So I see so many tourists here in Odessa during the summer so many foreign guys
actually the genesis for this Tip Thursday came from actually hanging out
at Ibiza Club at a really cool party for Solomun and I just looked around at all
these guys they say the ratio in the club was probably like three to one guys
to girls and I just thought most these guys are tourists I mean they have
almost no chance they're not gonna be tsars here they're not gonna live like
kings they are just gonna have the tourist experience so welcome to another
Tip Thursday with me Conor Clyne this is the tsar experience and in today's video as
you guess from the title I'm gonna outline why you should live the tsar experience and
avoid being a tourist when you come here to Ukraine because yeah it's just not
the same thing I kind of feel sad at times looking at them so I'm gonna be
outlining this let's jump into it поехали!
So one of the biggest differences is between the experience of a tourist who
is not very well informed about the city its culture and its people and a tsar
quite literally just someone who's a bloody expert knows what the hell he's doing
here is their relationship with beautiful women in the city and how many
tourists leave here disappointed empty-handed
because they come here with all these preconceptions about Ukrainian women
especially in a city like Odessa which is a big tourist mecca during the summer and they
just naively think that being a foreigner having a foreign passport and
having relatively more money than the average Ukrainian is gonna make them
absolutely a big shot here in a city like Odessa and that's absolutely not the
case once you understand the culture and how to interact with women with
beautiful women here in Ukraine you will know why that is and why that is
obviously just a fantasy I have on completely video dedicated to this topic
gonna link it up in a card and down below in the description but in summary I like to
illustrate it more with an anecdote at the beginning of the summer I was
hanging out at I was actually staying was hosted by Red Line Club which is a beach
club in Arcadia a very touristic area here in Odessa and there's a group of
German guys who came every morning for breakfast around the same time as me
they were you know late 20s early 30s I would say pretty good-looking an average
most of them I would say above average in terms of looks you know after five
days I just started chatting them and say hey guys you know what was your
experience like here in Odessa because obviously they also had a
certain amount of money because Red Line is not cheap to stay at so I imagine
that they were also pretty well-to-do in general and they told me that with the
exception of one of the guys there was probably ten of them
except for one of the guys absolutely none of them got anywhere with girls I asked them why is
that and they said that the girls were just not interested in them that's the first
thing about being czar and not a tourist is the relationship beautiful
women and how to interact without getting to know
the culture and action understanding dating culture here because it is
dramatically different don't buy into all those falsehoods there they're just
basically to market you dating services online beware beautiful women are not going to be that easy
So there you can see a lot of tourists behind me we're right beside the
beautiful Odessa opera house near two sunsets a
lot of people have come here to take a nice Instagram pic or just to take a
photograph for their own memories now one thing that is a problem in
in being a tourist in this city is being scammed especially kind of romance
scams I met a group of German guys here at the beginning of the summer and one
of them he had had he fell victim of a very classic scam that doesn't just
affect this city also in Saint Petersburg it is a very common one in the city center
so listen up basically what happens is that he went
on to Tinder quite a normal obvious thing to do but you know scammers know
exactly how tourists are gonna think because they all do more or less the
same thing they think okay I only have a short amount of time here in Odessa and
to maximize my opportunity is having a whole holiday romance or maybe meeting
someone more seriously so I will go on to specific dating sites or
apps so he went on to Tinder the girl showed up with a girlfriend first red
flag then they chose the place to go to it was a
beach club here in Odessa second red flag you are paying the bill you should
be choosing the location so he went to the club beach club they order two
bottles of wine I'm not sure how long they stayed to have gone through two bottles
of wine pretty quick and then they said oh actually we have to go thank you very
much bye bye пока, пока the bill arrives it's 1000 euros
not exactly what he expected for almost a speed date so it's clear that there is
some sort of agreement between girls like this and whatever establishment it
is a you know a club a bar restaurant one of the big issues is that tourists
they are predictable always going to do the same thing you're gonna congregate in the
same place like here outside the Opera House and that leaves you very very open
and vulnerable if you're not streetwise at least to being targeted by scammers so
they know exactly where to find you unfortunately and that's something that
my clients do not obviously have to worry about because when they come here I
prep them accordingly and I can actually vet their interactions and
their correspondence and say hey you don't want to meet this girl she's gonna
bring a friend she's trying to suggest a restaurant ditch her I hope you don't
fall victim to a scam you definitely need to be streetwise in this area if you're hoping
to meet a local princess and seduce her
This guy behind me is Taras Shevchenko now you probably don't know who he is but he is the national
poet of Ukraine and wrote in the Ukrainian language and that's this fourth
point about being a Tsar that is language now I know that the official
language of Ukraine is of course Ukrainian but in reality in the big
cities that you are going to visit most people will use Russian in daily life
I'm not a FOB as you might be able to say in America fresh off boat and that
