conscious of where
we are in our relationship.
So I understood her feeling how she felt,
and I still feel bad about it.
But I've had like a little time to reflect, and I felt
like the storm-out made it--
it made it, like, a scene, you know.
I don't-- I don't think it was warranted.
PEPPER SCHWARTZ: So what I want to know
is where you guys are headed.
And if you're done in some way, if you no longer have a hope
or want to do, see, or hear anything, let me know.
I mean, we're not here to tread water.
Do you see a possibility for this marriage?
I see a possibility.
Like, I see--
I understand why we were matched.
We have moments, like when we're "dating,"
those are some of our best moments.
And I want those moments to last longer.
JASMINE: In the past, I've said how
I feel lost in this marriage.
I feel like because I don't know where he's at,
and I mean he's kind of reassured me
tonight that he's still in it.
PEPPER SCHWARTZ: Let me ask you what you need individually
in this relationship to further its possibilities
in these next weeks.
AIRRIS: We met with Devon earlier,
and he put a different perspective that I can create
a more nurturing, safer environment
for you to feel comfortable expressing
yourself and being vulnerable.
PEPPER SCHWARTZ: I like it.
What's your hope?
I'm hoping to feel in the next few weeks
more like a wife and not a friend.
Can you think of any specific small thing that would
make you feel more wifely?
I mean, if I don't text him throughout the day,
I don't hear from him.
So it's, like, do you not think about me
or do you not want to talk to me.
So that's developing habits of connection.
Let's say you set your phone to whatever time you have.
Yeah.
PEPPER SCHWARTZ: And say, OK, it's 2:00.
I'm going to text Jasmine and ask how her day is every day
or most days, you know?
How do you do when the person comes in the door?
What do you do when the person comes into the door?
[SCOFFS]
I say, what's up?
So that's romantic.
Right.
How about making it real?
When the person comes in, to come up
and either give a peck on the cheek or--
A hug.
A hug leaving out in the morning.
A hug when you leave and a hug when you get back.
- Yes. - Yes.
PEPPER SCHWARTZ: Small efforts go great distances.