- What if I never get married?
Three words, do not worry.
In this video, I will share with you five reassuring things
to help you with your fear.
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Hello, my name is Greta Bereisaite,
I'm a dating and relationship coach for women.
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and without further ado, the tip number one,
whatever you do, do not behave desperate.
Do not lose your dignity, worth, or identity
by focusing on finding a husband and forgetting
that you have a life without a man.
First, desperation is not needed,
and secondly, it is very unattractive.
If you feel unhappy with your life and are hoping
that a man will make you happy, this simply will not happen.
Why?
Because he will not look for a woman
that he has to make happy, which is actually the same as you
because you are not looking for a desperate man
that needs you to be happy, right?
You both should be additions to one another's lives
which then would make your marriage easier.
However, if you're desperate, you are at a risk
of bringing a lot of baggage with you which could result
in toxic behavior such as being controlling, needy,
and just overall low value.
Therefore, instead of being desperate, work on yourself
to be the best version of you so that he can find you
and when he will find you, you can grow together
and have a loving, strong, and healthy relationship.
Number two, have standards and do not settle for less.
Be patient.
Patience is key.
For example, if you're desperate, you may marry a toxic man
as a consequence of this.
This is very dangerous for two reasons.
Firstly, this stops you from growing and developing
as you will become influenced by your partner's behavior.
Secondly, your children may suffer as a consequence
because they will be surrounded by your toxic relationship
and may start to view this as normal
and acceptable behavior.
For example, they could be so mentally affected by this
that they become toxic people themselves,
living a life of crime perhaps
and could even suffer mental health issues.
If there are no healthy men available at this time being,
focus on living a morally right life where you take
on responsibilities in helping to make the world
a better place or even simply by helping others.
It is better to take this option to avoid feelings
of regret on your deathbed because now I feel like I wasted
my life and gave it away for this toxic relationship.
Number three, what if the right man never comes along?
God put us on this earth to send us on a journey,
so perhaps your trial or test is longer than others.
In this case, focus on public service.
For example, let's look at Queen Elizabeth I.
She never got married and had no children,
but she was happy and focused on public services.
The point is that you have a purpose and it is not simply
to get married and have kids, and of course,
that would be amazing and that would be really nice,
but you can take responsibility for your own life
by making the world a better place.
Why not do some voluntary work
and support your local community
or support your local animal shelter?
This way, you will get a sense of importance,
a sense of accomplishment while also making
some new friends in the process.
Number four, healthy marriage.
Be the best version of yourself
and you will attract your companion.
In the dating process, you will see is he the one
and if he is mentally stable and secure within himself,
and if he is, well great, continue allowing
the relationship to grow.
Just remember to be high value
throughout the dating process.
Of course, you need to be healthy yourself
to be able to attract a healthy partner.
Therefore, check out my video right here,
what is a woman of high value?
So you can attract a high value man also.
Number five, society is crushing you.
Do not submit to society's expectations and timeframes.
So much in our society is structured around couples.
It's often just assumed that adults will have a partner
and that there's something rather odd about them
if they don't for any period of time.
As a Christian, I follow the Bible so I'm going to share
what it says in there regarding begin single or a widow,
and of course, you do not have to follow this,
but I'm just sharing how it links to my beliefs.
So there is a very beautiful message for singles
and widows in 1 Corinthians 7:7.
You can read that message yourself, but roughly it says
that being single is viewed as honor
because you have the luxury and time to spend
in building a relationship with God.
In the 21st century, this tends to get forgotten about,
especially if you're following what's cool and trendy,
whereas in the Bible you focus on following the path
the Lord has for you while staying
in a close relationship with God.
So ladies, these were my five tips
of why you should not be freaking out
if you end up staying single and that in a lot of cases,
being single, it can be a bigger blessing.
When you're married, you have a responsibility
to be a great wife, you have a responsibility for kids,
you have a responsibility towards your husband.
You have a lot, a lot of responsibilities.
When you're single, you don't have the responsibilities
that married people do and it is having
those responsibilities that make us fulfilled
and happy in life because when other people rely on us,
this is when we actually do feel important.
However, when you're single,
you can look for responsibilities.
You can take on different responsibilities
to simply make the world a better place
which is a fantastic aim to have.
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