- Have you ever sent nude pictures
to people you are dating?
Oh my gosh.
I'm just gonna cover my ears. Go.
No!
(orchestral music)
- [Interviewer] Hello.
- Hi. I am Rafaela and Jasmine is my iha, my daughter.
- I'm Isaac and this is my dad.
- [Interviewer] Where were you born?
- Mexico. Like a town village type thing.
- We were both raised here in the US
and Mom grew up in Russia.
- [Interviewer] What are you three doing here today?
- Truth or drink?
- [Interviewer] What are you gonna talk about?
- I'm hoping sex.
- Oh my god.
- Hoping sex?
Oh, I like to talk about sex.
I know so much about that.
- [Interviewer] Do you two wanna start off with a shot?
- Yeah, I will.
- Fine.
Jesus, help me.
- But can I mix the vodka with orange,
like put here, no? - Mom, just take the shot.
- Shoot it.
Yeah.
(glasses clunk)
- All right.
Are you still sexually active and how often?
If you wanna take another shot, you can.
(both laugh)
You can. You're more than welcome if you want to.
- I'll take a shot.
- Really? Okay.
- Are you still sexually active and how often?
- Oh my gosh!
Did you know that Hispanic families,
we don't talk about sex.
- Yeah, that's crazy.
- Like when I first started my period, I'm like,
oh shoot, who do I tell?
I couldn't tell my mom.
You don't talk about none of this sexuality stuff
with your mother.
- But in America, we do.
- Yes, of course I'm sexually active.
How often?
Well, if I want it, I ask my husband.
I'm like, "Babe, I need it."
And we close doors and we do what we gotta do.
- Like- - That doesn't
answer the question.
- Very often!
- What is the biggest cultural difference between us?
- It's (speaking in Russian)
Respect.
Our generation, it was different.
We are respect to-
- Elders, or- - Olders people.
Here in America, doesn't, my opinion like that.
You know?
- I call you lazy all the time.
- Yeah, you do. Yeah, you do.
- Like partying. Like drinking.
- You guys don't party and drink?
- It don't matter how hard they actually party.
They will get up early in the morning
and they just go ahead with it.
- Was I stricter than American born parents?
Yes, girls?
- Literally, no. - No.
- Oh, thank you.
(all giggle)
- I don't think I ever had
a single rule. - I should.
- You should have. - I don't really,
you should have been with me definitely.
You didn't need it.
I don't even know if you told me to come home
at a certain time, did you?
- No.
(daughters snigger)
- Oh. Do you wish I had taught you more
about where I came from?
- I mean, yeah, kind of.
I think that-
- Stop, before can I actually ask you one thing?
The one time that actually I invite you to Mexico,
you made things impossible as well.
- Yes.
- You know Mom's family way more than
you know my family. - Right.
I know, but Mom is really like, she respects me.
And you- - I do respect you a lot.
- There's no respect received,
you know what I mean? Like back to me.
That's been the biggest collision, but-
- So are you gonna go to Mexico next time
where we get actually- - Absolutely, yeah.
We're going very soon. - An opportunity?
- We're going this year. We're going this year.
- We'll see.
(Rafaela laughs)
- Have you ever sent nude pictures
to people you are dating?
Oh my gosh.
I'm just gonna cover my ears. Go.
No!
(table slams)
- But my face wasn't in it.
(both laugh)
- Yes, I have.
I actually send a lot all the time.
It's kind of an art form, honestly.
- How you feel?
- Really good.
- Not embarrassing? - No.
- Maybe I should do that too.
- You should, honestly. - You should try it.
- Have you ever said nudes to Dad?
- Of course not.
- What?
- No.
- I don't believe that.
(both laugh)
- Okay, partial.
It was only literally the booby.
My husband is a boob kind of dude, so.
- All right. Who's your favorite child?
Ah, you know, I was gonna ask this question myself.
- I think my favorite child was Ray.
- [Interviewer] Who's Ray?
