Human beings are so profoundly alone
We live on the planet Earth a bit like roommates
Now some roommates we like some roommates we quite frankly want to kill
But we're not living one life together
Instead we live separate lives in the same vicinity as each other
We lack emotional connection even when we are surrounded by other people this feeling of being profoundly alone is the root cause of
Unhappiness in the human race. It is the root cause of addictions. It's the root cause of suicide
It's the root cause of acts of terror, and it's the root of the dysfunction in the way that society is structured
But we weren't always this way so how did it get like this?
Humans used to live in a state of emotional
Connectivity now ironically what removed us from this state is one of our greatest strengths, and that's our intellect
With our intellect as people. We were able to form
Self-concept now. That's what an ego is ego
is nothing more than the thought I
By thinking of ourselves as a self
Or as an I we saw our self as different to other things in our environment and different to other people
Now the concept of AI is a bit like a cancer that just continues to divide and divide and divide oneness so to speak
If you'd like to understand more about this watch my video titled oneness is not the ultimate Ares of the universe
But it's important to understand that this intellectual advancement would in fact be 10 times more detrimental than it ever was beneficial
It used to be that our survival as a species was completely dependent on each other. I'm talking physical survival
We depend so much on each other for everything that we needed to accomplish first survival needs
That it was not safe at all for us to be on a tune to each other. It was not safe to not feel or
Hear or see or understand one of the members of our community
To go out of alignment with any one of them meant that it threatened our well-being
Another way to put this and those of you who have had abusive childhoods
Know this or those of you who have lived off the land know this it is very very dangerous to be on
Attuned to or not be able to perceive
the reality of something your life depends upon
If your life depends on something you remain very perceptive to the actuality and the well-being of that thing
Well the scary thing about being dependent on anything is that you're pretty much at the mercy of that
Whatever it is providing what you need from it for example. Let's say that corn is your main food source
You're obviously dependent on it. Let's hope corn grows next year, otherwise. You're pretty much up shit creek
Or let's say you're dependent on somebody to go hunting because if they you'll starve to death they never come back from the hunt
You're in a little bit of trouble
So obviously what did we do we used our intellect?
To take ourselves out of that powerless position we used our intellect to try to make ourselves less and less
dependent on
Anything that could relate to our survival. We found ways to get away from being dependent
We removed ourselves from interdependence and took control of everything instead
For example we used our intellect to create clothes and houses to not depend on the seasons or elements we started planting crops did not
Depend on what the earth naturally provided in a given year
We created money to not depend on another person liking our trade even though this had many benefits it also came with a monumental downside
What's important to understand? Is that all thoughts?
Attract and create like thoughts. It's impossible to think we thought I without then giving rise to the concept of mind
This is when we started to become territorial and we started to become about property
This further separated us and that we began to treat people upon whom our survival. No longer depended as things
Belonging to us or things opposing us
As we became less and less dependent on other things including each other our basic survival. No longer depended on the well-being of others instead
Other people were seen as either resources for us to use for our own benefit
Slavery's an example of this or as threats to our well-being we started to control them and eradicate them and only add to their well-being
conditionally if they comply to our wishes
We lost our motive to stay connected
We became more and more independent, and here is the biggest thing to understand about how it all got like this
By using our intellect to create this kind of world for ourselves where we were less dependent on each other we lost
Survival in the physical reality as our main motive for stayin attuned to each other
Being able to perceive each other emotionally
Staying connected emotionally and taking another person's well-being is absolutely invisible from our own
For the first time in history when someone looked at us and asked something of us for their well-being we could say mmm
No, because actually ensuring your well-being doesn't do anything for me
I don't risk anything by losing it so have fun with that on your own
Now this is the origin of war the origin of war is
Your well-being doesn't impact my well-being anymore so screw you
Now war is only made matters worse and worse and worse and worse because they placed people in a different kind of survival scenario
it's almost like you can look at
Survival on a kind of sliding scale where at a certain point on that scale your survival is about interdependence
Now you can push it one step further and put everybody into so much of a survival like with more where
Survival of the fittest is all about how fast you can screw somebody over and how self-centered you can be
That's what war did
Not only that
War creates a condition where so many people are in pain they have no capacity to help each other
