Alright, let's do another question. Here's a short one from Crisper.
Interesting name Crisper. But I'll take it. You're from South Africa. Well, maybe Crisper is like
John over there. I don't know. He says, "Hi Tripp. I've been a fan for so many years now. Probably
five years. Amazing. From South Africa. Is there any way you can explain what a high value really
is? Is it money? Or what certain characteristics is a high value to you? Because in today's world,
it seems like a high value man is a top tier. I'm just wondering, thank you. Crisper." Crisper.
Damn, that is a cool name. It really is. I like it. And thank you for listening for so many years
and you're just finally writing in. What is a high value? Well... it's such a good question because
it is vague and things that are vague really ask and call for an answer. I believe a high value man
is someone who's working on themselves constantly and succeeding in those things.
That's a very general definition. To be more specific, I believe yes,
it has to do with someone who's making a good amount of money. If I had to put a number on it
over 6 figures is a good amount. A high value man is making over 6 figures. And by the way,
that's something that can be worked on. I know that's not necessarily something someone can do
right away. But you asked me what's a high value man, they're making 6 figures. But it's
not just about the money. They're also working on all the areas of their life.
What are the areas? Here comes the repeat; health, wealth, appearance and lifestyle. I just gave you
a little bit of what a high value man would look like in the money or wealth category. But also,
if we want to dive a little deeper, I don't think it's just someone who makes 6 figures. But I mean,
a person making 50,000 a year versus 6 figures a year, the person making 50,000 might have a higher
net worth because they've invested their money. Maybe a person who's making 6 figures is in debt.
I believe a high value man is someone who's investing their money in themselves to become a
better man and in places where they can make more money and they're making over 6 figures. Their
health is on point, they are having a good... how do I say this? See, again, I'm not an expert in
the category of fitness and body mass index, but we'll just say they have good endurance,
physically, and are in shape, whatever you think that looks like. But I don't think
that's necessarily like a six pack, but they're generally muscular and strong all over because
they've worked on that area. It's someone also – so let's see, that was health, that was wealth,
appearance has worked on all the stuff we've talked about. All their grooming
and all of their fashion. And then lifestyle, they're well connected, they're friends with
other people who are high value. High value men have a good network of people. They're
working on all the areas of their life. And then they're someone who knows how to attract a woman.
Not because they have money or because they're good looking. But of course, that does help when
you're working on money and your appearance. That absolutely helps with attracting women,
but they know how to be more charismatic around women, they know the behaviors. They understand
things like the TED system that I talk about quite a bit, which is the attraction formula.
To me, that's what a high value man is. In my opinion at least. People might think differently,
but it's generally you're working on all the different aspects of your life.
So lifestyle, you have good relationships, you have a good environment, a good home, you love the
place where you live, your place is well designed, it has good feng shui so you absolutely love it.
You're well connected. You're working on your health, eating healthy. Your body is healthy,
your mind is healthy. You look your best in your appearance and you're making a good salary and
doing the correct things with your money. That to me is a high value man. And something I think we
should all be trying to strive for. Not because it's superficial by any means. Because you will
have a happier life when you're working on all those things. Some people work in only a few
and it fucks you up. You can work all day long on trying to make a lot of money. But
if that's at the cost of your health, or your relationships, you're not going to be very
happy. But let's say you decide to just work on your relationships or meeting women or friends,
and you don't care too much about your job and just your relationships.
There's a famous quote by copywriter John Carlton "money solves problems that not having money
causes." It's good to have money because you can solve problems. And I don't mean by buying
yourself a bunch of shit that makes you feel happy for two seconds, but investing in things.
You can be purchasing all the things I talked about with grooming and health and
you can invest in coaching, business coaching, dating coaching. You can buy things that will
help you like a therapist, a good gym, a trainer. Money is very important. It's very good for you
to have that. And then you don't want to just be focusing on all that and not be focusing on
what you look like because that's going to lower your self-esteem and you're not going to feel good
and it feels good when you look good. My point here is that you want to be working on everything.
Health, wealth, appearance and lifestyle and working on making sure that you
are understanding social dynamics and female nature so you have the dating part down too.