Hello, my wonderful friend! Let's talk about 7
signs a girl is pursuing you. This is one of the best ways to know that a girl likes you.
Now, I recently did this video on how women pursue men, because a lot of people don't know
that women pursue men as well. If she likes you, she's going to pursue.
And in that video, I kind of explained some of
the differences between how men pursue and women pursue.
You loved it and you wanted to know some specific signs that a girl is pursuing you.
So that's exactly what this video is about. Specific signs that a girl is pursuing you.
I think they're going to surprise you. So as we dive in,
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My name is Melannie. I'm a Christian dating coach for men
and creator of Attracting Lasting Love Academy.
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And with that, let's get right to these signs that she likes you, that she's pursuing you.
Sign number one is that she will be where you are.
She'll just conveniently show up wherever it is you are.
Now, this can be, like, for instance, if you're at a party or something, and
you kind of feel like she's following you around the room a little bit,
you go to get a refreshment and so does she, that's a very
convenient way for her to just kind of, you know, try to get your attention, get you to talk to her.
It could also be, like, maybe she knows every Wednesday you go to
the same restaurant and she just so happens to be there.
Whatever it is, if you kind of feel like you have this shadow and she always shows up where you are,
it's because she's trying to get your attention.
She's trying to get you to talk to her. She's trying to get you to notice her.
The second sign that a girl is pursuing you is that she will
compliment you. This is especially the case if she compliments you frequently.
This is her way of letting you know, "I've noticed you. I'm
interested in you. If you wanted to ask me out, I would totally love that~"
So if you notice that she frequently compliments you, that's key.
Now it does not always have to be a compliment on the way you look. It could be the fact that
you're smart, or you're really good at something, or she really appreciates you, or whatever it is.
Pay attention to those little compliments because those compliments
have a secret message, which is that she's interested, she's pursuing you, she likes you.
And this leads us to the next sign a girl is pursuing you
that kind of goes along the same lines. This sign is that she will playfully flirt with you.
Now, complimenting can be a huge part of flirting. It really can. But, usually,
flirting is complimenting in a playful way.
For instance, let's say that she needs help carrying a box in from her car because it's heavy.
She could just say, "Oh, hey, would you help me, you know, bring this in?"
Or she could say, "I have a box in my car that I need to bring in. And I know that you're really
strong. You have those awesome muscles. And I wondered if maybe you'd help me."
That was just like a little flirtatious way for her to playfully, "Oh,
hey, you're hot. I noticed the size of your arms and I like it."
So pay attention for those little playful compliments.
That's a key sign that she's totally flirting with you.
Now, something to keep in mind with this sign and with all of these signs
is that when a woman is trying to show you she's pursuing you, she's trying to express
her interest in you in a feminine way, and if you don't pick up on that, if you don't react to that,
she thinks it's because you're not interested, okay?
She thinks you know that she's expressing that interest. And the
fact that you're not making a move and showing interest in return is crushing.
It's devastating to her. It's like a slap in the face.
This is why it's so good that you are learning how to tell that she is pursuing you.
It's also critical though, that you do understand how to in turn pursue her in
a way that makes her safe and really fans the flame of attraction that's already growing here.
But here's the deal. Most men think that they don't like to pursue or that they don't want
to pursue. And it's simply because they're scared or embarrassed because you've tried
in the past and it hasn't gone well. And that's perfectly normal.
In reality, though, it's just that you don't know how to pursue, not that you don't want to.
Because when a man truly understands how to pursue the right way,
get ready for your confidence to soar!
This is why one of the things I love teaching my clients in my Academy
is how to pursue a woman the most effective way.
Because it gives you an awesome boost and it really just skyrockets her attraction for you.
Now you can learn more about my Academy, where you learn how to find the sweet love of your life and
make her fall deeply in love with you so you can wake up next to her for the rest of your life.
Just go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass
to learn 3 of the life-changing secrets I share with you in that Academy.
I will put a link in the description below and a link in the pinned comment.
If you are serious about taking the fast track to the love of your life so you don't have any
more lonely nights tossing around in an empty bed, go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass.
My next sign that she is pursuing you is that she will want to look
nice for you. And one of the ways she will do this is she will fix her hair.
She sees you walk in the room, she knows she's going- or maybe even when she's just talking to
you, if you notice that she's fixing her hair, trying to make sure her hair looks
good, well that's because she wants you to think her hair looks good.
