with Ben Affleck if you want to call it love than yes, I was in love
after watching in Pearl Harbor, I was in 5th standard
maybe when you are in high school, you find one of your senior really
cute or really like you know sweet, that type but not love
for now there is nothing
and even if it ever happens. I don't think I am somebody who will make announcement or anything
when my films do really well, like URI did well, Bala did well , I am very happy but that didn't change anything in me
god forbit if tomorrow something doesn't do well , provided obviously I am prepared I have seen film and I know what's going to happen
I am okay with it too
maybe people never approached me , I was actually told in university that
always which is true actually, I have invisible fence around me and people too scared to approach you
fearing either rejection or a slap
I think there is only one kind of love which is old school love
in cities, you have everything, you have independence
you have everything but yet there is a big vacuum
yet there is big I don't know what I want or I don't know what's missing, why it's not working out
when you are in relationship it demands certain kind of I wouldn't say
compromise or I wouldn't say adjustment
there needs to be adjustment and sometimes sacrifices of I don't know what from bot the people
ever since I started working at PINKVILLA, one of the few people who supported me through and through has to be Yami Gautam
for all her films, or no releases she has always said yes to interview with me
Today joining us for fun round of conversation is Yami again
Hi, Nayan that was a very sweet introduction, I said a lot\
that was really sweet
I want to ask this is a film based on marriage
usually wedding films are the happiest films right
from whether you see Hum Apke Hai Kon, to any other
even mere Yaar Ki Shai Hai , these are films you watch or you want to watch even when you are sad, happy
did that connect with you when you read the script of the film
see all the film that you have named yes that are the films we have grown up watching and
but Ginny weds Sunny when I read it, it was more than only marriage based film
because there is story which leads to the wedding and the other characters are also very pivital
both Ginny and Sunny themselves if you watch or see the trailer they are very different as people
they are very different in terms of expression and way they carry themselves
it's journey of 2 different people exploring not just relationship themselves but
also their own individualities, and than coming together or not coming together whatever how it goes
so for me
that's not where I connected when I read the film but yes the song beats that we get to dance
for sure
Yami, when we think of love, certain people still believe in old school love and today there are dating apps and different kind of love , all each to their own
which category you belong to, how do you define your opinion on love
I think there is only one kind of love which is old school love
and the other kind of love is, I mean it;s fine there is different expression obviously it's digital age where
it brings itself option also to be able to express or look for your partner
but at the same time lot of complexity also , I belong to old school age of love
I am asking you this because I believe in same kind of love
my mother and father they have been married for 41 years I am sure
your mom and dad has also shared a beautiful relationship and over the years they have been loving to each other
I don't think our generation maximum can do that like the majority of our generation which is why my previous question was like that
do you think people like us who believe in old school love it becomes difficult to find in today;s times
it does, I think it does become difficult because as I said
I think the sense and meaning has changed, it has become something else
I don't connect with it but majority of people do and I think that is
one of the reasons why despite their being at least in the cities
despite their being almost , you have everything, you have your independence, you have
everything but yet there is a big vaccume or yet there is I don't know what I want, or what is missing or I don't know why it is not working out
because I think that value system of or
when you are in relationship I think it demands certain kind of
I wouldn't say compromise or I wouldn't say adjustment
there needs to be adjustments and sometimes sacrifices of I don't know what from both the people
so it takes adjustments, it takes something it's almost like there is a bench and
you're comfortable and suddenly there is this another person than his family
you have to make space, you have to be willing enough to make space, to adjust and be happy
that is the problem because we are too clear about what we want or what I want but
you don't want to hear what will make this relationship nuture
that requires two people and lot more than love
you were talking about the fact that it becomes difficult right
love that we have in our childhood are always the sweet and innocent one's
do you you remember first time you felt towards in love
maybe it was just infacuation but love felt love back then
well Ben Affleck if you want to call it love than yes, I was in love
after watching Pearl Harbor , I was in 5th standard
when you are in high school maybe than , maybe you find of your seniors really \
cute or really like you know sweet that type but not love
I wish to have Shurili here
marriage is happening on screen in many movies back to back
in real life is there any marriage plans
not at all, now in during lockdown, we have work, it is a good thing and I am fortunate
there is no marriage on my list right now
even if it will ever than I don't think I am somebody who will announce or anything
but is it going to, No but I am telling you the kind of person I am so be it pandemic or no pandemic
I will always be somebody who will be quite about it
you're missing Shurili right, you want her to tell you and interept I can see it on your face and I am not interested
so never have I ever if you have done the situation you will take sip of the water
Lied about your age
never.
found somebody on matrimonial site or signed up for matrimonial site
No
lied about your weight
weight , No
if I really put on weight than it looks
sometimes when you don't put on, maybe you are 50 kg and you said 48
No, not that also
cheated on someone ever
No, I knew
being cheated on by someone
No, thankfully
Had a terrible heart break
for anything it doesn't have to be romantic it can be anything in life
been really out and about like done
yeah
you don't have to say what it was about but how did you gather yourself
is there defense mechanism that you follow to deal with such low situations in life
yeah my parents just told me that you know, that's fine the day you just accept it
the day you make yourself comfortable with something you are not okay with as much as people are comfortable with success
you will never have issues , lot of things will get sorted in your life
that really worked for me so when my films do well like URI did well, Bala did really well
I am really happy but that didn't change anything in me and
God forbitt tomorrow doesn't do something well provided I am prepared I have seen the film and I know what's going to happen
I am okay with it too so that balance perspective is important
but I think you have amazing sense of balance and perspective in life being honest
this straight from heart
have had really naughty dream about any other celebrity can be any
No thankfully.
you know what I don't remember dreams , rarely few 1-2 dreams I must remember
like I don't remember what I dreamt last night
have really liked or hit on by somebody in somebody else's wedding
liked, that is when you in high school and attending wedding
somebody is looking at me that';s it
that is not called hitting on, or hit by someone
now it is something that people are more comfortable
I don't think back then in 90's or maybe yeah people never approached me I was told
in university that always which is true actually I had this invisible fence around me people were too scared guys were too scared to approach me
fearing either rejection or a slap
so I have never ever been hit , I am not kidding
it's a revolution on your show
it's not because I know
I knew it thanks to our lovely Shurili
have been to a strip club or witnessed a strip show ever
No
I know you wouldn't have done but thankfully I hope you had fun
talking about love, marriage and Ginny Weds Sunny
everybody is talking about because film is about marriage
thank you for doing this and all the best, Thank you Nayan