- [Jang Min] At the end it’s sad but…
Love is like a fire.
It burns but you have to keep filling it.
Otherwise, it dies.
- [Dave] Wow, Jang Min. - [Jang Min] You have to keep put…
- [Sam] Write this down.
Someone write this down right now.
- [Dave] You know, I’m actually in a good…
I think I mentioned it before.
I’m actually in a good relationship with my ex-girlfriend.
Which was my most serious relationship recently because…
We didn’t even break up out of fighting.
She was just like,
“I don’t feel like you love me.”
And I’m like, “I do.”
She was like, “Yeah like family.”
And I’m like, “Yeah.”
She’s like, “That’s not enough.”
And now talking about this is destroying me.
- [Sam] Just on that note though, I just want to finish it with this for you though.
Feeling like you’re family… From my perspective…
- [Dave] I thought it was good.
- [Sam] That’s not necessarily a bad thing at all.
- [Dave] Me too. I thought it was good.
- [Sam] You can… There’s different—
Relationships have so many different levels in it.
- [Jang Min] Yeah I think…
Saying like, “I see you as a family.”
You see her like as your little sister?
- [Dave] I did almost at that point. - [Sam] Okay that’s…
- [Dave] When we broke up…
It felt like my roommate moved out.
Not my girlfriend.
I was like, “Aww man. Nobody to play games with anymore.”
- [Jang Min] Maybe ‘cause you didn’t have other important things in common.
- [Dave] I think so too.
But then that makes me think now after talking about…
Two people who have had successful relationships,
and somebody who’s in a fresh relationship…
I just feel…
- [Sam] Don’t get me wrong. It’s not a successful relationship.
I… Me and my wife have s*** times as well.
- [Dave] I know. I’ve seen you guys fight.
I’ve seen you fight.
- [Sam] There’s nothing— It’s just a work in progress.
- [Sam] Is what I like to call it. - [Dave] Yeah. Of course.
- [Jang Min] And every situation is like experience.
Every past relationship is experience.
Every future finds this experience.
And at the end, everything counts.
Right?
And another true thing is that, the less you look for it…
The more ready you are to face.
The moment to get in a relationship.
- [Dave] Yeah. I think so too.
- [Sam] There’s nothing better than fighting.
In a relationship.
- [Dave] Yeah it does help.
- [Sam] Because it means you actually care.
If I’m not fighting…
If they do something that I get irritated with or I get angry about…
And I just say nothing about it and I go along with my happy way…
There’s no love there anymore.
- [Dave] I did that. That’s what I would do.
That’s what would happen.
I would just be like,
“Oh we don’t have to fight. It’s okay. Whatever. It’s okay. I’m sorry.”
She’s like, “You’re always sorry.”
And I’m like, “Yeah… Can we stop?”
- [Jang Min] I have the...
One of my friends in Spain, recently got separated.
- [Dave] Oh divorced?
- [Jang Min] Yeah. Pre-divorce, it’s gonna be a divorce and…
And the story is that…
Both people were different but there is a point where one of both get tired…
Of arguing. Of fighting.
And that’s when somebody gives up.
When he doesn’t care anymore.
- [Sam] Yeah.
- [Jang Min] At the end it’s sad but…
Love is like a fire.
It burns but you have to keep filling it.
Otherwise, it dies.
- [Dave] Wow, Jang Min.
- [Jang Min] You have to keep put…
- [Sam] Write this down.
Someone write this down right now.
I need this.
- [Joon] That’s my… That’s my next Instagram caption.
- [Dave] Love is like a fire… - [Jang Min] Put my tag.
- [Dave] Tag him, yeah.
- [Sam] Love is like a fire, you need to keep feeding it.
- [Joon] I'm gonna post a fire selfie with that caption.
- [Dave] That’s a good one Jang Min.
- [Sam] That is good. That is so good.