I mean just go into a hospital
Everybody who's in a hospital bed is actually in a narcissistic state their pain has made them completely self-centered
They don't have any energy to give
So let's say that a man survived war chances are he had such bad post-traumatic stress disorder that he couldn't really be
Available to his wife now. What happens when the wife doesn't have a husband
That's available her and her whole life has been ripped apart by war now
She's not available really for the children and now the children are just being raised in this
Environment where there's nobody really there for them emotionally
They're lucky. If they're getting fed and clothed rape
children growing up in the kind of emotional environment where parents are just trying to survive and where they are treated as objects belonging to
their parents learned that their parents well-being has nothing whatsoever to do with they are well being
This is a household of emotional neglect and even abuse
To understand emotional neglect watch my video titled today's great epidemic and how to cure it
Children who were raised in this type of an environment grow up with a core concept and that is that
My well-being is about not being dependent on
anyone else
their well-being
They become narcissistic and that life is about everyone being out for themselves
and
They developed several
Adaptive strategies to ensure that they will be able to meet their individual needs in a way that does not depend on anyone taking them
into consideration in a loving way
This is the foundation of the dysfunctional family system, which is the most prevalent family system in the world today
These children will in turn grow up to treat their children like this
it's a cancer that passes from generation to generation a cancer of non consideration.
I cannot perceive your feelings thoughts desires needs etc because that does nothing for me
You only exist insofar as what you can do for me, so?
Gradually we lost our motive and with it our ability to really perceive each other on the planet Earth because
It was no longer something linked to our physical survival
we lost the capacity to
See each other feel each other hear each other and remain intimately emotionally connected with each other
We began to live our lives on planet Earth as complete individuals
But side by side and no this is not healthy. This is not
autonomy this is independence
The more that you become independent
The less you depend on other people the less you give a shit where they are emotionally or even physically
The less we depend on each other the less connected we become
The structure of our society is one that continues to separate people further and further. We have become completely
attachment and relationship disordered in nature
And we continue to propagate the idea that independence being alone and meeting our needs completely for ourselves
Is something to develop and take pride in?
By thinking our way out of interdependence in terms of physical survival
Life on Earth became a zero-sum game it became you versus me it became possible
It's an illusion of course, but it seemed
possible that one person could win with the other person losing or vice-versa and
There wasn't any impact the well-being of whoever won
The very thing we thought up for the sake of our survival and therefore improvement in life is the very thing that would condemn it
We are currently in a phase of human evolution of consciousness where we are about to reverse this process
Completely now ironically. It's not going to be done by getting rid of the ego completely
Instead the ego has got to become a doorway for this process
The ego must understand that it must and does depend on others
We must gain back our motive to be connected and entry dependent and therefore attuned to another person
We must gain back the complete embodied understanding that the well-being of other things whether they be human or non-human is
indivisible from our own well-being
When we fully realize this we will choose to be connected in a way where we can fully perceive them there will no longer be
emotional neglect
There will no longer be a void within people there will no longer be abuse there will no longer be war
There will no longer be any form of disconnection between us
Now this is where I'm going to stretch your minds
We are in a phase where we're going to have to be consciously choosing to be dependent
Now feel your reaction to that what does that tell you about how you've been programmed?
There is absolutely nothing powerless if you choose consciously to be dependent upon something and what makes
Dependence safe and what makes it true
Interdependence is when both people in that
Let's call it relationship of mutual dependence
Already understand that the other person's well-being is
Completely indivisible from their own. They must care take it
Now the unhealthy relationships that you guys associate with codependence and things like that. It's a relationship in which the dependence
diminishes the other person, but the person benefiting by it doesn't care if
We genuinely take other people as part of ourselves and their well-being as indivisible from our own
It is impossible for us to play this game
From there we will realize that there is no other that is an illusion
This is when the thought I and all concepts connected to it like mine will dissipate
So will our sense of isolation along with it
It will no longer be a thought kept alive by the minds of men
We got like this because we refuse to be dependent because we believed that our survival was completely dependent upon
becoming independent
But now our
survival on this planet quite literally depends upon us making the conscious choice to
be interdependent
Have a good week