Let's go girls we have to write a letter to our future self in 10 years time
outlining goals on what you want and what you see so this is gonna be
interesting by my nervous to do this I'm excited to see what the girls come up
with in these letters it will give me a good indication of how they see life and
relationships they're revealing part of themselves that none of us know yet and
I hope those parts are compatible with more I really want Nick to be in my
future this whole thing's really scary because
I do see myself with him at the end everything I want is right here in front
of me but there's also five other girls so there's a big chance of me missing
out on what I want yeah it's scary I'm gonna keep this diary forever I write
and I love to write so me putting my thoughts on paper is pretty easy yeah I
have a vision for where I want to be in 10 years so for me to translate that
from my mind to paper was simple so how did you find that good fun exercise yeah
the real power of this exercise that comes when you share what you've written
out loud oh my god the fact that we have to read this out in front of the girls
and Nick is definitely scary I hate public speaking so I'm not stoked about
this I'll leave it up to you to decide who goes first
thanks Jess you feel these girls written out these letters and it's really
looking into yourself and putting who you are and what you want to be out
there for everyone to see so it can be quite confronting hey dear Cass you put
it out to the universe that you are ready to meet your soul mate when you
were 23 and the universe gave back to you by allowing that to happen you've
been in a happy relationship for almost 10 years now you finally found that guy
who made you feel like yeah I'm like the happiest girl in the world
and don't like I'm sorry
come on you can do it Cass don't even look up just read Cass got pretty
emotional and found it hard to get out the words at the start I think maybe
there may have been some sort of pain in the past she deserves to be loved
and you can hear her yearning for he found the guy who was able to support
you with your passions and you support him with his I'm sorry go son um I think
we all picked up that you know cast us 23 and she's writing as if she met her
soul mate at 23 so Nick would be pretty silly if he didn't think it was about
him because you know it was pretty obvious
so oh cool seeing the girls open up I'm really impressed by the carriage shown
be sure to remember that love is fragile and sometimes hard work protect it and
nurture it and it should last forever I know that you can and will take the good
from the bad never stop learning and growing as a
person and it was quite challenging for some of the girls to overcome that
emotion I hope by now you are loved you have moral fulfillment and I hope by
now you have a voice my dear - you're an incredible loving mama of a 15 year old
as soon as I read all the sentence about Leon I broke down because I guess it was
just quite raw
I was quite vulnerable I was put in the sport
I was totally exposed
we can do it I know you can't for him a lot and you and you are loving Matt like
clearly you can see it in your emotion it's it's a beautiful thing and we'd
love for you to share it with us if you feel up to it I'll try thank you
Josh's son is four world and being away from him throughout this experience has
been so hard for her it's so okay that she got emotional because it just makes
sense he's her world what a gorgeous young man he is you are so proud of him
and just like in 2018 your best friends
partners in crime and have this special bond that will always be there at this
point I just miss my son and I love him more than anything that just makes me
question everything and just that makes me think what am I doing here I'm proud
of you and I will always be a number one fan your 2018 version of yourself - is
love and emotion towards little Leone and her family I've reminded me that I
have a lot of people's feelings in my hands and is it fair
to beekeeping - ooh away from little Leon we're gonna work it out
okay everybody's let is really deep and emotional difference having little
breakdowns and now I'm sort of worried to read mine because mine's not like
that my it's a bit more like harder and say yeah shit dear future forty year old
but still pre fit and relatively funny Britney wowie what a decade that was huh
aren't you glad you were true to yourself and waited for that
all-consuming love and just when you thought that maybe you wouldn't find the
one BAM smacks you straight in the face it's sort of like that time you broke
your nose you didn't see that one coming either did you you are happy and you're
in love that alone makes you life rich the fact that the sex is still
mind-blowing is just a bonus
bricks later was a lot more humorous than anybody else's and she was offering
good sex for life so I think Nick thought pinging yeah damn why didn't I
think of that I remember ever since you were maybe 12 you wanted to adopt a
child as well as having some of your own so I'm so happy to see that you did that
and that you've created this really tight-knit loving adventurous family
unit that I was lucky enough to be a part of I'll see you again in another
ten love always and forever you're much younger and perpetually hungry and
optimistic so Brittany
sorry good I'm happy that the girls feel they can share something personal like
that with me I can see what they want in a relationship what's important to them
in the end of the common theme is they just want to be loved fully that's the
main thing it's just love Nick you've heard some beautiful words today and out
of everything you've heard so far I'm sure that there must be one person that
you'd like to spend some more time with to talk about what a future might look
like yeah my sure come on oh fuck off you know you don't
keep do whatever you want Nick yeah be sure I mean today was awesome a lot of
bum taps lot of morale down there on the floor and it was great to hear this
person share their plan going forward and gives me opportunity to think about
mine and if it's if it links up so
Britt you're gonna go and get chocolatey
I do feel gutted that I didn't get the opportunity to get this one-on-one time
with Nick you know this would have been a really good opportunity to talk about
hometowns to talk about my family and to cement any feelings that I do have so
I'm definitely got it that Britt's got it over me so this is where we can get
chocolatey I chose breadth of his one-on-one time
because during the more serious moments like the letter writing is beautiful she
was able to hit the depths but then bring it back with a little smile and a
giggle they like that about her that's important in life how'd you find today
that was fun really from the start dress ups are the go thank you
oh you can do anything dressed up and it's ten times better than dude oh you
don't without the dress on exactly this is probably the last time I spend with
neath before he decides to take two hometowns I think Nick knows how I feel
but it will be our last time to sort of convey that it's definitely good for me
to spend this last little time with Nick oh my gosh I saw gum you know just gauge
where he's at home visit round corner
we've touched on this but I haven't taken anybody home to my family
long time long tour so it is a big thing for me it's scary how easily I think
you're fitting I just know how well we get along which is like I've known you a
lifetime I know that that will resonate with my family I know you this like
Seyfried a Brit places high importance on what her family thinks better
potential partner that's a big reminder of the huge decisions I have to make
when I decide which families I'm going to be meeting so this is probably the
last time we see each other before you deciding you take ten visits so I'm just
gonna really put you under the thumb okay and how do you feel about me now
I feel like we're not just compatibility but philosophies around relationships
and love and compartment sense of humor it's not a bad package
and your beautiful stuff Thanks yeah but that's there's a reason why
that's last and I'm charting at the end because it's not all that important it
is a need for initial stages but after that it's everything else
but thank you um for today I know I really enjoyed what's your new
small fly ran and then talk about some stuff that's meaningful this book
because that's what it's all about a little bit the balance
it makes me feel something I haven't felt in a long time and that's just real
genuine happiness I know we've got something pretty special and pretty red
and I think would be perfect for each other
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