hey guys its Greta here ladies relationship coach and today i'm with Rowan and I will
let Rowan to introduce himself hey guys whats up my name is Rowan I'm a blogger from London
United Kingdom and I blog mostly about fashion and fitness and lifestyle so the reason i
invited Rowan to be on my channel because we discussed dating and relationships and
he completely and totally agreed with what i coach no actually i think she is lying the
reason she invite me she said omg you are so cool i want you on my channel i think my
girls would love you and all of that common hahaha well a bit of that as well but ok so
last week i shared a question with Rowan Row and he gave me a different perspective at
what i would expect a guy to say so the question for Rowan was i been watching some guy dating
coaches and what i noticed that a lot of them say that to attract a high quality guy you
need to approach him and they give some tips how to approach that guy so for example one
tip that i heard was if you see a guy that you like in a club kinda stare at him until
he looks at you and then he looks at you kinda look at him like you are kissing him so ermm
Rowan what you think about that well i think thats completely wrong to be honest with you
because hey if you like a guy in the club and think like this always stay classy yeah
a guy an alpha male loves a classy lady and then if you like someone in the club my opinion
just look at him but not to much just now and then you know you are with your girls
have fun have a drink smile yeah look at him from once in a while the guy if the guy wants
you he will come straight to you trust me no matter what and erm but yeah i think thats
completely wrong like literally looking at him like how would you feel if a girl would
do this to you i don't know because like you feel like i mean we don't like to easy guys
in general doesn't like too easy what's coming to easy just gonna go straight away its gonna
like yeah its gonna disappear easily people appreciate what they need to work for exactly
yeah let a guy work a little bit so just smile but then yeah at the end like you don't have
to be so into him because he will think omg that girl is crazy about me i'm just like
turned off yeah you just gonna the guy is gonna be off so guys me and Rowan are going
to share a little story how we met and basically this is what happened so
i was standing at the bar and i felt the look coming from him and i felt like he is cause
i'm really tall i felt like he is yeah i was like Jesus this woman she's so tall i need
to talk to her to see whats going on thanks omg thanks so basically i feel his look going
from the head to toe and i'm thinking like he is checking my shoes to see am i on a heels
or not and then he looks at me and i smile and he smiles and he walks towards me and
then we are talking a little bit so he find out i'm a youtuber i find out he is a blogger
i'm like ok great cause I'm already getting ideas right and then my friend comes and we
kinda drift a little bit and then Rowan was with his friends as well and Rowan is standing
there and kinda like being a bit indecisive like I can see he is indecisive to kinda to
come to me or not and me knowing what to do you know I'm not chasing guys so I was like
ok if you are indecisive I'm definitely not walking out to you I'm gonna go turn around
and go to the bar so if you want me you will get to me so that was pretty impressive so
I'm sharing here my secrets as well and then at the end of the night erm we were leaving
and I was walking up the stairs and I see Rowan chatting to my friend so actually the
first thought that came into my mind was is he getting her number or is he asking about
mine i was actually trying to get both of them i"m kidding you monkey so and then basically
i walked up to them and he asked for my phone number it was actually a social media ok i
never ask for phone number, ok he ask for my social media . first thing i never ask
for phone number its instagram or email or whatever ok so he wanted to show off his instagram
he has like half a million followers that is why he asked for mine but because I couldn't
give him mine cause its private ladies instagram i was like ermm and he is like fine give me
your number so my point is ladies if the guy will want to approach you he will do that
but imagine this he likes you and you like him and then instead of giving him that chance
to approach you you go and approach him and turn him off a mean you could lose a great
guy just like that you know so yeah always keep in your comfort zone and chill and relax
and it will happen when you not expect so ermm ladies there was another point I wanted
to share with you because it happens to me very often and hey i'm a single guy and yes
i do go out now and then and i do approach ladies and what i see and probably i had say
80/ 90% so its a big percentage it's when a guy goes to a girl so i'm going to a lady
in a club and we already have eye contacts the lady doesn't seem to desperate and stuff
like that she seems pretty cool but the thing is every time well not every time hey as i
say 80/90% of the time i'm going to approach the woman it happens that she gets very like
nervous very like super shy very like and then its just like the conversation become
really awkward even if i'm trying to make a conversation cool the girls they becoming
very very insecure lets say like that and i always i wanted to make this point and especially
on her channel because obviously her audience its just like women women yeah and erm yeah
my opinion for you ladies so that just like i think its very important to just like be
cool and chill try to be in your comfort zone because at the end of the day you have nothing
to lose enjoy yourself yeah enjoy yourself because if you not gonna get that guy number
hey its gonna be another guy there is so many beautiful people inside and outside you know
in this world exactly so is no point stressing for one person so yeah keep it cool keep it
chill awesome love it thank you so much rowan for your honest answers i really appreciate
it doesn't happen often thank you for having me end rowan would you like to share how girls
can find you and follow you oh yeah guys if you wanna check my page i mean probably for
girls can be a little bit boring cause a lot of fashion ideas for male audience to see
how to dress so yeah i'm on instagram @rowan row and then i have a youtube channel as well
which is not very big cause i just started its rowan row as well and then twitter facebook
the same thing thank you so much for having me and thank you the reason i am i invited
him to a armm ....easy hahah i'm a fashion blogger from UK London and erm erm yeah thats
it hahaha no hold on one second ok hey guys what's going on i'm rowan i'm lifestyle blogger
and fashion arrr f...
i need to say awesome at least i don't feel bad now i haven't made a youtube video in
ages omg i'm feeling so much better i think you should put behind the scenes