Gentleman, are you paying enough attention to her nipples?
Probably not. That is why I'm making this video. Hi, I'm
Caitlin V, your sex and relationship coach. And today I
have a very simple yet important message for you. And that is,
we want more nipple sucking. Seriously, why? Because it is
amazing and seriously underrated. But that is only if
you do it in the right way because I have some bad news for
you. Most of you don't. My limited sample size collection
that I have done over the last, you know, 20 years of being
sexually active. Very few of you get it right on the first try.
But that's okay, because today, I'm going to tell you exactly
how to become a master nipple sucker and I'm going to teach
you how to become the master nipple stimulator simulator.
Yeah, you're going to become a nipple simulator. We're going to
teach you how to simulate nipples. All of the women whose
nipples you encounter in your life will thank you. But before
we dive into the how, let's quickly address the why. You may
not know this, but the nipples are directly linked to the
genitals. Wow. Right but it's actually true. When they're
stimulated correctly. They send sparks to the genital sensory
cortex, which is the same part of your brain that is stimulated
through direct vaginal or clitoral or penile stimulation.
Some women aren't even capable of having full on orgasms, just
from nipple stimulation alone. So trust me when I tell you that
knowing how to treat her nipples, right has the potential
to elevate you to serious sex god status. So let's dive right
in. Here are my five tips for out of this world nipple
pleasure. Tip one of five communication is key. If you
want to have great sex, you have to have great communication.
I've said it once I've said it twice. I've said it on 300 Plus
YouTube videos. As with any other sex act, consent is
crucial before playing with her nipples like the world's tiniest
little violence, make sure she is into the Stratovarius also,
some of y'all are little nipple monsters out there, I see you I
see you I've seen ability I've been with you the nipple
enthusiast out there. On the other hand, she may already be
sucked to death. So you need to also check in to make sure that
she wants more from you or if maybe she wants you to do it
differently. And keep watching so that you can enhance your
technique your little memory lovers you because I want you to
do the best ever since you obviously love it so much. The
thing about nipples is that no two are alike. And I'm not just
talking about like aesthetically like lefty is bigger than
writing I mean that literally we all have different sensitivities
and preferences even on the same body. So it's extra important
that you make sure that what you are doing is pleasurable, and to
the exact nipple that you're doing it to nipple sensitivity
can be affected by a lot of things like surgeries, piercings
breast size, and some people even have numbness in their
nipples aside from any piercings or surgeries that ever happened
to them. Many people find a high pressure touch to feel weird or
uncomfortable. And on top of that the sensitivity of a
woman's nipples changes along with her menstrual cycle. That
means that one week she may really want them to be soft,
hard and pinched. But on the other week, she may prefer just
like a light licking and that's all she can take. So be sure to
encourage and request clear communication around how things
are feeling for your partner and what they want or don't want. It
is the only way to know for sure that they are having a good
time. Tip number two of five start pseudo on top of clear
communication. Another way to make sure that your partner
isn't getting overstimulated is to start off nice and slow. You
can think of a woman's nipples similarly to her labia or her
vagina, she needs a little time to warm up and starting off with
a pounding is rarely a good idea, especially if your partner
is new to nipple play. Starting off with gentle licks or kisses
and working up to a more pressured sub will give you more
time to make sure that you know exactly where her limits are.
