Hey there, this is Clay and today I want to tell you about a four signs that your text
message to your ex will get a response.
Okay?
You know, it can be really frustrating when you know, you're trying to text your ex, you're
trying to get back in touch with them and whatever, and it's just like, you know, throwing
something into like a dark, bottomless pit, you know, you sit there, you're waiting for
the sound of it, hitting the bottom,
waiting, waiting, waiting,
and then it just doesn't come in a little bit frustrating.
So we're gonna talk about for signs that your, your text is gonna get a response and these
are actually for tips on how to get a response.
So the first one is that your message is going to be short and sweet.
Okay?
Oftentimes when people contact the, this isn't just like a text message thing, this goes
for email letters, all kinds of stuff, but they do dislike wall of text thing where it's
just like this massive paragraph that just goes on and on and on and on and on.
And it just looks like a lot of work and when your ex sees that they're going there, they're
going to have this response and he'd be like,
ugh!
you know, it just looks like a lot of work.
It's like when you're at a store or a website or something and creating an account or like
signing up with them and they pull out one of those like contracts will have like tiny
little size six font and everything and you're just like to read through this.
She was like, scroll down the bottom and just like get it over with.
Or are you just like, just sign your name to which is we're here, whatever, I don't
care what it says.
And that's the way that your ex is going to feel when they get like a giant block of text
or a brick of text as it might be on your phone.
Since it's a little bit smaller.
The, the only thing is they're probably not going to respond to it.
They're probably not just going to get it out of the way.
It probably not just going to sign it and respond.
They're, they're just gonna ignore it because it's, it looks like a lot of work to respond
to.
The second thing that you can do, the second sign that your a message is going to get a
response is, is if you leave out talking about the relationship, the breakup, how, sorry
you are, how much you love your ex and that you miss your ex, all that stuff.
And I know that you may feel that way and I know that you probably want to talk about
those things and there is absolutely a time and place to talk about those sorts of topics,
but that is not via text message.
Okay.
Is Not via text message.
That is not the ideal time to talk about those things.
And it's definitely not a great opening move because it's going to, you know, just remind
your ex about all of the, like weird history and stuff between the two of.
And right now they don't want to deal with that.
Right now we talk about this more on the website, a relationshipinnergame.com.
But I'm right now, your ex just wants to have a human to human interaction with you where
it can just feel good to have a nice interaction with you.
You know, they don't want to talk about deep, heavy things and if you can show them that
the two of you can have a nice human to human interaction, something that feels good and
it's positive, some of them might even put a smile on their face and they're much more
likely to want to respond to you, interact with you, and continue to talk to you and
eventually get back together with you.
So that's the second thing.
The third thing is that you want your message to be easy to responds to.
Okay?
Oftentimes, I've seen a lot of people whose messages are just really hard to respond to.
It's like you, they asked for something really heavy at the end.
Like, I want to get back together with you.
Please give me your answer, yes or no, or you know, I just want to know why you left
me or, or just just something like really heavy like that.
And, you know, if they managed to get through like the wall of text and all that stuff,
they're met with the idea that this is a hard to respond to text.
Okay.
It's like if somebody were to ask you what is the meaning of life?
You know, that is a very elaborate question to answer.
There's a lot of different things you can consider and blah, blah, blah.
And you know, even if you do believe that, you know, the answer is, you know, you're
going to have to justify and say, yeah, the purpose of life is have fun because Blah,
blah, blah, blah blah.
And it just, it's, it's like, okay, if I'm going to answer this, it's going to take like
one or two hours out of my time to sit down and type something up or text something back
or think about it or whatever.
And it's just not going to be something that's easy to do a.
So instead make your text message something that's easy to respond to.
Make it something that's fun, something that is not terribly burdened with emotions and
stuff like that.
And so here, here, here's the bonus fourth sign, okay, there's a bonus fourth tip or
sign a that you're going to get a good response to this, the way that you can test to see
if you're going to get a good response.
And that is to practice by sending different types of text messages out to different friends
that, you know, different friends, family members, et Cetera, and see if they are likely
to respond to it.
If you send something out and it doesn't get a response or it gets like a flat one word
response or something, then it's like, okay, well maybe that's not the best text message
to send to my ex.
And if it does get a more, elaborate response where it's like, okay, I got them to open
up and we're having fun.
It's like a little fun exchange, then yeah, maybe that's a better one to send your ex.
And you know, this isn't like perfect or anything because uh, you know, your friends and family,
ideally you don't have the same kind of a history and all that that, that you have with
your ex.
But, you know, it's a good, it's a good like way to test it out.
Good like rough test.
So those are the four tips.
I hope that helps you out and if you'd like to learn more about how you can get back in
touch with your ex and get us to help you get through to your ex, please head over to
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together with you today.
Thanks.