it's no secret that Bobby Burns has been on this downward spiral ever since he
moved to Los Angeles and there's a lot a lot that has to do with mental health
and this is actually some things that might be able to help you or someone
that you know what is up everybody this is Chris from the rewired soul where we
talk about the problem but focus on the solution and if you're new to my channel
my channel is all about mental health so what I like to do is pull topics from
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notification bell so yeah I'm going to be talking about Bobby burns in Los
Angeles but my videos are for Bobby burns my videos are for youtubers I try
to take the content that you're already consuming and try to see if there might
be something you can relate to and then we talk and have some suggestions and
see this affecting you as well because the chances of Bobby burns seeing my
video are slim to none the chances that you're gonna see my video are 100%
actually watching it right now so I hope there's some lessons that you
can learn from this video this is something where I'll be showing my own
personal experiences with other people so this has to do with the places you
are but also the people that you're hanging out with all right little
miniseries about confronting his hater
back home to nashville tennessee so shortly after that Shane Dawson and Bobby
talked and Bobby wanted to be moving out to Los Angeles and work with Shane Dawson and get
something going if you wanted a date at your job by the
way this is really funny because meemaw Logie 101 is another channel you're here
on YouTube and like research but anyways if you want to see the rise of fall of
Bobby burns just go watch the mammalogy video I will link it down in the
description below but it shows the entire journey and just I remember
watching it the other night I was just like oh my god oh my god so just to give
you that the point of reference this is Bobby before moving to Los Angeles
now here like helping make some of it I'm enjoying myself it's huge huge huge
the issue is is that it's completely changed him so what I want to talk about
is if those of you who follow my channel for a while you probably saw the video I
did about Garrett watts and a geographical is when you leave like your
city or state because you have a bunch of problems right your mental health is
terrible your relationships all this and you think that moving to another city or
moving to another place or even as another side of town or sometimes you
see moving a job it's gonna help right but the poem is no matter where you go
there you are so in this video we're gonna be talking
about something I like to call a reverse geographical where Bobby
so yeah something that I do is I watch people and I see how they are improving
or kind of like falling down a slippery slope if something I've had to do
working in addiction treatment
and I have to watch him and see how they're doing silly how they're
progressing and something that I would do because we out of state would always
tell people is listen very carefully okay if there is even a 1% chance that
going back home is gonna lead to our we lives you shouldn't go back home and Las
Vegas has a ton of amazing resources for staying sober and that sounds ridiculous
but it's true so I would tell people like you know stay in Las Vegas there's
a bunch of resources I hope you find some people who would come out here and
stay in Las Vegas and this city would just eat them alive right they would
just keep relapsing their sober living I've had people living on the streets
that I've run into it the grocery store my house what the heck is happening and
there's a certain point what I have to tell them about yo you cannot handle Las
Vegas you need to get out of here right and sometimes that's not even going back
home but sometimes it's just this city is not for you and that's kind of what
I'm saying what Bobby burns he he cannot handle Los Angeles this is for a lot of
you like mid 20s I believe some of you are younger than that like sometimes
we're just not mature enough to have that type of freedom you know like for
me personally I'm an addict in recovery and Las Vegas was eventually moved back
here right I would have had to be very careful and look for the signs
if this city was gonna take me back down again so I'm actually going to link
another video up in the info card and probably in the end screen too so I have
a second channel that's all about addiction so if you want to hear about
how I stay sober in Las Vegas make sure you go check that out but like some of
us just can't do it if some of us need to go somewhere else so like I find
people I'm like okay look you can't handle Las Vegas okay going back home so
bad idea is you have a toxic family or whatever it is well here how about this
other place right maybe like organic East Coast or whatever it is but in
Bobby's situation like man like seeing this from him is this family
worried about him why are his friends worried about him
Jordan was worried about and they're no longer together and I'm just watching
this kind of downward spiral and it's like he just can't handle maybe he needs
to take this venture somewhere else a lot of people want to go live that life
and they want to succeed some people just can't handle it but this kind of
brings me to my second topic okay we need to change the people that were
around something that Tristan were actually talking about that I've noticed
and she's noticed too is Bobby has lost like his support group
Dawson time and he had his girlfriend Jordan right when he had his brother
there and him and his brother like they did a lot of projects together you know
friends and they would do stuff together and make videos together and all of that
and when he first moved to Los Angeles he was like getting all his friends
involved in everything right and like over the past few months as we've seen
kind of you know start slipping where is everybody
right we haven't seen his brother at all Jordan's gone they haven't seen any of
his friends that he was making all those collabs with so what's happening and you
know in Bobby's situation speculation I can tell you from my personal experience
right Bobby burns said stop enabling him right well I had a bunch of people who
would enable me I didn't hear from them so what I did was I found a different
group of friends who didn't give a crap about me and just let me run wild and do
whatever I wanted to do and that's something I'm worried that you might be
doing that's something I'm worried that Bobby
might be doing right because you don't see those other people like the rocks
and Bobby's life around anymore and he's going further and further off
it breaks my heart to because I actually have experience with my best friend
dying because of something similar like this I made a video a long time ago
about losing my best friend to addiction even though I was still in my active
addiction like I don't know I knew that she had a problem and she got into a car
accident and it almost killed her and I was worried about her my girl you gotta
get your stuff together you gotta get your stuff together then my best my
other best friend like she had to tell Kourtney - like you gotta get your stuff
together and we both had to distance ourselves away from her and many other
people had to distance ourselves away from Kourtney the all Kourtney did was
find people who would enable her behaviors at 24 years old she passed
away right something that I guilt over you know even still to this day but like
the guilt is is different I've learned to you know heal and forgive myself and
stuff like that but one of the worst parts about mental illness and stuff is
like you can't force anybody to change right and sometimes sometimes you gotta
separate yourself from the other person just for your own mental stability so
when I see Bobby and what he's doing I had a bunch of comments on the last one
like thinking that I said like you can overdose on Reed which I said that you
can't anyways like you worried that he's going down that path and he's hanging
around people who just want to be around him because he smokes because he parties
because he acts crazy and all those other things right and it's worrisome
especially for young people like Bobby Birds what breaks my heart what breaks
my heart is every time a young person passes away anytime anybody passes away
where people see it coming from miles and miles and miles away but other
people are shocked by it right and that's where my concern is about Bobby
burns but that's what my concern is about you and you might have friends who
are doing this you might have friends who you've had
or they've stopped hanging out with you hanging out with a bad crowd but anyways
this is some stuff that I want you to really think about but anyways I have a
couple other videos planned because there's some topics just about finances
and relationships that I want to talk about with bobbi and Jordan because I
know a lot of you can relate I had a bunch of those travel troubles too with
this video so let me know down in the comments below like have you had to get
out of somewhere because the city was just bad for you have you had to leave
let me know down in the comments below the second one here's a different
question so answer this one if you were like maybe both
have you purposely hung out with people who enable you because the other friends
what you want to everybody supporting the channel over on patreon you are all
amazing the other video overall my other channel about how I stay sober in Las
Vegas a city that is designed to kill me so go and check it out right now
alright thanks again for watching I'll see you next time