By the end of this video,
you are going to know
what they are and most importantly how to
combat against them so that you
can protect yourself.
You're gonna wanna make sure you watch
all the way till the end.
So that you will know
how to protect yourself against
the narcissists’ favorite weapons.
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Okay, today we are tackling one
of the most important topics,
which is wha the narcissists’
favorite weapons are
and most importantly how you can spot
them and also fight back against them.
Alright?
You're gonna wanna make sure you watch
it all the way till the end because at the end,
I'm gonna give you what the most vicious ones are
and how you can fight back against them.
Alright?
So here's the thing,
narcissists are inherently afraid.
That's the truth of the matter.
They're actually more afraid of
you than you are of them.
For the most part,
they don't do things like right at you
they try to use like other forms
and so they'll use text or emails or
things like that to try to get at you.
They'll use forms of things to try to
make you feel intimidated
in some ways.
They might use some kind of psychological things
especially when the relationship breaks down.
So during the discard phase,
this is when you start to see
the birth of this smear campaign,
you become public enemy number one
at that point because they see things in black and white.
You're either for them
or against them
and when you are now against them,
then they have to go after you.
They have to show the world that
they got you before you got them
and so they're gonna want to kinda
create this paper trail of you are now,
you know, the enemy in some way.
So they might actually confirm
things that aren't even true.
This is to confirm that you said this or that.
This is happening or something like that and
you know like, that conversation
never even happened
and so what you'll have to do is just straight up
say this conversation never happened
something like that or if there's
a sea of crap coming at you,
don't defend yourself.
You know, I always say
pretend like you're reporting the news,
never explain, justify, or overshare,
don't get emotional,
don't get down in the weeds with them.
You say things like “I am in receipt of your email.”
‘‘I deny everything you're saying.’’
and then just pick through
and find the one or two things that
you absolutely need to respond
to and then only respond to those things.
You know, just remember
that every text,
every email,
everything that you send,
everything that you post is a potential trial exhibit.
So watch yourself and don't
get down in the mud.
You know?
Don't get into the weeds with them.
So I want you to put that in the comments right now.
‘‘I WILL WATCH MYSELF!’’
and don't get into the weeds.
Stay out of the weeds.
Alright?
They try to get you
triggered by ghosting you.
They just stop responding so that
you will start going not so on them.
You know, they do things to try to
make you get emotional.
That's what they want you to do.
They want you to be triggered.
It want you to look like the crazy one.
It want you to look like
you're the one who's emotional
and crazy so that they can turn around and say
look, there's the crazy one and
they use that against you
nd I've seen that many, many times.
Many times.
So be careful about that.
Okay?
So that’s Number 2
What flying monkeys are
are the people that they line up to be their
like, army of police so that you feel isolated.
So you feel like the world is against you.
Like, you're the only one who
thinks a certain way where that you
feel like everybody else is on the bully's side
on the narcissists’ side,
and you are alone
and so why bother even trying to win
this war because you're
never gonna win.
It's a psychological way of thinking
and a lot of times,
I want you to know the flying monkeys may not
even know that they're being love-bombed by
this narcissist.
They may not even realize the
truth of what's going on
and it doesn't matter.
You need to stand in your own
power and know your own truth.
You know, just march forward
regardless of what's going on with those flying monkeys.
I do have a whole video,
by the way on
how to shut down a narcissists smear campaign.
Definitely check that out.
They will start filing false allegations
and you're gonna want to go
crazy when they start doing this.
Now, what I want you to know is just
because they file it in the court is not evidence.
What's put in the court system is not evidence.
Alright?
They still have to prove it
and most of the time,
the judges don't even read that stuff.
They started to have a hearing on it.
They stopped to prove it.
They started to submit evidence
to prove their allegations.
So don't go crazy when you see things being
filed in the court system that aren't true
and you have to get on the offensive.
You need to have a strategy that
will potentially expose them
that will create leverage against them
and that's my SLAY strategy.
Strategy,
Leverage,
Anticipate
what the narcissist is going to do and be two steps
ahead of them and focus on you being offensive
and building an invisible fence around that narcissist
and you cannot negotiate with a narcissist in
a regular reasonable person way.
The regular rules of negotiation just simply will not work.
99% of attorneys do not understand narcissism.
I certainly didn't until I started
doing this work a couple of years ago
and really decided to dive in and understand narcissism.
So you have to do the work.
You have to prepare your case
and present it to the your attorney and help
your attorney to
understand what's going on
and I do have a whole video,
by the way on
how to beat a narcissist in court.
I would definitely highly recommend that you watch that
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I will definitely see you guys in the next video.