[MUSIC PLAYING]
TIFFANY: Drink if you are happy in your current relationship.
LOUIS: Cheers to that.
With the Lord.
Amen.
[CLEARING THROAT]
Who hasn't gone?
Oh, I didn't drink.
Joking.
[MUSIC PLAYING]
MAURICE: Drink if you have been unfaithful.
LATISHA: Next question.
Hey, man. Fill them cups.
Are these [BLEEP] real?
Let's go.
[LAUGHING]
Everybody drinking up in this [BLEEP]..
[LAUGHING]
TIFFANY: [INAUDIBLE]
You see I'm drinking.
Y'all have never cheated?
Oh, you're saying ever?
Ever.
It didn't say cheated on your spouse.
No, not right now.
Ever.
I've never cheated.
Never.
Aren't you a [BLEEP] princess?
[LAUGHING]
I'm faithful, bitch.
[LAUGHING]
I mean, when it's good, it's good, I guess.
That's right.
I don't know what Tiffany and Louis trying
to get out of this group.
I think that they should just come out and say it.
Like, y'all want to have an orgy.
And nah, I'm good.
They're trying to have some fun, but they can cancel that.
[LAUGHS]
LATISHA: I don't think we should talk about sex anymore.
You said six?
We're celebrating 15 years.
You don't want to talk about sex?
Y'all have had sex for 15 years.
OK.
Tiffany.
Tisha was tired of us referencing sexual things.
It's your anniversary!
You're supposed to be having sex outside!
Hell, I should be looking for you.
You should be out in the pool having sex [BLEEP]..
I'm drunk now, thank you.
But before we leave and go out, I wanted to make
sure y'all was here with us.
First, to celebrate friendship and love.
But also we all have been through some things
in our marriage.
What advice can you guys give to help somebody else?
I can start with you, Maurice.
One of the challenges after we get married
is to make sure that you're doing the same stuff that you
were doing to get married.
LATISHA: Amen.
I agree.
Dating.
Like, the sacrifices that Kimmi
made for me coming through, like school and everything else,
you know, new businesses-- - She held you down.
MAURICE: --and everything. Yeah.
LATISHA: I want to ask you, do you think because you got
married later, were older in life,
do you feel like you maybe put up with some things
that you would have dismissed 10 years before [INAUDIBLE]..
But here's the thing.
Yeah.
My answer is yes by definition because of the person
that I am, however, I'm not saying
that it would have been right.
LATISHA: Right.
I think where I am now and where I've grown to
is where I needed to have grown to.
So being married for 12 years, Martell, or been a divorcee,
what advice can you give on that?
Take care of your mate by any means necessary.
LATISHA: But that goes both ways, right?
Take care of your mate.
I didn't say take care of your husband,
take care of your wife-- take care of your mate.
[MUSIC PLAYING]
There were many times I wasn't taken care of.
I didn't go cheat.
[MUSIC PLAYING]
This all I'm going to say about that.
I know we're talking about Mel and Martell right now.
And Destiny I don't know if you want to speak on it or not--
I ain't have no advice for nobody in here.
LATISHA: Why not, Destiny?
[LAUGHING]
Next.
Destiny, what did you do to make that man leave you?
Well, damn.
KIMMI: Listen, if that cup of drink don't go on his head
right now.
That's real disrespectful.
KIMMI: Right now.
DESTINY: Why is it always the woman's fault?
Thank you.
Honestly, I mean, I'm not one to judge people's marriage
but we're sitting here talking about marriage, and so I was
like, where's your ex-husband?
Ex-husband.
He's where he is.
Marsau!
Only thing that that I ever--
as far as the relationship going the way that it went,
the only thing that I hate is that we didn't get
a chance to really be a family.
That's the only thing that gets me.
And I know for us, you know we're celebrating 15 years,
but it was hard.
It was very tough for us.
For me, especially in the beginning.
But it was like [BLEEP],, I don't want to be no single mom.
[MUSIC PLAYING]
And we're getting better every single day.
Every year is getting better.
I think that sometimes we put our temperamental happiness
too much at the forefront.
If you are always going to be happy in your marriage,
what's the point of commitment?
Why do you even sit there and take
the vows about better or worse if you always
going to be happy?
LOUIS: And I know [INAUDIBLE] people walk in
with that mindset, I think it's more so the fact of you
go through different situations.
And what y'all chose to do is you both chose to fight.
I want to ask something but I want
to first ask Kimmi and make sure I'm not being disrespectful.
If I ask Maurice a question about Kiowa.
Kiowa said to us that she felt like you
guys could have worked it out, that you
left without even trying.
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