- Hello.
Excuse my nasal voice today,
I'm still recovering a bit from a flu.
- After having passed it on to me.
- And we're going to try to keep this video
kind of family friendly today.
- Family friendly? - Yeah.
We pick the most asked spicy- (clears throat)
- Yeah.
- I can't speak properly today.
- Most asked spicy-
- We picked the most asked spicy questions,
some of them are really uncomfortable questions
that we normally avoid.
- But today everything is possible.
Let's normalize talking about taboo topics.
- Taboo topics, such as? - Sex!
(both gasp)
- Oh god, she said it.
Yeah, we will even have to dig up memories,
memories we wanted to forget
a long time ago. - Oh god.
- Memories of our past.
- Speaking of memories,
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- I do know. The olfactory system.
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Okay, are you ready for the first question?
- Yes.
I think we have to start out with a very innocent
question as a foundation. - For what's to come.
- For what's to come. - Yeah. All right.
- Okay. Have you guys done it?
- I think it's time to tell the truth.
- The truth is...
- We're both virgins and we plan to live in celibate 'till
the day we die. I know it's weird talking about it,
but it's even weirder asking.
- Yeah.
Okay. Next question.
How many relationships did you have before you met?
- Oh - Oh.
- Oh. - That's a weird topic,
- Yeah. - I don't even know why.
- Like we don't even really talked about it.
- But we did talk about it.
- Yeah, but not like that much.
I've had like,
I don't even know if it counts as a relationship,
school stuff, one time, for a while.
Yeah, that's it. I was busy with other stuff.
I had no interest in girls or anything, romantic stuff.
You go! Tell us.
- I don't even remember most of it because it's been a while.
Sometimes you make... - It was too much
- No! - You can't even count.
- That's not true.
Sometimes you make some weird decisions as a teen that you
don't really align with when you're getting older.
I dunno, are we talking about relationships like
serious relationships or short-term things?
- I think relationships. - Relationships.
I think compared to this relationship,
none of them can be called a serious relationship, so
but I guess it's been like four longer lasting ones.
- I'm number five, right?
- No, you're number one. - No, I'm number five.
- You're still number one. Number one for me.
I mean, these are all experiences
and from that you learn what you don't want in a partner,
it's pretty good. - Yeah.
- I know exactly what I don't want.
- That's good, (Farina laughs)
- that's good. Some people are lucky like me and they'll
get it first try, right? - Right.
- I'm like a penguin, I have like one mate for life.
- Oh, that's cute. My penguin.
- As a couple who has been together for years, do you
still have awkward moments with each other? Oh.
- Awkward?
- I think we're just really awkward people,
but not really,
but sometimes we have like awkward moments
where we don't know where to put our bodies because we're
both quite tall, - Like right now?
- and lanky people, stuff happens.
Apart from that, we don't really have any awkward moments.
- No. Imagine the most awkward thing
you would do when no one watches you,
I could do it in front of him.
- I do it. I do it in front of you.
- Yeah, like literally everything.
- Like the worst thing you've ever done, I did it,
- Yeah. - in front of Farina.
It's okay. - It's fine.
- We don't always like it. We accept and forgive.
- We accept it and we laugh about it.
(blows raspberries)
- Yeah, that's my favorite question.
It was very straightforward.
Is Dong-in's (bleep) small or is it massive?
- Massive. Like that's kind of extreme, right?
Small or massive? - Small or massive,
I love how there's no in-between for you,
I mean, in Germany... - We leave it at that.
In Germany we say... the size of a man's nose tells you about his...
And that's true, guys! That's true.
What's your MBTI?
- Oh. - What's yours?
- I did the test in a video actually.
- Oh right.
I did the test afterwards, like a couple of times,
and it was always the same.
- [Farina] INFJ. - [Dong-In] INFJ! Right.
- I am ISTJ-T, and I don't even know what that means.
- Do you top him? I think that's how you...
