Berrian hamstring were married for decades and
Pam would never let her husband get a motorcycle even though you really really
wanted one because she thought that it was very unsafe and then you'd probably
crash
well one day she finally gave in and allowed her husband Barry to get a
harley-davidson
so he purchased the motorcycle
she refused to go on it she drove separately and
after you purchased it she said I'm gonna go to an antique store
a furniture store and then we'll meet up later at a casino
he drove a motorcycle for three miles
and he crashed and he unfortunately lost his life
I in that accident and pam was sitting in traffic
and she just knew she knew that the traffic was because her husband it
crashed
as you sat in there in that traffic for 45 minutes
and then finally got her husband and found that he was dead got if course
this the
tragic story incredibly sad up buddy it gets into an issue
lifestyle choices and everybody's that with this so their girlfriends or wives
for frances was a cetera
and you know hey you know your family
an- you gotta be careful I only safe everything I've done to my wife
okay she likes skydiving choose to go skydiving
earlier yeah and I was like you know we got two kids
me
in maybe we put just a skydiving aside okay
because he was my for a skydiving things go wrong
in everything right is always like this gardening accident is all
you know you name it is a pool accident a because if you do something a hundred
times one time something on your own
even if you're trying to be super careful and if you something goes
slightly wrong in this kind of the accident
you duck right you did something goes wrong regarding accident you cut your
finger
you'll be alright put a band-aid on it so so I totally see where the wife is
coming from here
and I we see with the results yet to be thinking I knew it but
on the other hand you know something hey listen if he'd been driving the bike
all along this autumn you know when he was older
maybe would have been more you said well in look that accident was approved
coulda been a fluke thing on that particular day so
and he didn't get to drive the the the mind is the raw try the motorcycle
that he wanted to his whole life yeah and you feel bad for me in that way
after he got the motorcycle he won on his Facebook page
and he updated it said forty-four years finally got one with a happy face
what do you think cases I mean looks at you
have a motorcycle right um still write it anymore
know what that's interesting like II don't know which way it goes as it made
you wanna write a more or less
I think I hit a point where I wasn't as reckless I guess
when I matured I see where you're going to have more say your
could do some dumb things now it's a the other day you popped a wheelie
I know tells really careful let him know they're really I
nope but um I think you're right as far as like maybe when he was younger maybe
we're sorry on a smaller bike by not
such a big by Kim by gain more experience than any eventual you get
your Harley
on on different mentality yeah
so there is a view overly careful that could be very dangerous for you
you know if your tooth is that is the thing though yeah I mean so I'm torn on
this story: 200 different ways because
on the one hand youth feel you feel so bad for the way
she's got everything dude do it right I shouldn't let him do that
yeah when I let him do that she she was quoted
as the folly she says it was something he wanted his whole life
it's like my son said dad went out with the biggest smile on his face
so I mean I'm sure internally she had those negative thoughts she's trying to
stay positive
abut I don't know I I would probably
bad my husband from riding on a motorcycle I gotta keep it real while I
want I would I was home I just do I don't think it's a fun way to do it
I can't make up my mind because I actually think
like for me this so many things that I'm not at all
Prado you know you have to have said many times when I was younger you see in
the fights I liked it I like
pace and blood in my mouth a mi nombre I'm a weird dude
I'm a barbarian ride but a motorcycle on my you crazy
and if I follow a great rip my whole body up to me I'm a spazz a very likely
to fall
I wrote it back up John scooter once and I was scared for my life
right he had like it was it was insanely key the almighty dollar you don't feel
safe at all so I just I can imagine my house so that's
our perspective right and so I feel like I want to tell people I know love I
don't do it don't do it on to him
another man you gotta let him live and if they love that
you know set him free and so
it's impossible to know what the right answer is never is gonna make that call
for themselves
sobs the tragic have this wound up yeah a
and you just can't second-guess yourself just gotta live life the best you can
and hope for the best