Hello my wonderful friend! Let's talk about how to tell if a girl is flirting
with you or is just friendly. If there's a cute gal you've noticed and you can't
quite tell if she's flirting or just friendly then you are definitely going
to love what you learn in this video. What you're about to learn is based on
my extensive research and training as a certified coach as well as my insights
as a woman. Before we get started if this is your first time watching be sure to
subscribe and ring that bell. My name is Melannie. I'm a Christian dating coach for
men and I help good guys get the girl of your dreams so be sure to subscribe and
ring that bell. Now let's be honest, is there a worse feeling than thinking
somebody really likes you and then finding out they don't? It's super, super
hurtful, right? And it makes you feel super awkward and super embarrassed. The
truth is, reading the signs if someone is interested in you, it really just comes
down to body language.This is not about playing mind games, this comes down to
body language. But there are some guidelines that once you know it really
streamlines this process and makes it so, so easy. Now I recently did this video
which is How to Tell if a Girl is Flirting With You and you guys loved it
and asked for more. So I wanted to give you some of these guidelines to make it
as easy as possible and really help you feel confident and get the success that
you are looking for. So here are some really good things to look for when you
are interacting with that gorgeous gal to help you be able to tell if she was
flirting with you or if she's just friendly. The first thing to pay
attention to is notice if you are the exception. Let's say for instance that
you watched one of my videos and you learned that one of the signs that a
girl is interested in you or is flirting with you is that she touches you. That's
just kind of a common sign. As soon as you learn this you get super excited
because you notice "Oh my goodness, she hugs me every time she sees me." Well, pay
attention, does she hug everyone whenever she sees them too or are you the exception?
If you're the only one she does that with with, yeah, that's like definitely
she's flirting with you and she's interested in you.
But if she does that with everyone that's not necessarily a sign, she could
just be friendly. So pay attention to how she interacts with other people as well
as how she interacts with you. If you are the exception well then yeah she's
probably flirting with you. The second thing to pay attention to is to keep it
all in context. Let's go back to that example of a girl touching you when she
is interested. Let's say that you are at a loud concert and she touches
your arm to get your attention to talk to you. It'd be really easy to say "Oh my
goodness, she touched me, she likes me." And that could be the case, but you can
pretty much guarantee she touched your arm to get your attention. That does not
necessarily mean she doesn't like you but it doesn't necessarily mean that she
does. Keep it in context. If instead she happens to touch you frequently or brush
past you or sit really close to you and you notice she does this often and
especially if you're the exception like we mentioned earlier then that is a
really good sign that she is flirting with you.
If she hands you something and her hand happens to brush up against yours
temporarily, that's not necessarily a sign. If however she tends to sit close
to you and stay there, well then yeah, that can be a really good sign that
she's flirting. The next thing to pay attention to is
notice if she casually mentions that she's single. That is not really
something you do if you're just being friendly. "Hi, nice to meet you. I'm single
by the way." Like that's just not something you tend to do. If she is casually
mentioning she's single and if she does it a decent amount of times, yeah, then
that's probably because she wants you to notice that she's single so you'll ask
her out. Quick question before we get to the next thing. I want to hear from you
in the comments. Would you like more videos on how to tell if a girl is
flirting? If you would, be sure to leave me "YES!" in the comments below and I will
know to do that for you. Now our next tip is one of the best ways to tell if a
girl is flirting with you and that is to just be aware of the signs
that a girl is interested and the science that a girl is flirting with you.
I have people leave me comments all the time asking me "Oh hey, she did this, is
she interested?" "Hey she did this is this interested?" And that's great. However,
it's important to look for more than one sign. It's great to find one, that's
awesome, but the more signs you're aware of the more confident you can be that
she's not just being friendly, she is legitimately interested. I've done tons
of videos on this, I have an entire playlist, guys, and it's basically your
ultimate guide to knowing if a girl likes you. So be sure to check it out,
there is a link in the description below. Be sure to at least check out this video,
guys, it's going to help you so, so much. So educate yourself. Know the signs so
that you just don't have to worry about it, you just know it, and then look for as
many signs as you can see. As you do that it will help you be much more confident
that, yeah, she is interested, she is flirting, instead of "Well, was she
friendly, was that a sign? I don't really know what's going on." So really educating
yourself is the best thing you can do. And our final tip on how to tell if a
girl is flirting with you or just friendly is maybe the most important one
to pay attention to. And that is ask yourself does she have a specific reason
where she would have to be friendly? For instance, it's really easy when you
are in a work environment for someone to have to be friendly to you. The
receptionist, the hairstylist, the nurse, whatever it is, they have to be
friendly to you, they get paid to be friendly to you. And so it's really easy
for us to see people who are really friendly and think "Hey, they like me."
The truth is, if she's being paid to be a friendly person that's not necessarily a
sign. Now that does not mean by default that she wouldn't be interested or that she
is not a friendly person by nature, it just means be extra cautious of that.
It's very very easy for women like that to come across as interested when really
it's her job to make sure you're comfortable and well taken care of and
that you are enjoying your experience there. So just be extra cautious in those
situations. If you think for some reason that there is a possibility she's interested
or even if you would just like to find out so you don't have to worry
about it anymore, when appropriate it's okay to just ask her out or get her
number and then you would just know and not have to worry about it. Because the
truth is, especially in this situation where she's working she has to stay very
very professional. Now you know some of the ways to tell if a girl is flirting
with you but what do you do next? It does you no good if you know she's flirting
with you but then you mess it up. And the truth is, guys, you can totally mess it up.
That's why it's so important to know how to do it right. This is actually why I
put together my video on the three secrets you have to know to get a
girlfriend. Guys, seriously, this will save you so much embarrassment
and awkwardness and heartache. There's a link to that video in the description
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I will send you this exclusive video, guys. You're going to love it and it's
going to help you a ton because what's better than knowing a girl is
flirting with you and then rocking it? That my friend is how you get a
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