And nipple second can be a great way to build anticipation for
the rest of a sexual experience. So teasing is your friend here
play around with stopping and starting I think a lot of guys
don't get this like stopping and giving her body a chance to sort
of like load all of that pleasure before you bring it
back on moments of stillness. These are your secret weapons,
make her beg for it. Another fun and kinky thing about starting
slow is that you get to experiment with pushing the
envelope. If you slowly work your way up to a harder and more
pressured suck, you will get to know exactly where your
partner's limits are. And knowledge is power. When you
overwhelm the nervous system by coming in hot and heavy some
people's nerves just like shut down and then they can't feel
anything. So in order to get to where you're going, make sure
that you plan a route that It is let's just say scenic along the
way. Tip three of five,
switch it up. Alright when it comes to nipple sucking it is
crucial and I mean crucial to switch up techniques as euphoric
and sexy as nipple sucking can be. Most women don't want to
feel like they are straight up breastfeeding a grown man. I say
most because some people don't. But if your technique is
exclusively sucking in a consistent and rhythmic pattern,
she may began to wonder if she's lactating and that is not the
vibe. Unless again, it's totally the vibe holler you milk
fetishes out there. The key to truly great nipple sucking is
switching up the technique and giving her a whole variety of
sensations. Try running small circles around her nipples with
your tongue. lick her nipples with a gentle and then firmer
pressure. And don't forget to include the area was if she's
even into it. You can even bring your teeth into the mix, but
make sure if you're gonna get toothy that you start very, very
gentle and I mean gentle, like just little grazes. If you're
doing anything that resembles a bite, make sure that you apply
minimum pressure until you are told otherwise, breath is also
your friend, you can play around with blowing warm or cool. On
the parts of her nipples that are still a little wet with your
saliva, the changes in temperature can be super
pleasurable, and it's also a great way to give her a break
from the more intense sensations. Alright, moving on
to tip number four, use your hands. Look, your mouth can do
wonders. But if you have other tools at your disposal, why the
hell wouldn't you use them while you're putting your mouth to
work on her nipple, you can be using your hand to massage her
breast, intensify the sensation or maybe even directing it where
you want it to go. You can also reach over and give her other
nipples some love. I mean, we have one mouth but two hands for
a reason. Pinch it, graze it, stimulate it, you got it. In
fact, nipple cycling is actually a great time to use your hands
to explore the entire rest of her body as well. This is a good
idea for a couple of reasons. Not only does it feel good to be
touched, but it will also make her feel like you are
appreciating her entire body. And when you have two sensations
going on at once, it's harder for her to get up in her head.
So massage her breasts, run your hands along her body, squeeze
her close to you show that you are enthusiastic and present.
It's in the details that you are elevated from a good lover to a
great one.
Did you hear that the people the back men of the back. It's in
the details. That's what makes you a great lover. I promise you
this. And here's a pro tip
for you. If you're feeling adventurous, your hands are not
the limit. There are tons of toys and tools out there to
intensify nipple play. I'm talking vibrators clamps,
suction cups, clamps that have like little bead strings on
them. So you can like pull her along. If you're down to get
adventurous, you have got so many options. Just visit a
quality sex store and ask them where the nipple section is. And
you will be delighted. And by the way, I have to say as
amazing as YouTube is. And thank you YouTube for being the sex
positive internet social media Daddy that is letting me live
another day on your platform. But if you want to hear all of
my tips and techniques, then you have got to check out my private
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coaching so that we can really dive into the things and all of
the fun things in particular that we're just not allowed to
talk about here on YouTube. Seriously, check that out. But I
digress. Let's get back to the nipples. Tip number five,
practice on your self. My final nipple tip liberal civil, civil
liberal. My final tip for pro liberal play today is to
practice on yourself. Sure, I can hear you saying this
already. My nipples are different than women's nipples.
I know. But you still have them right? Sort of like buttholes
they're the great democratizer is of sex. But if you're
wondering what different levels of pressure feel like how pacing
and different techniques feel like how they affect your
experience, there's only one way to find out. Again, kind of just
like the butthole if you want to play with it on somebody else,
play with your own first you can use fingers and lubricant to
create a lot of pleasurable sensations and to perfect your
technique. So why not try that the next time that you're
masturbating even if your nipples aren't very sensitive,
or erotically charged. Exploring your own body will give you a
chance to maybe increase and enhance your nipples ability to
experience pleasure. It will give you an opportunity to
practice those techniques so that when you are with a lover,
you feel more confident and you have a deeper understanding of
your own preferences. And if you don't feel anything at first,
don't give up as long as you continue to stimulate your
nipples along with your genitals or as long as your self pleasure
practice. The more pleasure that you will begin to wire through
your nervous system. It's like Pavlov's nipples, like the more
that you associate it with leisure, the more pleasurable it
will be. The more you know about exactly what brings you
pleasure, the more you will be able to actually seek it out and
provide it both for yourself and others. There you have it no
more neglecting the nipples. My friends seriously, they are a
body part. With so much sensory ability, so much potential for
pleasure. Let's give them all the attention that they deserve.
And if you are with a person who has nipples, there is a chance
that some level of stimulation will enhance your sexual
experience and I say more pleasure is better. I'm Caitlin
V. Thank you for watching. Don't forget to subscribe and I will
see you here next week.