achillus was a fierce warrior.
who dreamed of becoming the strongest swordsmen in his entire kingdom.
therefore he practised the sword everday for 12 hours to manifest his dream..
one day, the warrior fell in love with a women, she was of great beauty and humble character.
however, something went wrong after their marriage..
achillus began procrastinating on his training, when the wife exclaimed for his reasons.
he said : "you know, i was planning on training for the whole week but you're so mesmerizing"
"i've never had a girlfriend or a wife before, i wish to spend more time with you"
"just please don't leave me, you're the only thing that i live for now"
the woman heard that and a few weeks later, she divorced him and ran away with a pirate.
the warrior's fault was nothing but to make the woman his purpose.
and that is so off-putting for the feminine.
the main reason a women got attracted to you, is because she felt that sense of purpose
radiating from you.
she saw that you were on your own journey, bettering your self as a person, pursuing
your goals.
if you stop doing all those things and make the women your purpose.
neediness will manifest itself through you and the feminine will lose attraction.
yes you have to give her attention, yes you have to show her genuine love and affection.
but at the same time
you don't need her to keep on existing.
and this is basicly how you maintain attraction.
don't cry over your mistakes, fix them.
when your women is pissed off because you made a big mistake in the relationship.
the last thing you'd want to do is say:
uh i was depressed, i didn't mean to, i was tired from work and all" okey.
what she wants to hear you say is : "hey, this is what i did wrong and this is what
i'm going to do about it"
she wants to see you fixing your own mistakes in the moment instead of showing your weakness.
it's okey to err and make mistakes, we all do.
the life of a superior man is like an on-going mistake.
and the woman wants a man who's willingly brave enough to make mistakes.
and more willing to course correct without collapsing.
the feminine does not want to make decisions.
the biggest life mistake a man would make is not learning how to make decisions.
here's jhon with his girlfriend:
"hey jhon, should we buy a new car this month or save our money to start a business ?"
then jhon is like: "I donno suzi do whatever you want,I dunno"
like seriously, what are you doing here ? as a man you are the one responsible for making
decisions.
do not expect the feminine to move the relationship forward.
of course be open to her suggestions. Don't be a jerk like "oh i'm the one who's in charge
in here"
but keep in mind, the masculine is the one responsible for the relationship.
this is called leading she wants a leader that she can rely on.
your women will look forward to seeing you make decisions.
if you're not man enough to lead and to take responsiblity, the relationship will suffer
drasticly.
because the feminine does not want to make decisions.
I see alot of guys saying "you know what dude, I don't need women in my life i can live on
my own"
and there's alot reasons to why these guys deny their desire for the feminine.
the most common and promulgated, is the fear of interacting with women.
also known as "approach anxiety" so instead of breaking through that fear
they rationalize that they's good enough living on their own.
personally, i've never seen a guy who's good with women and simultaneously denies his desire
for women. it's impossible.
I wholeheartedly believe that one of the reasons why guys switch on to pornography
is because they haven't been exposed to feminine energy for a while.
their sexual energy is so restrained within them, so watching porn is mostly a way for
them to decharge and release their inhibited desire.
the biggest misconception that guys have is that porn can replace an actual women.
"oh i don't need women, i have my porn"
but what are you actually doing when you reach out to porn every night?
you're craving woman that's why you watch porn.
Craving pornography is a signal from the body, from the mind that you are lacking a certain
element in your life.
now I'm not dogmaticly emphasizing that you need a partner or that you need a relationship.
this speech is primarly forwarded to the people who need to stop lying to themselves.
and acknwoledge their lack of feminine energy
and the main idea here: you will always feel attracted to the feminine.
you cannot deny your desire. it's an innate biological quality.
even if you decide to unplug from society and live in a cave for eternity.
sooner or later, your desire will find a way to manifest itself. and it will make you go
crazy
unless you become a monk or something.
if it isn't the case then your attraction to the feminine is inevitable.