How to Avoid Getting Friendzoned! Stick around to the end, as I'll give you real
practical advice on how to avoid getting friend zone by a woman when you're single and dating!
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and more friendzoned today, more than ever before! What is the friend zone? A situation in which a
friendship exists between two people, one of whom has unreciprocated romantic or sexual interest in
the other AKA you like them more than they like you! You may be told the following lies after
expressing your feelings to them = "I only see you as a friend. I only want to be friends with you.
I prefer to keep it as friends for now. I want nothing more than just being friends with each
other..." It can be a gut-wrenching feeling for a guy, expressing your love, affection towards a
woman who only wants to keep it friendly and platonic, or who sees you as their brother, who
doesn't find you attractive, who doesn't even want to kiss you, who certainly doesn't want to date you.
Yes I know there are men out there who have gotten out of the friend zone and ending up having a
relationship with a woman who initially was not into him. Good luck to those guys, they're a rare
breed and there's always going to be exceptions to every circumstance... but let me make a quick
disclaimer = You will forever be friend zoned if you do not address the following areas of your
life - Your physical appearance, you want to look and feel the best you can. Your health, if you're
smoking a lot, drinking a lot and so on, that's not going to be very good. Your social skills, can you
make eye contact with women? Can you talk to women. Can you talk to people in general? Your goals - if you
lack ambition well that's not very attractive is it? Your finances, are you terrible with money? Are
you even earning any money? And your overall life! Anybody can level up in life by taking personal
responsibility and having good self-awareness as well! Here is how to avoid getting friend zoned!
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The first thing to do to avoid getting in the friend zone is to be bold, brave and to state
your intentions early on. I'm not saying confess your undying love to this woman, but let her know
where she stands, what you think and feel, otherwise you're wasting your time and hers as well. When I
was single for a year I would immediately sniff out the time wasters, those who'd want to have
friendship just for attention or validation or to get a free meal. They were not seriously into
me, they just wanted me to chase them. I would have to copy and paste this message to the time wasters
all the time. I'd say "I'm here to date, don't waste my time." By saying that I'd normally get ghosted
or I'd get the following response from some women "but can we just be friends first then date later??"
I would say no and move on. Let me give you a contrasting real example = Paul was single and
ready to date again and signed up to some dating apps. He got a few matches and would always meet
up for drinks or coffee. Whenever he would try to do so but he never made his intentions clear. "Let's
meet up for a friendly coffee" he'd say. He never told them anything, he would turn up, awkwardly hug
these women and just talk like a friend. He gave off the vibe of a friend NOT a man willing to date
Paul got friendzoned all the time, no matter what he'd waste his time and energy going on coffee
dates or even dinners with women who would just never want anything more from him. They'd say "I
only like you as a friend Paul.... I think we should remain friends Paul...You're a nice guy but I just
don't find you attractive Paul" Brutal answers but in his case deserved. Had Paul insisted "hey
I'm here to date... let me take you out for a drink... let's go for a coffee and get to know you better...
I'm looking for a romantic relationship... I'm looking for something casual... I'm looking to
date...." maybe just maybe he would have filtered out the time wasters and actually got further ahead
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If you give off the vibe of a friend, guess what you'll get treated like a friend! You find these
women attractive don't you? You want to date them right? You want them to be your girlfriend? You want
to get intimate with them as well? Why on Earth are you giving off the timid, shy, awkward friendly vibe
instead of the masculine, confident, assertive man she desperately wants instead? When I first started
dating years ago I was naive, rusty and foolish. I had no idea what I was doing... I had no idea what
to say... no idea how to behave... I convinced myself "I don't want to scare off or intimidate women
therefore I'll do what is right and be nice, kind and generous" Look I'm all for being a gentleman
but being a pushover is a different story. I would take women out and pay the bill all the time, which
is okay, but then I would never flirt, I would shake their hands hello and goodbye rather than hug or
kiss them on the cheek... I'd be too afraid to make eye contact and I would never even think about
making a move! I'll never forget one girl saying to me "you are such a nice man, I loved our time
together but honestly at the same time... I felt like I was out with one of my brothers." I needed to hear
that, it needed to sink in, that being too sweet, too nice, too kind, too timid, too over the top, is not
gonna get you the desired results, and nine times out of ten you will end up getting into the friend
zone. Now I am not suggesting being a jerk, rude, disrespectful and so on... but it's a date! Flirt, be
a bit cheeky, touch her hand, make eye contact, mysterious, excited, tease her playfully, have fun
You are her date not her mate! Don't give off over the top friendly vibes ever!
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A surefire way to end up in the friend zone is waiting too long, being too cautious or timid
When it comes to a date make the move! The move could be several things which I'll highlight now
chronologically = First ask for her number... most people meet on dating app nowadays or through
social media or in some cases at parties and through friends. Do you like this woman? Do you
get on with her? Ask for her number! The sooner you get her number, the sooner hopefully you'll
get to your first date. Next talk to her! You do not need to engage in conversation all day, every day
either over the phone by text message or by DMS... Talk to see if there is chemistry, if whether she
plays games, if she replies, if you've got things in common, if there's some flirting going on at all
Tthen ask her out! Friends don't ask women out on dates, because they're friends! But you will!
"I want to take you out on a date. Let's go for drinks this weekend, are you around?"
She will either say yes or no, it's as simple as that! On the date flirt, eye contact, touch her
hand, tease her, compliment her, laugh and joke... enjoy yourself! You're out with an attractive wonderful
woman! Then if the moment is right, she's staring into your eyes, you've had a couple of drinks or
whatever Make Your Move! Kiss Her! You have nothing to lose! Friends don't do any of what I've just
said... they stumble and over complicate things. Please don't be like the man who's forever
in the friend zone... make your move and if at any time she doesn't reciprocate or doesn't feel the
same way she's not the right woman for you and she'll tell you... she might not even friend zone
you or say "like listen we're not meant to be... I don't feel the same way and so on" and then you move on
I believe dating is a numbers game, irrespective of how much you like or connect with one particular
person. If a woman is not feeling you, if she's not responding, if she's told you she "just wants to be
friends" move on! I was single for an entire year before I met my current girlfriend, who's the best
partner I've ever had! I was rejected many times, I rejected girls as well, but any time I was told to
be friends... I'd respond with the following line "Sorry but I have enough friends." I don't need a
woman I find attractive a woman, I want to date as a friend in my life. I'm 35 and look I'm not
rushing to get married, but I'm certainly not going to waste my life with a friend who's not really a
friend,, and believe it or not no woman ever chased me after saying that... as they would go on and find
some other chump to take advantage of, by getting free meals, attention or pour their heart and soul
into an actual man they did find attractive. That's Not My Vibe... I see through the lies, I see through
all the BS... you need to move on... she wants to be friends with you, okay good luck to her. There
are plenty of good, decent, attractive, amazing women who want to date you instead! Focus your
time and energy on them! Learn from every mistake, pick yourself up from every rejection, you'll get
there eventually... move on! If you get friend zone by one, it doesn't mean you'll get friend zoned by
the other... who's genuinely interested in you and doesn't actually want to be your friend!