the real reason that you have problems in bed is because you don't know your type
and i'm not talking about the type of person you're attracted to
i'm talking about your erotic type in other words your blueprint your wiring the thing that makes
you you and your eroticism your turn-ons and your turn-offs unique you see every single person has
one of these five erotic blueprints™ and today i'm gonna break them down for you
the erotic blueprints™ were created by my mentor and coach jaya she is a total freaking genius
sex logical bodyworker world-renowned sexual expert best-selling author you name it she's
a freaking genius and she created these erotic blueprints™ or i should say she discovered them
through working with literally thousands of people and noticing that different bodies responded to
different kinds of stimulation from that she was able to discover five main erotic blueprints™
and has developed an entire body of work on how to use these blueprints to have an amazing love
life how to maximize your passion your pleasure your excitement your fulfillment in the bedroom
how to have better sex with your spouse even if you're stuck in a sexless marriage and how to live
a more fulfilled life of pleasure even outside of the bedroom and i say all of this as a certified
erotic blueprint™ coach myself i've been studying directly under jaya for the last three years and
i have been learning how to apply this system to both singles and couples so if you're interested
feel free to check out my links in the description below i'm happy to help you use this to improve
your love life okay but let's get into what the erotic blueprints™ actually are and why the heck
you should care well the erotic blueprints™ number one are for everybody no matter how great the sex
that you're already having is it can always be improved but there are certain people for whom the
erotic blueprints™ are really really crucial these are people who are having discrepancies in their
arousal type between them and their partner so if you and your girlfriend or boyfriend or husband
or wife or spouse or life partner are having differences in the bedroom whether that leaves
to one person feeling rejected not having the kind of sex or enough sex whether that means that one
person jumps and pulls away every time that you try to initiate sex with them whether you've been
doing this for two months or 20 years this is who the erotic blueprints are really immediately
best at serving but it's not just people in relationships single folks and folks who think
that sex really isn't for them they don't really understand like what the big deal is all about
why does everybody make such a big deal about sex people who have never experienced an orgasm
people who feel like they've had sex that they just like didn't enjoy and they want to figure
out a way to enjoy sex again they want to figure out a way to make sex with a partner feel good
for them no matter what your sexual problem is no matter what challenge you're trying to overcome an
understanding of the erotic blueprints™ will help you to get to know yourself to get to know how you
work and to get to know everyone around you all of your lovers and friends and even people with whom
you don't have any kind of intimate relationship you will experience them on a deeper level and
you'll be able to appreciate them and get your own needs met much more easily once you understand the
erotic blueprints™ let's talk about what the blueprints actually are as i mentioned there
are five core erotic blueprint types™ everyone falls under one of these five types and some of us
experience more than one get into that in just a second if you want to learn which type you are i'm
going to make a link to a quiz in the description of this video but don't go just yet because they
want to help you to understand them a little bit further then you go take the quiz it will
tell you what percentage you are of each of the types and share some more information from there
also if you're interested in learning more i'm making a second video to this series explaining
in depth how you can use each of these erotic blueprints to get better in bed and enjoy sex more
so stick around and check that one out too all right let's get into the five types first off is
the energetic blueprint these are people who are turned on by tease anticipation and space and who
can be turned off or short circuit by a lover who goes too quickly too directly for their genitals
or gives them too much stimulation all at once the second blueprint is the sensual blueprint
sensuals enjoy being turned on in all of their five senses sight sound taste touch and smell
they can also get turned off by things in each of those five senses as well like a dirty room
and they can sometimes get stuck up in their head while they're being intimate which can cause them
to lose their orgasm like where'd it go where they are we just had it no it's gone the next blueprint
is the sexual blueprint the sexual blueprint is what most of us think sex and eroticism
are really all about its focus on genitals and orgasms and triple x and strip clubs and porn
that's the sexual blueprint but as you're learning already that is not the whole story even if it's
the one that most of us have been sold the shadow side of the sexual blueprint is because they
are so easy to turn on and sex is just like drinking water or breathing air to them they
can sometimes oversimplify sex and not get what the big deal is about or why someone would need
special touch or eye contact or deep breathing or massages or candles you name it in order to
enjoy a sexual experience the fourth blueprint is the kinky blueprint and before you start to
go off into 50 shades of grey territory and think about whips and cuffs i want you to
consider that kinky is actually broken down into both physical and psychological categories and
really what is king is just what's taboo to you so whatever is outside of the lines and
is not allowed that whether that's doggy style or a hardcore bondage scene where you get sealed
into a rubber vacuum bed with flowers on your body which is top of my to-do list kinky is
very very relative the downside of people who have the kinky blueprint or the shadow side of
the kinky blueprint is that they can experience a lot of shame around their desires or sometimes can
need more and more intense stimulation or more and more intense taboo stuff in order to get pop and
then finally number five is the shape shifter the shape shifter is someone who is into all of the
previous blueprints they can have all of the super powers of those blueprints they can also have all
of the shadow sides the important thing about the shapeshifter is that they actually need to have
all four of these blueprint types met for them to feel super fulfilled and sexually satisfied
a lot of shapeshifters go really hungry because they've never had all of their needs met they've
never been truly filled in all four of the other blueprints the thing about shape-shifters is that
they actually shape-shift to whatever partner they're with so if you're with an energetic
partner you get into your energetic blueprint if you're with a sensual partner you get into your
sensual blueprint and that is what leaves you feeling like you're never actually getting all
of your needs met it's like you're just speaking the language of the person who's in front of you
instead of speaking all of the languages that you have access to and i will tell you it was
at this moment when i first heard about the blueprints that i realized that i was a starving
shapeshifter and suddenly i had the language to describe what was happening in my own sex life
and i immediately went and took the quiz that i'm going to link in the description below and found
out what my blueprint type was and i immediately signed up for coaching because i knew that there
was so much more for me to learn and there's so much for me to share with you in the next video
why the erotic blueprints™ make you a superstar lover and how to use each of those five blueprint
types in bed tonight so that you can have even better sex whether that's sex with yourself or
with your partner i will see you in the next video i'm caitlin b thank you so much for tuning in
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