After my fiance didn't show up to our wedding,
he completely disappeared, nobody knew where he was.
I was so angry, so depressed, and so hurt,
I decided to just write out my feelings,
and while I was writing out why feelings,
I'm like, you know what, let me send it to the Shade Room.
It's like a online tabloid for Instagram.
So the thing I know, they actually posted my story.
It was the Sun Times in England.
It came out on Twitter, Facebook.
It was on Black Sports Magazine online.
I was like, oh my God, this story is really going viral.
I was absolutely glad it got posted
because I wanted everybody to see
exactly what happened to me.
Three days after the wedding,
you emailed the story online
to a gossip page, and it goes viral.
Subject, my fiance never showed to our wedding.
This was supposed to be and my ex-fiance,
but he never showed up to our wedding.
People showed up, and flew from everywhere,
and went back home after the venue turned them around.
I found out he never paid the venue.
I was at the hotel getting ready with my girls
when this went down.
10 years gone in 10 minutes.
Now, you say 10 years because you guys have been together
one way or another since you were like grade school.
So not only were you romantically involved,
you guys grew up as friends.
Yeah. Absolutely, that was my best friend.
This is a special kind of betrayal.
Yeah.
Tell me if I've read this right.
"I still love him."
I do.
Now your family has said, your friends have said,
and I quote, they will disown you
if you reconnect to this guy and get back together with him.
That's correct.
Are you talking to him?
I am talking to him.
Are you considering marrying him?
I'm considering it, but I have terms.
Do they involve handcuffs?
(audience laughs)
I gotta know, I gotta know,
how did he explain this?
He said he had a nervous breakdown, it wasn't his fault,
it was a mistake, and he wished he could take it back.
Okay, he had a nervous breakdown
that lasted for two and a half months?
No I'm serious, I do the, I do nervous breakdowns,
this is what I do.
Okay.
Is he, he had a nervous breakdown
for two and a half months.
How did he hide that when you were there
for the food tasting?
Was he shaking, and sweating, and hyperventilating,
and throwing up?
No, he was very calm, he's a very calm individual.
It was a clam nervous breakdown.
(audience laughs)
So it wasn't his fault, who's fault was it?
Honestly, I think it was my fault,
the venue's fault, and his fault.
How was it your fault?
How did you make the list?
I guess honestly, I didn't see the red flags
that were thrown my way,
and I should have been more maybe aware,
should've been more on top of things.
What'd you miss?
There was a couple of instances where,
with, for example, with the photographer.
He said he'd pay the photographer, he never did,
and the photographer kept calling me,
and I ended up paying his tab,
because he told me to cover the tab for him,
and he'd pay it back, he'll pay me back.
Well that's a red flag.
Yeah, that was a red flag.
Was he having a nervous breakdown when he lied about that?
Nope.
That was just a lie. Yeah.
Why do you think he didn't show up?
I honestly don't know.
I keep asking that, myself that question,
and I keep asking him that question.
And if he wasn't gonna show up,
why do you think since he's known you
since like third grade, why he didn't tell you,
just like, I'm panicking here, so we need to
call time out or something.
I really don't know.
I truly believe like, he really did have a breakdown before.