Ladies, this is Galtelligence. I'm here today with Beardy and Larry to tell you
What Subconscious Things You Do That Make Him Ignore You.
If you’re busy wondering how to impress a guy,
you might miss things you do that make him ignore you.
Psych2Go had some interesting insights on their video about the
Subconscious Things You Do That Make Others Ignore You. So we wanted to share
some good wisdom too. And because we don’t want you being ignored, at the end of this
video, we’re going to show you a great way to get his attention. So, if you think
he’s ignoring you, see if you’re guilty of these subconscious things. Let’s get
into it. 7. Being quiet
Men like to feel appreciated too and will start to disregard you if you don’t put
in the effort. And this includes not participating in conversation.
You might not realize it, but replying with short, quick responses doesn’t
sing effort on your part. Sure, you might just be shy and tend to be quiet, but
if you work on your conversation skills you might
just find men will start to seek you out. There are proven psychological tricks that
help make a guy chase you. And it’s all about
what you say and what you do. Remember, the act of communicating deepens connection
and it’s what good, healthy relationships are
built on. It’s how you get to know each other, right? So don’t just sit there quietly;
contribute to the conversation and keep it alive. This
will have him enjoying himself. And ladies, what
happens when a guy enjoys himself with you? That’s right, he’ll want to spend more
time with you! You’ll be less the chaser and
more the “chasee”. If you want to know more ways to get the guy
pursuing you, watch our video “7 Proven Psychological Tricks
to Get a Guy to Chase You!” 6. It’s in your psychology
Okay, here’s a bit of psychology 101. Attachment theory, which was first developed
by psychotherapist John Bowlby and later expanded by developmental psychologist
Mary Ainsworth, states that our wants and expectations in relationships are primarily
shaped by our parents and primary caregivers from when we were children. Secure, anxious,
disorganized and avoidant are the four types of attachment styles. You can be clingy as
an anxious type, push others away as avoidant,
have issues trusting as disorganized, or be completely comfortable with each other being
independent as a secure type. Yes, these are generalisations, but you get the idea. Your
subconscious actions based on your style may be not be compatible with his, causing him
to ignore you. Or, it might just be who he is as a
person. To help overcome this, first you must recognize your attachment style, and then
his, then understand the reason behind your behaviors.
You can make great headway toward securing your future happiness together
by appreciating your styles. 5. Acknowledge first
Do you wait for the guy to make contact first then when he doesn’t you start questioning
your self-worth and start thinking you’re being ignored? Hey, I can be guilty of this
too. One of the things men want women to do more
of is treating them like they’re your friend, even if you’ve passed the stage
of being more than friends. You do this by reaching out to them first rather than just
casually standing back waiting to be acknowledged. Be the one to call them, ask
them to hang out, make that first move. I know
we hold back sometimes because we’re just trying to avoid the embarrassment of rejection,
but always waiting for them to contact you can actually come off as being arrogant or
smug. Or it can unintentionally send the wrong signal
that you’re uninterested! We don’t want that so
you really need to dig up some courage and say hello first. Take that plunge and believe
it’ll be worth it. Acknowledge them and strike up
a conversation. Who knows, maybe he’s the one wondering, “why is
she ignoring me!” Like in our video list of
15 Things ALL Men Want Women To Do MORE! number 3 is initiate! Make sure to
watch this to learn the other things we should be doing.
4. Talking too much Be yourself and share your interests, but
don’t bombard someone with excruciating details
about something they’re not interested in. Are you talking non stop and not letting him
get a word in? This is one of those things you do
that make him ignore you. If you talk with someone for hours on end about cross-stitching,
they’re likely going to lose interest in the topic even if you’re passionate
about it. They’ll zone off and ignore you. Find a good balance between sharing and asking
questions. After all, don’t you wanna learn about him too? Listen to what he has
to say and develop some real connection. Build ground by enjoying each other’s company.
3. Try Hard Trying too hard is not how to attract men.
And you might find this is why people ignore you. No one likes someone being too eager.
So if you’re the type of person to commit texting mistakes that turn guys off, like
double or triple texting because they haven’t replied… Stop! Avoid sending those desperation
vibes because it can get you ignored. Before you start taking silence as
signs a guy doesn't like you or asking yourself, “why is he ignoring me?” Think
about whether you’re just pushing things too
hard and fast, or playing chase a little too impatiently. This could be as simple as you
asking why he isn’t replying to your texts. Dial down the intensity but stay proactive
and keep engaging, just don’t try to force things.
You can check this video out for Texting mistakes that turn guys off so you
don’t make these kinds of mistakes. Okay ladies, we’ve only got 2 more items
then we’re going to reveal the 1 way to really get his attention! Are you excited?
I bet you are, so let’s get right back to it.
2. Lessen your criticism If you’re a pretty honest person, and because
you want the best for people, you might have the tendency to criticize and not realize
you do it. You innocently give advice and point
out mistakes. But even with the best intentions, criticizing someone could lead to
them ignoring you because no one likes having their faults pointed out or judged,
especially if you’re only starting out or in the middle of getting to know each other.
Sharing your opinion or giving advice is fine, but
make sure they want it. Make sure to throw some
compliments their way too, plus comforting and supportive gestures so they know you
support and more importantly, approve of them. 1. Not creating emotional attraction.
Physical attraction is great but emotional attraction is when you really get his attention.
You need to create this with him, because if you don’t, he might ignore you to go
find it elsewhere! Emotional Attraction is about real
connection and intimacy, and isn’t this what you want from your crush? Men want to
be with women they’re infatuated with and you
create infatuation by becoming close with him on a deeper level. Identifying the signs
of emotional attraction will help get a
guy to pay more attention to you because he’ll seek out that incredible feeling of the bond
between you. Show him respect, give him your undivided attention, make eye contact. These
are just a few simple ways of building that
emotional attraction. See this video about Signs of Emotional Attraction
to know if you’ve got some.
Now that you know what some of the subconscious things you do that make him
ignore you are, it’s time to counteract with a great way on how to attract men and
get
their attention. And it’s as simple as finding out what his interests are! Yep, that’s
right!
When you know his interests, use them to your advantage and bring them up in topics of
conversation. This will keep his attention longer and he’ll have a lot to say. Likely
he’ll
become absorbed in your time together. After all, he’s enjoying himself right? If there’s
an
activity he likes, participate in it, or better yet, have him teach or include you! Everyone
likes
to be in the spotlight sometimes and if he gets to show off a bit of his knowledge and
skills,
it’ll make him proud. This also creates some valuable one-on-one time!
Question Callout
Can you think of other subconscious things that we sometimes do? Comment below
so we can identify them in ourselves. Ladies, how to impress a guy is all about
being mindful of things you do that make him ignore you. Create a good connection
so he ends up pursuing you! Start by watching our video on 7 Proven Psychological
Tricks to Get a Guy to Chase You.