- Ray passed away back in 2015.
- [Interviewer] Oh, I'm sorry.
- Actually my birthday, January 15th.
- [Interviewer] Oh, I'm sorry.
- He was in Texas and we were back then in Louisiana
and we didn't know he was like really having
a really bad life.
It was like really hard to let him go, you know?
So for me it was like,
I think that's my favorite child.
But everybody, you know, all three of you guys
like awesome, so.
- Who's your favorite child?
We already talked about this. - Oh my god.
- Honestly, I know you're not gonna pick,
but I know that we are,
we have certain things that you love about us
and certain things that you don't like about us.
And I wanna know what those are.
- Okay, I will tell you.
- Yeah. - Go.
- Ella, I love Jessie more than you.
And Jessie, I love Ella more than you.
How about that?
Fingers, how you can say like, which one do you love more?
You know, like it's all the same.
- All parents say they, oh no,
we don't have a favorite child.
Trust me, we do.
(glass clunks) So I'm gonna take a shot,
because there's no way I'm gonna tell.
- But I will say that I am the password child, so.
- Tell that to Josie. (both laugh)
- Have you achieved the American dream?
Do you know what the American dream is? Like-
- My dream, it's be with you always,
everywhere. - Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- That is my dream.
- Have you achieved the American dream?
Yes.
- Why, because we have a big house?
- Yes. (both laugh)
- Can you like, tell me like
what the American dream is to you?
- For me, the American dream will be stability,
but not just for me, of the family.
- That's a really good dream.
- Oh my gosh.
This better be a no, Jasmine,
or you're gonna get kicked out of my house.
And if you have to lie for Dad, I encourage you to lie.
Have you ever had sex in my house? Oh.
- Oh, no, no.
Definitely not. - Oh, thank you, Jesus.
- They have cameras, like so, no.
Absolutely not.
- Have you ever had sex in my house?
- I can't remember.
So I'm gonna take a shot, but
I don't know.
- I literally had sex in your bed once.
- That's fucking gross.
- How do you feel about that? - You like my bed?
- It was nice.
Salute.
- When the time comes,
ah.
When the time comes, would you let me leave with you
or would you put me in a home?
- Absolutely I would let you live with me.
If you wanted to live with me,
I would 100% let you live with me.
- That depends on your behavior
for the next 10 years. - No, absolutely not.
- No. - The question is no,
we will not put you in a home. - Thank you so much.
You're so sweet, girls. - Thank you.
- I don't know. Like depends what my situation is.
- Depends how good of a mom I am?
- No, like you're so young.
Like I always say, what if I die before you?
Okay, my question.
- [Interviewer] Wait, wait. So is it a yes or a no?
- It's a, I don't know.
Will I make it that far?
- That means she will put me in a nursing home.
- Okay. Have I lived up to your expectations of me?
- Oh gosh.
Truthfully, yes.
- Yes.
- Even me, really? You should- - You don't look at us
and say, I wish they- - Even you, Jessie.
Jessie, your life, it's just beginning.
I'm serious. - Yeah, but I'm getting
kind of like into my thirties, so.
And I still live with you. - Hell yeah.
- So? - So?
- I just get like insecure about where I'm at in life,
because I think about like how you came here
and you raised us on your own and I just wanna like
make sure that I make you proud
and sometimes I don't feel like I'm doing that.
- Jessie, doesn't matter what you're gonna do,
what you're gonna get, I will still love you so much.
- Thanks, Mommy.
- I will still love you and love Ella.
- Love you.
- No, you're right. - Thank you
for this conversation. - You're right. All right.
All right. - Thank you.
- Cheers to truth or drink.
- Okay, si. - Si.
- I went from talking about sending nudes
to crying about
who I am as a person. - Yourself.
- Okay, ladies.
For love.
- Oh, for love.
(glasses clink)
- And money and, I'm just kidding.
- Oh, just kidding.
- Sex and drugs and rock and roll.
(all cheer)
(mom sighs)