actually I think it's probably the strongest value the biggest value I
actually get from speaking Russian here is basically no scammers apply
basically number two I would say of course if you meet a girl and she does
not speak really passible English then it is effectively a waste of your time
trying to communicate with her it's not going to happen you're not going to
build any sort of rapport and if you speak at least you know low intermediate
Russian that should be enough in order to continue with that relationship and
build on that moving on to the third advantage I think it gives me is it
makes me a little bit it makes me more unique I think speaking Russian is
probably about I would say 'intermediate' in terms of effect on that like a lot of
foreigners do come here and learn Russian so it definitely doesn't make you that unique but it
definitely separates you from 95% of the kind of weekend week-long tourists and I
would say the fourth advantage actually goes to what's gonna be a future later
point in this video which is just mentality and you know if you have to go
and learn a foreign language then no matter what it is you also have to enter
that culture and understand its people the native speakers who use it a lot
more in order to communicate effectively and you're forced to put yourself in
their position and see the world from their point of view and that is very
educative in terms of when you actually arrive in the country afterwards because
you're gonna have a better idea about how the society works so be a tsar not
a tourist and at least at least speak a little bit of the language so I
encourage you do that as a big language learning enthusiast
So another huge mistake that I see tourists make here in Ukraine and you can in particular in
Odessa during the summer is that they go where all the other guys go they go
to Arcadia to all the most obvious clubs which are basically like Wurstfesten
sausage fest or Penis Parade if you want to use the German term which I always
love and that's one of the big things is that guys are predictable and they will
go to the same places now the problem with that is of course that the girls the
beautiful girls that you're gonna hang out with if you know what you're doing
are not gonna be there in a sort of significant numbers in those clubs that
attract a lot of tourist guys what the kind of the kind of girls to be blunt
that it's gonna attract or not girls that you really want to meet it's
gonna be you know gold diggers hookers or girls are just not very pretty who
would basically love to be in an environment where it's 90% guys and that
they are obviously the only girls that anyone's gonna hit on there so
fair play to them I understand why they would do that but that's not what you
want if you come to Odessa I know that you want to meet the most beautiful
women that you can in some of the most beautiful women in the world are here in
Odessa Mama but they're not going to be at the party scene where the tourists
are of course not they're gonna be at the better places and if you're a tsar
you'll know where those are
And finally reason number five while you should be a tsar and not a tourist
is your long-term knowledge and integration into Ukraine because if you
come here as a tourist you're gonna have a very superficial ... you know
experience of the country you're gonna have very superficial interactions with
Ukrainians you're not gonna really understand the history the culture with
the direction the country's going and that's gonna make your attachment to the
country very weak and short-lived and you're not gonna want and all probably
to actually come back here after it's because you just had a tourist
experience and something that you can replicate of course in lots of other
countries without really investing very much into knowing anything about the
country that's something that I really help my clients with understanding you
know I prep them before they come so in the modern culture the history we don't
have to go in to ancient history but just so they understand the context of which
the country's at its people and they get a greater appreciation for the
country and its culture and that's something that they take away from their
experience here and something I encourage you obviously to do even if
you are coming as a tourist please try to learn something about Ukraine
before you come but that's inevitably what tourists do they will just walk around
some landmarks and take photos and you know could be anywhere could be Budapest
it could be Prague it could be Kiev - all the same
yes maybe you two can live the tsar experience instead of a tourist trap but
it's not for everybody so if you are a delusional
elderly wife hunter here in Ukraine thinking you're gonna pick up a 20 year
old instragram model they're all gonna be waiting here because it's so desperate
to leave for your elderly ass then this is not the tsar experience and there are
lots of dubious marriage agencies dating sites will gladly entertain that fantasy
for you and take you money similarly if you are as a sex tourist then do not even even write me
but if you are the kind of person who wants to come here to Ukraine to a city like
Odessa during the summer you want to party hard you want to meet beautiful
women you want to just have an unforgettable experience and learn a
shitload of lifelong skills all during your stay here in a city like Odessa
it can be Kiev it can be of course Lviv another city in Ukraine then you
need to write me you can do that by email at ConorClyne@tsarexperience.com
or you can slide into my DMs my handle there is @tsarexperience I'm gonna
send you a questionnaire once you reply to that and fill it out and let me know
more about yourself and I think that we are a good fit to work together then
we're gonna jump on a short strategy call and see we can make it happen
that's the case could be you here living the tsar experience with me can be in
Odessa that can be somewhere else it can actually be in another country like
Russia or Belarus as well but you need to take that first step you need to
write me and it can be you next weekend the sun is setting here in Odessa
so this до свидания до побачення see you very very soon in the next video