Dwyane Wade and Gabrielle Union are learning so much from their 12-year-old child Zaya.
And by taking the opportunity to listen to their younger loved one, Wade and Union are
setting an example for parents everywhere.
As the retired NBA player shared during an interview on The Ellen DeGeneres Show in February
2020, Wade's daughter from a previous relationship, Zaya, has come out as a transgender girl.
The 38-year-old is speaking out about Zaya's gender identity in support of his daughter's
desire to live as her most authentic self.
Wade isn't the only supportive parent Zaya has going for her.
Posting a video of Zaya and Wade chatting about life in a golf cart, Union announced
on Instagram,
"Meet Zaya.
She's compassionate, loving, whip smart and we are so proud of her.
It's Ok to listen to, love & respect your children exactly as they are.
Love and light good people."
Soon after, the internet was flooded with love and admiration for the famous family
- but the outpouring of support also came along with some sadly not surprising instances
of criticism and transphobia.
In the wake of all the amplified attention on their family over his child's momentous
announcement, Wade tweeted,
"We don't claim to have all the answers but we are committed to learning and loving and
being good allies and better parents."
In the Instagram video of Zaya and her dad having a heart-to-heart, the 12-year-old spoke
about her decision to go public with her transition, emphasizing the importance of authenticity.
She shared advice for others who are afraid of being judged.
"Just be true to yourself.
Because what's the point of being on this earth if you're gonna try to be someone you're
not?
It's like, you're not even living as yourself."
When Wade asked whether that stance still stands when others are being mean or hurtful,
Zaya wisely responded,
"I know it can get tough definitely, but I think you push through and you be the best
you."
In a recent Good Morning America interview, Wade revealed Zaya has known about and expressed
her gender identity since the age of 3.
But while the famous parents have been supportive allies, figuring out how best to parent a
transgender child has involved a natural learning curve for the family.
Luckily, Zaya did her research, and helped them figure it all out together.
As Wade recalled,
"She went down the list and said, y'know, 'This is how I identify myself.
This is my gender identity.
I identify myself as a young lady."
Ultimately, Wade made clear, quote, "She's leading us along this journey."
If there's one big takeaway from Wade and Union sharing Zaya's journey publicly, it's
that they're prioritizing her happiness.
On Good Morning America, Wade said,
“This is no game to us.
We're about protecting her heart, we're about protecting her joy and to do that, we have
to support them."
And during his Ellen DeGeneres Show interview, Wade shared,
"Me and my wife, Gabrielle Union, we are proud parents of a child in the LGBTQ+ community.
And we are proud allies as well."
Wade's son Zaire posted a message for his sister on Instagram, too.
Along with childhood photos, Zaire wrote,
"I have been blessed to have my best friend, Zaya with me for 12 years.
We did everything together...we fought, we played, we laughed and we cried.
But the one thing we never did was leave each other behind...
I've told you that I would lay my life down to make sure you are ten toes down and happy
on this earth.
I don't care what they think Z, you are my best friend and I love you kid, and if it
means anything, just know there's no love lost on this side."
In yet another public show of support, the family attended Miami Pride in April 2019.
While Wade missed the event because of basketball, he shared a message of support on Instagram,
writing,
"Wish I was there to see you smile kid!"
Although Wade and Union are setting an example and opening up an important conversation,
they're the first to admit they're not perfect - it's a learning experience for them as well.
On February 11th, Union tweeted,
"Huge huge huge THANK YOU to everyone whose dms I slid into, friends, & family who provided
information, resources, love & encouragement.
We are humble LGBTQ+ allies with ALOT to learn & grateful for all the support.
We encourage yall to check us as needed."
"The biggest thing is, have an open mind.
Go out and research, ask your child, ask other people questions."
At the end of the day, Wade and Union aren't the only ones learning from Zaya's commitment
to authenticity.
Fans all across the country are being taught a thing or two about the power of family support
and living life as your true self.
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