Hey Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com.
I'm really excited about today's video because I'm going to be going over some real hard
hitting character traits that alpha males (or we could say men who are really tapped
into their masculinity) have and really benefits them so much when it comes to attracting women.
I want to teach you what those are and I want you to start to embody them.
They're kind of strange.
They're a little bit weird.
They're very counterintuitive.
I don't think a lot of people think about these things as things that can really help
you with attraction and for a lot of the nice guys out there.
The nice guys or the people pleasers.
This is going to be a little bit hard to hear because it's gonna be like wait what?
This is what attracts women?
This is what it is?
But it's not bad stuff.
They're just a little bit different and things that you might not have heard before, but
super important.
That's my intro here.
Let's dive into it.
Here's the first one.
The first one is what's called cocky funny.
Cocky funny.
This is not something that I invented.
This comes from an old dating coach.
His name is David DeAngelo.
Or maybe Eben Pagan, that's his real name.
David DeAngelo is his stage name.
And he was a very big dating coach back in the day and produced all sorts of different
materials on attraction, meeting women and one of the concepts was cocky funny.
That means that you're being kind of cocky, a little bit arrogant.
But you're having a good time with it.
Here's an example of that.
Let's say you are at a bar and you're talking to a girl.
And then you're talking for a while and you're like, you know what, my time is just running
out, I think it's time for you to buy me a drink.
I mean, it's been worth it.
Right?
This is you being cocky funny.
You're saying how your time is precious and you're valuable, but you're making a joke
out of it.
You're not being necessarily serious to get her to buy you a drink.
That's why it's funny, you're just being playful.
Here's another one.
I did not make this up.
I took this from someone a long time ago.
What you're gonna say is, you're gonna be talking to a girl and you're gonna be saying,
tonight is your lucky night because you have been talking to me.
Or something along those lines.
You're gonna say it's your lucky day, it's your lucky night because we've been spending
so much time together and you get to enjoy me.
Whatever you can say, surrounding that whole idea.
It's like she's lucky to be with you.
Again, it's cocky but you're making a joke out of it.
I can give you a whole bunch of other examples here.
You get the idea.
What's more important than the examples (because you'll be able to come up with some of your
own) is the idea that this is confident.
This is confident.
It's not arrogant.
Arrogance is when you're being cocky serious.
That's what arrogance is but cocky funny is you're making a joke out of it and it shows
confidence.
Guys who are not confident, they're gonna be doing the exact opposite.
They're going to be more self deprecating.
They're gonna be teasing themselves, making fun of themselves.
It's interesting because I have some friends like this where they do that.
They're not necessarily the most confident guys in the world so once in a while I can
hear them doing that self deprecating thing.
And sometimes it's funny, but it's the exact opposite.
It's funny, but it's loser funny.
It's like I'm just making fun of how much of a loser I am and saying something negative
about myself and making a joke out of it.
Yeah that can be funny if you're a stand up comedian, but that's not really funny when
you're doing it in person.
It's really just unattractive.
It's okay to be a little bit cocky funny, on the other end of things, and I don't want
you to overuse this but just understand that this is confidence.
At its core, at least that's what the principle is here.
It's showing that you know yourself as valuable but you're making a joke out of it.
It gets complicated here because I said if you're not being funny about it and being
too serious about it you're being arrogant, that also shows no confidence.
You want to balance these two.
If you're ever going to be somewhat showing off or being arrogant in any way, always combine
it with funny and this is going to be very confident.
The next trait is dismissive.
This is one that gets a woman to seriously pursue you and gets her to chase you.
By being dismissive you're putting her off and you're disagreeing with her and you're
being more of a challenge.
When you're a challenge to a woman and you show her that you're not so easy to get or
you're not so easily entertained by everything she's saying, everything she's doing, she's
gonna say wow, this guy is not desperate, he's not needy.
He sees himself as valuable because he's not going to just go for anybody.
Not being desperate.
So then all of a sudden your value goes up because you've been a little bit more dismissive,
which in turn is the idea of being challenging.
This is going come off as an example of you not necessarily agreeing with everything that
she says.
Not necessarily fighting with her or arguing with her but standing to what you believe
in and your point and your likes and your dislikes and not just catering to everything
she says.
A lot of guys will do that and this is gonna take practice.