It's because she wants you to think she's attractive.
This is one of those body language signs that we do without even realizing it.
And when you can- when you know how to look for those signs, it's a dead giveaway.
Now my next sign a girl is pursuing you really goes along the same lines.
She will also, like, fix her clothes and her jewelry and try to sit,
like, sit up and just look nicer when you are around.
Again, this can be when you walk in the room,
when she knows you're looking at her, or when you're talking to each other.
If you notice that she, you know, gets all situated and everything,
that's a key sign that she wants you to think she's attractive.
My next sign a girl is pursuing you is a really big one. This sign is that she'll say something
like, "We should do that together!" or, "We should totally go do that sometime!"
If she is saying the two of you should do something,
it's because she wants to do something with you.
It's not something she's just saying because she feels like she has to be polite.
If she did not want to go out with you, she would not say that, okay?
So if you notice that maybe you're talking about a movie or a restaurant
or something fun to do around town, and she says, "That's really awesome! We should do
that sometime." that's her way of saying, "Ask me to do that because I will say yes!"
It's her way of letting you know that she's very interested in you.
Because again, remember, men and women are different. And so she's going to pursue you
in a feminine way. And again, if you haven't seen this video that I did explaining that
in more detail, there is a link in the description below.
And this leads us to my next sign a girl is pursuing you.
And this sign is that she looks for ways to talk to you.
This can mean she texts you randomly, or your texts go on forever and ever and ever,
or it can mean she comments on and likes everything you do on social media.
Or it can mean she tries to talk to you in person. Maybe she goes out of
her way to talk to you or she won't let the conversation die. She just keeps it going.
These are ways that she's trying to connect with you. She's trying to get you to notice her.
And she's trying to show you that she's interested in you.
As humans, we're busy, right? And we don't have time to just sit around and talk to someone
that we're not interested in.
So if she's putting in the effort to try to keep that conversation going, she is trying
to show you that she's interested. She thinks you're worth her time, and that's a big deal.
Now here's a little secret about pursuing most people do not know.
In a healthy relationship, in a loving, close, tender relationship,
both people are always pursuing each other for the entire relationship. So forever.
This is part of what makes a relationship fulfilling and exciting and fun. Always
being reassured that this person is attracted to you. They care
about you. They're interested in you. They're invested in the relationship.
So, if you are looking for a tender relationship with a feminine woman,
this is why you want to make sure you find a woman who is proactively
showing her interest in you and why it's critical that you proactively pursue her.
One of the main reasons why men will struggle pursuing
is they don't understand how to do it in a way that makes the woman still feel safe.
Because she's got to feel safe or it will creep her out. That is again,
something I help you master so you don't even have to worry about it anymore.
And, really, can you imagine how good it would feel to never worry about that again?
It would be amazing!
So to learn more about how to make a woman feel safe,
go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass. And I explain the details for you there.
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[blooper beep] Wow, my hair's being weird.
But I can't locate where it is. That's the problem with blonde hair on Navy walls.
Oh well. Let's do this. I'm just gonna dive in. We're just gonna [snapping fingers] go for it
like that. Like a ninja. Like a fast sneaky ninja that's not sneaky. [chuckle] Okay, here
I go. [laughter] Sorry. That was funny.
Oh, no. My foot fell asleep again. Okay. But the good news is I made it through,
like, the whole video. That's good. And it's not as asleep as it was last time.
Oh, that's pretty bad. Mm-hmm. Okay.
Okay, secret end-of-the-video club. Thanks for being here. If this is your first time here,
we have a special secret word at the end of the video so I know who watches to the end.
It's really fun for me to see. So... I gotta think of a word now. [laughter] "Sunset." Because I just
looked out my window and the sun is setting. So we're gonna go with "sunset." It's a very,
very- I have a very scientific approach to the words we use at the end,
obviously. Like, I'm sure you know that by now, right? So if you made it to the end of the video,
comment "sunset," and bonus points if you tell me, which is your favorite, sunsets or
sunrises. Rises? Sunrises. Sunrise or sunset, which is your favorite? I'm super curious.
Personally, my favorite would be a sunset because that's the only one I'm ever awake to see.
[laughter] Aww, that sounds really sad when I say it out loud. [laughter]
Anyway. Okay. I'm getting off now.