way I kind of thought today was just gonna be my video about jacksepticeye
and having a positive mental attitude but Gabriel Zamora just released his
apology video and I have a little bit of a reaction that might actually surprise
you what is everybody this is Chris from the rewired soul where we talked about
the problem but focus on the solution and if you are new to my channel my
channel is all about mental health so sometimes I take what's going on in the
YouTube community and I try to teach you what you can learn about it to improve
your mental health so if you're into that kind of stuff make sure you
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make a ton of videos I make so many videos this is my second video today
because that's how much I love you that is how much I love your face but anyways
anyways I have a little bit of a series on here that I call how to apologize
because there's a lot of people who screw up and they don't know how to
apologize so I've been talking about all the stuff going on with manny MUA and
Laura Lee and Nikita dragon and Jeffrey star and all that kind of stuff and
Gabriel Zamora just finally released his video titled my truth and this video is
long alright I actually put it on two times speed because it's kind of funny
if you've never done that try it makes every video you watch a little bit
funnier apology was an apology and I'm sorry in there isn't it so quickly I'm
like oh my god that Tuesday I don't know vacation I quote tweet at me okay thank
you Froning up to it I don't think I might excuse me so I sweet shot because
I'm like wait I mean crazy think you guys were speaking up attend a great fun
funny business are true their reason was because afford I think looking for I
dare me to caption it and run around even it'll quell just you know when he
was liking and responding to ever anyways there's a lot to learn from this
so Gabriel in my opinion like just the context of who he is and I don't know
him very well I'm just now getting introduced to the beauty community for
my girlfriend and you know a lot of you who are now subscribed to me like you've
seen live done about Jeffrey star and his series was Shane Dawson stop
don't obviously know him personally but from what I see like he's clearly young
and I don't know like it's interesting because I've made some videos about Tana
mojo but it sounds like Gabriel is actually learning from this experience I
don't know what it is maybe it's just intuition maybe it's that gut feeling
but basically he did an excellent job apologizing like the first I don't know
five to ten minutes you know he's he's really sincerely apologizing even puts
links down below in the description to kind of learn about you know why these
words are offensive that he used and he talked about you know just this
negativity and he he talks about how he was being petty and he's like I don't
know why did that well he says he knows why he was hungover and stuff and that
could make you a little bit irritable and all that kind of stuff now I will
say I'm just gonna get this out of the way he talks about who's gonna work on
not being so Petty and catty and stuff like that but like if you've seen this
video when he starts going in on like Manny and Laura and like Nikki that like
he gets really petty mainly what he's talking about Manny but you know what
Gabriel I'll give you a pass there's some stuff that you needed to get off
your chest but yeah this is a very interesting video but anyways what's the
lesson that you can all learn from this what is the lesson that you could take
away from this and it is really like you guys hang out with better people you
have to get better friends please please please please like I cannot stress to
you like I used to be a drama queen like I still kind of like drama from afar but
I was the type of person who I loved being in the middle of drama like I felt
uncomfortable when there wasn't chaos going on I was constantly you know
listening to gossip and gossiping about people behind their backs like it fueled
me the thing is you you surround yourself with these type of people and
it's going to happen to you and these are negative people these are bad
influences so today one of the ways I stay mentally fit is I cut those people
out of my life like I don't jump into the gossip like yeah obviously I have my
opinions here and there and stuff like that here's what I always say I love
everybody but I don't like everybody right but I don't hang around people who
are costly gossiping Gabriel is learning a volume value
valuable lesson at this very young age like you got a watch who you hang out
with because like here's the best analogy I can give for you if you ever
met like your boyfriend or girlfriend through cheating with them right they've
cheated on their boyfriend or girlfriend to be with you and now you're in a
relationship you cannot be surprised when they cheat on you like you met them
in that scenario neither surprise if they're cheating on you so in Gabriel's
situation like if all of you guys are gossiping and starting drama and talking
behind each other's backs like how are you going to be surprised that it's now
happening to you I hope that makes sense and I hope you can learn from that like
this is why I made a video not that long ago about like get better friends
surround yourself with better people like I don't got to worry about that
anymore one of the other things you could do to avoid gossip and drama is
live your life in the best way possible that way if anybody says anything about
you you're not ashamed of it like if you're just being a good person if
everyday you try to be the best person you could be you don't got to worry
about gossip right now something I was interesting about it though is that
Gabriel talked about in that moment when he tweeted about Jeffree Star he was mad at
Jeffery success right and I was actually gonna make a video about Jeffree Star
starring success but like that's very common like something I read in a book
not that long ago I think it was lost connections by Johann Hari I'll link it
down in the description but anyways like we have to realize that success and
Happiness that is an abundant resource like if somebody else is successful or
happy that doesn't take away from your success or happiness but for some reason
the jealousy and the envy and makes us feel that way anyways back to what's
going on with Gabriel and his friends so Gabriel kind of had this like waking up
moment and you could see it you could see it happening or you could see he's
already been through this and basically what happened was is that he didn't even
know Jeffery that well but he's surrounding himself with people where
all they do is talk bad about Jeffery and Gabriel talks about how he was
hanging out with these people and now that he's assessing and evaluating the
situation they were willing friends you know even
Gabriel might not realize it but he was kind of using them there were huge
beauty influencers and things like that but he was letting them feed him
information and letting letting them form his opinion about Jeffrey and I
think it's amazing that Gabriel life it's very mature of him to reach out and
he reached out to Jeffrey and apologized and they had a conversation and like
he's starting to realize like Jeffrey side of the story right and here's
something everybody needs to realize okay you are always the good guy in your
reality right like no matter what story you're telling you're always the good
guy you see what I'm saying so like when Manny and Laura and all these other
people were having bad relationships with Jeff Lee of course it's not their
fault people hate people absolutely hate
taking accountability and taking responsibility for this stuff for
interview who have divorced parents and they kind of have a toxic relationship
it's almost like when your mother says nothing but bad things about your dad or
your dad says nothing but bad things about your mother it can form your
opinion and here's my suggestion to all of you like form your own opinions of
people like I had to start doing this like if people say oh that person over
there is a jerk sometimes we just agree with them so they don't say I told you
so but like we have to investigate for ourselves like we have to find out we
have to get proof that does it mean like put yourself in a super vulnerable
situation where they can really hurt you but like feel about touch the waters
because you might be like oh this is actually a decent person because that
person over there might be holding a petty petty grudge so anyways this is
all really interesting and I might do more videos on this like again I'm not a
drama channel but there's so much you can learn from this entire situation
from just you know I talked about like being more mindful when you're tweeting
yesterday there's so much about finding good friends there's so much of that way
letting go of the past I think I'm actually gonna do a video about that too
and the way there's like this like this mob mentality online because there's
some mental health stuff we could talk about there as well but anyways like I
would love to know your thoughts what are your thoughts on the Gabriel Zamora
apology titled my truth let me know down in the
comments below or you know what let's do this let's make it to four or let me
know in the comments below how did you distance yourself from gossip and drama
or are you someone who still likes to be plunged into it alright let's have the
conversation down below anyways that's all I got for you today so if you like
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