Do you top him or does he top you? I'm sorry to ask this.
- Who says it always has to be top and bottom?
It can also be left and right,
or diagonal,
or like this.
- My parents could be watching. (laughing)
I don't know. I'm top, right?
(Farina laughs)
- Do you get asked when you'll be getting married a lot?
Yes. - Yeah.
- But actually never from our friends and families
because they just like...
- They don't care. - They don't care!
- They don't care at all. - No, why should they?
It's our choice, you know?
Weirdly only people on the internet do that, they ask us.
Of course we want to wait for the right...
- I propose whenever I want. - Yeah, for the right time.
- Maybe she will propose.
- Maybe. - Yeah.
- There's nothing really pressuring us because our love
and our relationship will stay just the same afterwards.
It's just like a romantic cherry on top
and a nice event. - Yeah.
What are your kinks?
Do we have kinks? Do you have a kink?
- I don't know. I don't think so.
I'm googling "Kink ideas" right now.
Take it to a mirror, talk dirty.
Get icy! What is that?
- Dirty talk? Do we ever do dirty talk?
I don't think so, right?
No, I don't think we have any kinks.
We're boring.
(both laugh)
- When and how was your first time sleeping with each other?
- That's really personal!
- It is. Well, we can say it was nice. And...
- It was nice and I'll give you that it was on...
(Dong-in laughs)
it was on our first date. - It was soon, yeah.
- Yes. - How was our first kiss?
- It was on our first date, yes.
- But how was it? - Oh we went really all out,
right?
It was nice. Was it nice?
- It was nice. - Yeah see, it was nice.
- I think I have a fever. My fever is coming back.
- Okay, we'll finish with one last question.
- Oh, last question, already? - Yes
Have you ever thought about breaking up?
That's a deep question.
- It is. I think we answered it already before.
- Did we? - There have been times when
we asked ourselves whether we're really compatible
because sometimes you just argue.
- Because I am an INFJ. (Farina laughs)
- We do argue, we talked about that.
We just both really...
- Everyone argues. - Yeah.
But we're really stubborn,
and just the way we are,
like sometimes we communicate and we do communicate a lot.
- Yeah. - Right? Always.
- And pretty well.
- But sometimes we communicate
on different levels, right?
'Cause I'm more... - Rational.
- Rational type and she's very emotional.
You're two different people,
and then you have two different personalities, of course,
and different opinions and because we're both so stubborn,
we sometimes don't take no for an answer
and that makes it kind of hard.
I think it's gotten harder like working together.
- Yes! - Yes.
working together during the pandemic.
- Working together can be very toxic.
- You live together, you work together.
The border just vanishes, right?
Between work and private life and then it's like,
you're each others coworkers or bosses sometimes even,
and imagine waking up next to your boss.
- Oh my God.
- And you work with your boss,
you have breakfast with your boss
and then you go sleep with your boss, right?
- Sounds weird. - Yeah,
and sometimes it felt like that.
- Yeah. - Because we got so absorbed
in these projects.
- Yeah, sometimes people think like, 'Oh my God
your relationship is so perfect, I want what you have
- Because we don't film videos when we fight.
- Yeah, we don't film fighting videos, right?
But everyone fights.
- And then you talk about it
and you clear everything up - Yeah.
and everything's fine. - The key
is talking about everything.
- Yeah, the key is working on it.
We had this time where we got like very, I don't know,
it was one fight over a very insignificant thing,
it continued on and on and on.
- Sometimes it's just like about the dishes
and so somebody starts to cry.
- Yes, 'cause she never does the dishes,
you never do the dishes! (Farina laughs)
- And you never do other stuff,
that's very much more important than the dishes.
Okay, we should stop here.
- I do all the dishes!
No, but like, I can't imagine living with anyone else.
Can't imagine loving anyone else.
- Thank you. - 'Cause I'm a penguin.
- I'm a penguin too. (both laugh)
- So, yeah! Tell me more about those four other guys.