You got to really make sure that you're not doing that.
And of course not doing it fake.
Don't just disagree with her or not agree with her or go against something she's saying
just because I'm telling you to.
Hopefully it should be true, but naturally it will be true because two people are not
necessarily the same.
But guys are too afraid to dismiss that or to argue that.
So I want you to make sure that when you're talking to a woman, whether it's on a date,
whether it's the first time you meet her, whether you've been in a relationship is make
sure that you stand your ground on anything that you believe in and anything that you
say.
You can even be a little bit playful with it.
One thing I said in a video I made a long time ago, is you can say to her no, no you're
not.
Just being playfully dismissive or playfully arguing a little bit but you have a smile
on your face.
Again, this is not cocky funny cause you're not being cocky.
You're just dismissing something that she's saying.
For example, let's say she's like yeah, I really love to cook.
And you can say no you don't, you're not a cook.
Definitely not, you don't do that.
That's not something you're interested in.
I could never see you doing that.
And you're being playful here.
You're just dismissing what she's saying.
This is just a little technique to help you be more of a challenge and teach you how flirting
works.
I know some of you think it's a little bit gamey and it's a little bit like you're not
being authentic to who you are as a person.
But let me tell you something, you can always change.
The more and more that you do this stuff and step into more of this fun, playful, not caring
mindset, it's going to help you have more fun in your life and get women attracted to
you.
You can change to be that person and have more fun with it.
It's just fun and playful.
You're not trying to be a jerk.
You're just trying to balance out that nice guy or that people pleasing mentality that
you already have.
The last one is the most important.
This is something that I really dive into into my Hooked program, which you probably
have heard about if you've been watching many of my videos.
It's my 10 hour course all about how to get women hooked on you, get them attracted to
you by tapping into this more masculine alpha male mindset.
You can check that out at Get Her Hooked dot com.
The link is down in the description below this video.
Click on that and you'll be sent to a video that will teach you all about how the program
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Check it out.
And in the program I'm going to talk about this next one and the next trait which is
(and I'm going to be very careful when I say this here) it's kind of like bossiness or
we can say dominance.
But I want to be very clear the difference between the two.
You're not going to be bossy and I know that sounds kind of funny.
It's like a weird trait.
You're gonna boss around, tell her what to do?
Not necessarily, not to an extreme.
But you're gonna be a little bit more than whatever you're doing right now.
You're gonna just be a little bit more bossy.
I just want to use that word because I think that's going to help you make sense of what
dominance is.
Dominance is basically leading the interaction.
Dominance is the underlying principle here and that's what I talked about in the Hooked
program.
And it means that you're just leading the interaction.
You might be a little bit more bossy than usual, meaning you're going to be the one
who's coming up with the ideas to where you should go, what you should do, asking her
for her number, all these things.
You're gonna be the one who's in control here and so then it's just going to be asking you
to be a little bit more bossy.
I know bossy has a negative connotations.
You're not going to be like hey, give me your number right now.
No, we're going to this restaurant.
I don't care what you like.
No, this is what we're doing.
That's not what I'm saying.
I'm just saying you're gonna be taking the lead a little bit more.
You're going to be offering to lead more than you usually do.
You're going to be the one who is getting the number, moving her around the venue if
you meet her at a bar.
You're gonna be the one asking her on an instant date if you meet her during the day.
You're gonna be the one who's gonna be moving the interaction to the next place that you
guys go.
Maybe after your first date.
You're gonna be the one suggesting the date.
This is all more masculine tendencies that women are attracted to.
No, they're not attracted to a bossy guy.
They're attracted to a guy who's leading the interaction, who's making the suggestions
and who's creating it.
Cocky funny, dismissive and bossy.
These are three interesting strange traits that if you tap into a little bit actually
get women to pursue you.
It's very powerful stuff.
Very powerful.
I know we only just scratched the surface here.
We only tapped into it a little bit.
More of this is understood and explained in the Hooked program.
Which if you don't have, get it.
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single bit of how attraction works and how to be a guy that women are attracted to.
If you find yourself not being that guy now and you want to make changes, this is the
place to go.
www.getherhooked.com.
The link is down in the description below.
Check it out.
Hope that helps.
Let's work on these and I'll see you on the next video.