The weakest of homes is the home of the spider if only they knew
and it's not just because of the web but also for what happens inside it too.
The most fragile of homes home to the most ferocious of family feuds.
A husband and wife relationship that is solely based on being used
for consummation, see as soon as they finish mating the wife
would then consume the body of her own husband
It's disgusting And so can the children be too
See as soon as they mature they would chew upon their own mother as a source of food.
It's sinister it's crudeI don't want to imagine it
But it's true And such are the examples that God would use
Not because God can be cruel But for God to prove that the weakest of homes
are those in which the inhabitants are abused See marriages are meant to bring happiness
and the home is a refuge of tranquility and comfort to all those who
walk through.
And if you ever do happen to fall into disputes you must learn that marriage isn't always
about you.
Rather it's learning to live together as one although we are still living together as two.
In a home where everybody knows that they belong
With Love kindness and mercy so we could all just get alongAnd there's no need for fighting
every time something small goes wrong Because you can't build a home upon violence
and expect it to stand strong I mean what kind of man would harm his wife
in the darkness of the night Leaving her to bleed, as he scars her for
life Having to cover up her bruises as she tries
to hide them from sight See he's so focused on her responsibilities
but fails to realise he also owes her rights See as her husband your meant to provide,
protect, respect, guide and guard her You are her garment her life long partner
Her prince charming who should charm her Her knight in shining armour.
But her knight has turned into a nightmare as he spends his nights trying to harm her.
As she begs him on her knees "Please I need you to be calmer.."
"I urge you" "See patience is a virtue
I never even heard you I promise I didn't mean to hurt you!
Please don't be mad and please don't let the kids see because
it's not right for a dad"
It's sickening it's sad that such scenes are happening in reality
within the homes of so many broken families It's a calamity that we forgot what the meaning
of marriage is Did you forget that the best of you in character
is he who is best to his wife
The best of advice from the one who never harmed a servant, child
or wife in his whole entire life.
Muhammad (pbuh) He was the best of examples in how to treat
a woman rightSee If his wife had cooked something he had liked
he would eat it, and if he didn't he would leave it, without expressing an ounce of dislike
He would even refuse an invitation to food until his wife also received an invite
He would help around the house too just to make her work load light
See he was the pinnacle of being polite And he taught us that the strongest of men
is not he who knows how to fight But rather he who restrains his anger right
at the moment of strife So have Patience brother
I mean you wouldn't allow it for your own mother,
daughter or sister.
You wouldn't bear to watch another man punch and kick herSo the next time you even think
to cause her trauma and hit her, You need to understand that she too is another
man's mother, daughter or sister.
So Dear sister, No human being deserves to live a life of violence alone
So if he doesn't treat you with kindness don't live in silence trying to fight this on your
own Rather seek help from God first and don't
be afraid to then pick up the phone And let your people know that you are no longer
willing to live in the weakest of homes.
Violence against women...
Islam says No.