Hey there, this is Clay and over the past couple of days we've been really addressing
the most common excuses that people's exes give them for why they broke up with you.
Why they left the relationship.
And we've gone over a whole bunch of them so far over the past five days.
But today we're gonna go ahead and talk about the biggest one that Mika and I saw when we
asked you guys what your ex told you.
And this is really kind of two sort of things.
One is the whole, you know, yeah, it's not you, it's me kind of thing.
And then the, the other one was also the, you know, I love you, but I'm not in love
with you.
You know, did your ex say that to you?
I'm, I'm, I'm guessing based on the volume of responses that we got did, they probably
did.
So this is kind of what that means and this is what you should be doing about it.
So when someone says they love you but they're not in love with you, what that really means
is Kinda like what we talked about yesterday.
There's that scale between what feels good and what feels bad and as things kind of move
towards the bad side, they kind of, the relationship starts to deteriorate, but you can also think
about this like, like a, like a kitchen sink.
Okay?
I'm assuming you have a perfectly functioning kitchen sink.
You can turn on the water and the water comes out of the Faucet and it goes down the drain
and everything works fine, right?
And that's the way it's supposed to work.
That's the way that relationships actually work.
When everything is going fine, you know, there's a turn on the attraction attraction comes
out and it, it just kind of everything works the way it's supposed to. and the sink doesn't
overflow or anything like that.
But what happens oftentimes is that there, sometimes things get clogged, right?
Sometimes things get clogged, the water kind of builds up in the sink.
And if you don't figure out how to turn it off, sooner or later it's going to flood all
over the place and bad things are going to happen.
You're going to have a really big mess on your hands.
And, that's actually what happens when a lot of people break up, is that kind of, there's
this emotional clog that's blocking the attraction that's already there in their relationship.
You know, the two of you got together.
Obviously there is some amount of attraction between the two of you.
Otherwise you would have never gotten together in the first place, right?
So the issue isn't attraction.
You know, your ex obviously thinks you're attractive otherwise to would have never been
in a relationship to begin with.
You know, you obviously think your ex is attractive, otherwise you wouldn't be on this newsletter
watching this video right now.
But what, what happened, it's not the attraction got lost and the, you need to go out and retract
your ex.
You know, I've seen a lot of those videos on the Internet that say, you know, you need
to retract your ex.
here's the secret.
Nassau declassified military secrets on how to attract your eye.
Yet, you know, you don't need to do that.
You really don't, because the attraction is already there.
The two of you are already to each other.
The problem is that clog in the sink, right?
It's that emotional clog, it's that emotional.
A bad emotions kind of got in the way and clog things up to the point where that attraction
that's already there is being blocked and that you have.
You can't feel it.
So when your ex says that they just aren't attracted you anymore, that they're in love
with you, but they're not in love with you.
They're really saying that there's an emotional clog in our relationship and so the solution
then isn't to try to attract them harder.
You know, that's, that'd be like turning on the water even harder so that floods faster.
The sink floods faster and overflows into the kitchen.
I'm no.
The solution is instead to remove the emotional block, move the emotional block and let the
water do what it's already going to do on its own.
Anyway, flow out the drain and suddenly you have this nice clean sink that's not over
flowing and everything just works the way it's supposed to and the two of you are attracted
again and you're in love again and everything is great the way that it used to be.
So how do you do this?
How do you get rid of the emotional clog?
Well, the, the thing that you have to understand is that most people bring a lot of weird,
expectations and baggage and stuff like that into relationships.
You know, probably you, you as well, you know, I know you're a smart person.
There are a lot of exceptionally smart people on this newsletter.
I'm actually surprised by that and so, but, but even so, we all have our own assumptions,
beliefs and things that we bring into relationships.
You know, we get these from, you know, seeing our parents and how they interacted with one
another, the way that their relationship or marriage with one another worked or didn't
work.
You know, we pick things up on TV and in magazines and books and movies and stuff like that.
And they just kind of give us all of these mistaken, false beliefs about how relationships
should be about what feels good about what you should realistically expect from our relationship.
And that is really a lot of ways what the emotional clog is based out of.
It's based out of all of these beliefs and just, you know, you have your own beliefs
and then your extra partner has their own beliefs and then the two of you come together
and sometimes they don't really work together very harmoniously.
And so that's where the clog really happens.
And so what you need to do is you need to learn the relational skills that help you
get past all of these limitations, beliefs, expectations, things like that, that are causing
you problems in your relationship.
And you know, we teach, we teach you all kinds of relational skills inside of the ex solution
program and you know, that's, that's something I'd like to invite you to join today, if that
sounds, if what I've just described sounds like you, you know, if you think there is
an emotional clog in the sink of your, I'd like to invite you to join the ex solution
program where we can teach you the emotional and relational skills that you need and tools
that you need in order to unclog that sink.
So the attraction that's already there between you and your ex can start to flow again and
you know, you can do this without having to be in contact with them.
So you know, if, if right now they're not picking up your, the, answering your phone
calls, that's okay.
Again, we deal with this inside the exhibition program to right now, if they say they hate
your guts, that's okay.
If you just maybe have a little bit more of a clog than, than other people, but you know,
with enough work you can get past it.
You know, this works if you're in a long distance relationship, if you're a lefty for someone
else, you know, all, all of those things are just kind of superficial circumstances and
there are things that we can absolutely help you get passed by teaching you these relational
skills.
And if that's something you'd like to learn, I'd really like to invite you to join the
ex solution program.
You can go ahead and click down below.
There's a link to it down below.
You can go ahead and sign off.
This sounds like something that would be helpful to you and your relationship.
Again, if, if, if this is not something that you don't think what would help you, you know,
if you don't think there's an emotional clog in your relationship, if you don't think you
need to learn some new skills to help heal things between you and your ex, that's fine
too.
Maybe the ex solution program isn't for you.
But you know, if, if this does sound, if this does resonate with you, then I really would
like you to at least consider joining the ex solution program.
Go Click on the link down there, it'll take you to a page that talks a little bit more
about what's inside the ex solution program.
If you think it's a good fit for you, I'd really just like to invite you to go ahead
and sign up.
You know, if it doesn't work out for you, that's okay.
We have a guarantee.
It's guaranteed to work.
If it doesn't work for you, that's totally fine.
We'll give you all your money back.
You can find out more about that down below.
But, but either way, I want you to really to decide, whether or not you believe that's
you and your ex there.
There is still attraction between the two of you.
It's just been blocked by negative emotions or I want you to decide if you need to keep
chasing this fool's gold of trying to attract them back.
Trying to you know, learn how to be an Alpha male or pretend like you're high status or
use reverse psychology or mind games or something like that to trick them into, you know, forcing
them against their will to fall in love with you.
With you know, neuro-inguistic programming, sequences or whatever, or if you actually
believe that you know, your ex does still have feelings for you, does still have attraction
for you, that you still feel attraction for them as well.
And that the two of you can kind of bring those sparks back together again.
Bring those wires back together again just by getting rid of the club.
And if that's something you'd like our help with, please just go ahead and sign up for
the ex solution program will help you on the inside.
We have a discussion member community, where, where people just like you are getting their
burning questions answered right now.
You know, we have a team that works all around the clock to help you get answers.
You know, we do take weekends off, but you know, we're all over the world, so, so whatever
time zone you're in, there's probably someone awake, helping people.
And, you know, if you have a burning question, we're here to give you answers.
We're here to help you.
We'll help you teach you the skills you need to unclog your emotional block in your sinks
so that you and your ex can come back together again.
And, if that's something you'd like help with again, just go down below and click on the
button this has been Clay.
And I hope this has been helpful to you.
Take care.