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>> WELCOME BACK TO GREAT DAY WASHINGTON.
WASHINGTON. WHO UNDERSTANDS A MOTHERS LOVE
BESIDES ANOTHER MOM?
STARTED A FACEBOOK PAGE CALLED
MOM WE SEE YOU.
TAKE A LOOK.
>> THERE ARE SO MANY THINGS THAT
MOMS HAVE ON THEIR PLATE.
WHERE DO YOU SEE PEOPLE COMING
FROM AS FAR AS THEIR BIGGEST
STRESSOR?
STRESSOR?
STRESSOR? >> THE BIGGEST STRESSOR IS
BALANCING IT ALL.
TRYING TO BALANCE BETWEEN WORK
AND HOME AND ALSO MANAGING THE
WHOLE ASPECT OF IF YOUR CHILD IS
ON A REMOTE OR HYBRID LEARNING.
ISAAC THAT'S WHAT I'VE BEEN
TELLING MOMS IS -- WHAT I'VE
BEEN TELLING MOMS IS WE HAVE
BEEN GETTING IT ALL WRONG.
WE NEED TO PRIORITIZE AND PUT
THOSE THINGS THAT NEED THE MOST
WORK IN FRONT OF US.
WHEN WE LOOK AT IT FROM THAT AND
MAKING SURE WE BALANCE HOME
FIRST THEN WORK, EVERYTHING WILL
BE IN ALIGNMENT.
>> WE PUT EVERYTHING
BE IN ALIGNMENT. >> WE PUT EVERYTHING, I WILL GO
AS FAR TO SAY AS PUT IT DOWN ON
PAPER.
PAPER.
PAPER. HAVE STRUCTURED SCHEDULE WHERE
YOU KNOW WHAT TIMES YOU'RE GOING
TO BE DOING DIFFERENT THINGS.
WHEN IT WAS SCHOOL AND WORK AND
THEN HOME, EVERYTHING WAS DONE
ON A SCHEDULE.
YOU KNEW WHERE YOU HAD TO BE AND
WHAT TIME YOU HAD TO DO
EVERYTHING.
EVERYTHING. IT'S IMPORTANT TO KEEP THAT NOW
THAT EVERYBODY IS WORKING FROM
HOME AND KIDS ARE DOING VIRTUAL
LEARNING.
LEARNING.
LEARNING. IT MAKES THINGS EASIER.
>> WHAT I LOVE IS WE WERE
TALKING ABOUT WORRYING ABOUT
YOUR CHILDREN.
YOUR CHILDREN. WE HAVE CHILDREN OF DIFFERENT
AGES.
AGES.
AGES. DO
AGES. DO YOU EVER STOP WORRYING ABOUT
THEM?
THEM?
THEM? HOW
THEM? HOW DO YOU TAKE CARE OF
YOURSELF?
YOURSELF?
YOURSELF? >> YOU NEVER STOP WORRYING ABOUT
THEM.
THEM.
THEM. I
THEM. I HAVE THREE CHILDREN.
MY OLDEST IS WENDY FOR, 10 AND
EIGHT -- MY OLDEST IS 24, 10 AND
EIGHT.
EIGHT.
EIGHT. WHAT JACKIE AND I TALK ABOUT IS
WE SPEAK THOSE THINGS INTO
EXISTENCE THAT WE WANT OUR
CHILDREN TO BE AND BECOME.
THEY HAVE NO CHOICE.
THEY ARE DESTINED TO BE GREAT.
THEY ARE DESTINED TO BE
SUCCESSFUL.
SUCCESSFUL. THEY ARE DESTINED TO BE
PROSPEROUS.
PROSPEROUS. IF THEY BELIEVE IT AND SPEAK IT,
THEY CAN ACHIEVE IT.
YOU HAVE THE SAY OVER YOUR
CHILDREN.
CHILDREN.
CHILDREN. >> I ALWAYS SAY ON OUR SEGMENTS
THAT YOU ARE THE M.V.P. OF YOUR
KIDS LIFE.
KIDS LIFE. YOU ARE THE MOST IMPORTANT
PERSON OR PARENT IN THEIR LIFE.
WHEN YOU UNDERSTAND YOUR ROLE AS
A PARENT, YOU ARE DETERMINED TO
MAKE SURE THAT YOU SPEAK LIFE.
THAT THEY UNDERSTAND, YOU NEED
TO HAVE PRAYER LIFE.
YOU NEED TO BE ABLE TO PRAY AND
PUT IT IN GOD'S HANDS AND SAY
OK, GOD IT'S YOUR ISSUE.
LISTEN TO HIM FOR GUIDANCE
BECAUSE HE WILL GIVE YOU THE
GUIDANCE ON HOW TO RAISE YOUR
CHILDREN AND HOW TO SPEAK LIFE
INTO THEM.
INTO THEM. >> MOM IS SUCH AN IMPORTANT
TITLE, BUT I KNOW YOU BOTH HOLD
OTHER TITLES.
OTHER TITLES. HOW DO YOU PRACTICE SELF-LOVE
AND SELF-CARE?
AND SELF-CARE? >> ONE WAY IS TO SCHEDULE ME ON
THE CALENDAR.
THE CALENDAR. IT SET ASIDE TIME JUST FOR ME.
IT'S NOT, I DON'T GET REWARDED
WHEN I'M PRODUCTIVE AND OTHER
PEOPLE'S LIVES AND I'M NOT AT
HOME.
HOME.
HOME. I
HOME. I NEED TO PRACTICE WHAT I'M
PREACHING AT HOME.
IN ORDER FOR ME TO CONTINUE TO
POUR OUT, I HAVE TO BE FILLED.
>> IT'S SO IMPORTANT THAT
SELF-CARE AND SELF-LOVE, THEY GO
TOGETHER.
TOGETHER.
TOGETHER. AS MOTHERS, WIVES, FRIENDS
TOGETHER. AS MOTHERS, WIVES, FRIENDS, WE
ARE ALWAYS SO GIVING.
AND WE WANT TO POUR CONSTANTLY
INTO OTHERS.
INTO OTHERS. WE WANT TO MAKE SURE THAT
EVERYONE ELSE IS TAKING CARE OF.
IF WE DO NOT LOVE OURSELVES BY
HAVING THAT SELF-CARE AND TAKING
THAT TIME FOR OURSELVES, WE ARE
GOING TO DEPLETE OURSELVES AND
WE ARE NOT GOING TO BE ANY GOOD
FOR ANYBODY.
FOR ANYBODY.