(Tristan Paredes) it's true a good thing is mine right she loves that it sounds so cool
who does this twisted poetic think he is judging the way people sing like that
what is up everybody this is Chris from the rewired soul where we talk about the
problem but focus on the solution and if you're new to my channel my channel is
all about mental health and what I like to do it's pull different topics from
the YouTube community to try to teach you how to improve your mental and
emotional well-being so make sure you subscribe and ring that notification
bell so today I'm talking about Tristan Paredes so for those of you who
have been around for a while and don't know how to spell my lovely girlfriend's
man let's do a little quick little lesson this is Tristan and this is my
gorgeous Tristin all right see the difference it's a little pet
peeve of hers when people spell her name wrong but not my first name my last name
one of how many people know my last name whatever anyway so my girlfriend Tristan
oh god who's gonna get confusing this is gonna get really confusing isn't it okay
so my girlfriend Tristin who was watching Tristan
last night and like I like his stuff I watch I love seeing you know him react
to things those of you who don't know he's a vocal coach and reacts like
different singers and all of that and it's really interesting like I I love
music like a lot of people do and I like hearing people who you know understand
like you know the science if you will in the strategy behind singing and my
girlfriend Tristan was watching him last night and it was his video Billie Eilish
ends my career and I was like editing a video and I heard him talking and I'm
like oh my god me and Tristan are the same person
so something I'm always trying to do with my channel and the way my channel
is kind of pivoted this year is I'm always trying to teach all of you how to
see the similarities rather than the differences right I'm trying to help you
see like these youtubers that you're watching they're doing a lot of things
that you're doing there struggling with a lot of things that you
were doing I'm trying to have you learn from them right and it was interesting
because when when Kristin was making that video about Billie Eilish I was like wow
he's a vocal coach and I'm like kind of like a mental health coach and me and
him are dealing with the same thing right so anyways yes here's some of the
reaction that Tristan got from Billy I was just audience as well as the lyrics
right whatever Queen can't people are always saying mean things on the
Internet I don't even I don't have to look at it all the time
but what
look at look at Billy Billy Eilish snapchat really snapped about you what
what who else came from her story wait what are you talk did what
what the heck what is going on queen cat what is going on
look at her snapchat you imbecile what is this I don't so yeah Tristan was a
little bit flabbergasted by this whole situation because you know as he goes on
in that video and I'll link it down below he's like you know I didn't really
say anything you know why was she so upset but I could really connect with
what he said right here what the heck like those reaction videos are not for
her those videos are for like her fans and that want to learn how to sing like
her or like sometimes new people get introduced to her music through those
videos so like I don't know why she wouldn't like them exactly exactly you
guys that is what I'm talking about all the time and a lot of you get it a lot
of my subscribers people who have been around the channel you get it you
understand what I'm doing I often tell people like I'm not making videos about
youtubers I'm making videos for you you alright so Tristan what he's doing is
he's making videos for fans of people who you know want to sing like this
person or if somebody's being trying to be an aspiring singer they can learn
from these other artists right and that's what I'm doing here on this
YouTube channel I want to take what you're already consuming and try to
teach you how to improve your mental and emotional well-being that's what I say
at the beginning of every frickin video so most of the time most of time there's
no there's no shade anything like that towards the actual youtuber but the
thing is is that Tristan Paredes and my job are very similar because we we have to tell
people things that they don't want to hear all right like we have to tell
people hey you're not doing this to the best of your ability hey you're awesome
at this but you could do this a little bit better right
so in Tristan's and since he's teaching people how to tweak their voice maybe
some form and different things to do it with their mouth I don't know stuff like
that right to critique them and people can
get really defensive about that my job you know I've worked in addiction
treatment for years and my job is to go up to people to say yo the way that
you're running your life is not good it is the reason why your life is
such a mess I have to tell people that you know why because when I got clean
and sober people had to tell me that so when tough love Chris comes out on
this channel so this I have to tell you that too and trust me people like
Tristan people like myself we get it he'll even like my girlfriend Tristan
she gives because she worked in you know the mental health field too and she's
becoming a social worker like we have to tell people these things right and
here's the thing I hope you guys realize this like this is one of the reasons why
I do not take offense to your comments I have worked in addiction treatment I
have had people come in who are dying right they have lost everything in their
life to family won't talk to mom friends won't tackle they lost their wife they
lost their children they lost their husband family whatever it is right and
these people come into treatment I'm telling them a bunch of stuff they don't
want to hear they come up and they cuss me out and they hate me throughout
treatment but do you know do you know how many phone calls that I've gotten
after people left treatment where they apologized to me and said Chris I'm
sorry for treating you like that I understand why you told me all those
things now it makes sense thank you so much you saved my life so
do you think that I get offended when people like you go down to those
comments and start acting watching you must be crazy cuz I sleep fine at night
well I don't sleep fine but it has nothing to do with the comment so it's a
little bit of sleep apnea but we're working on that I went to the gym today
but this is a great example right here I want to show you kind of what happened
with Tristan Pettis and James Charles so Tristan made this video because James
Charles was getting a lot of flack about his cover of ariana grande not as a
woman and James Charles got really defensive about it so Tristan said some
things like this in his reaction video comment may think there's a single note
and not cover that is wrong every single note is perfectly on pitch because when
the shark or claw because I went in and corrected every single one know my tone
on a few of the notes may be a little bit off because okay this is where I've
got a stop sister over here sisters being a little bit what's the word just
say sisters being delusional as and you know what for a vocal coach your pitch
isn't very good either difference
the Reston boy if you confess to Mike please
that was not bad to again but the the only thing that I want from you sister I
just still want a little bit more nasal airflow and a little bit more presence
in your voice because your voice likes to look lucky it just loves to ho going
to this breathy thing and sort of like a doled out sound instead of slow what
that led up to was James Charles admitting that he gets overly defensive
about this and he invited Tristan out and they did an entire collab together
we're twisting helped James craft and hold his skills
better okay keep going so that's one of the things that we all have to do we
have to realize like is this person saying something to us to be malicious
or they saying something to us to help us better ourselves right like don't get
me wrong do not get me wrong there are a lot of judgmental people out there
giving a lot of unsolicited advice and you have to learn how to filter that
information my best advice to you is to ask yourself what is this person's
intent right what what is this person trying to do or they're trying to harm
me or they're trying to help me you know what I mean so like I think it's very
very very important to think about that the other thing I want you to think
about is something that I've been experiencing a lot lately because it's
my channels my mic blowing up recently is that you see people just blindly
defend who they follow and this is something I've talked about a lot of
times on my channel I talk about in my Shane Dawson film theorist video where
people are just gonna go and defend who they're gonna defend they're gonna hate
who they're gonna hate without gathering all the facts right so a lot of people
went after Tristan you know because Billy Eilis was like talking crap about
him right Oh Billy said this well I'm gonna go after him and Tristan's like
wait why you know so I want you to like kind of be mindful of that
like there's nothing that makes me giggle a little bit more then when
people come to my videos and they comment when they clearly didn't watch
the video something I've been saying to a lot of people lately it's like you
ever feel a little bit silly commenting on something before you watch it like I
just wonder I'm really curious about that right but anyways anyways I want to
hear from all of you down in the comments below like how do you take
criticism right do you do you get really defensive do you take it in do you ask
yourself like are they trying to help me or they're gonna try to help me improve
let me know like down in the comments below because I really this is a really
interesting topic and I want to make some more videos on it alright anyways
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