How to stop your spouse
from leaving
My name is Coach Adrian and I'm a relationship coach
passionate in helping people
find happiness and love
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For the longest time I helped people
overcome breakup, separation and divorces
so I know exactly how you feel
fearing a separation
feeling like the person you're with doesn't want to be with you
is quite
devastating
There is no other way to put it. You feel
like your world is collapsing
and you dont know what to do to or where to turn for answers
that's why we created Love Advice TV
which is basically a
YouTube channel
that has over 1,000 videos on how
to overcome breakups
separations and divorces
If you're watching this video however perhaps you're not
yet and you want to make sure
that you are not going to go through a divorce
and you know what? You are in the right place. The first
thing that you need to do is to make sure
that you overcome the sense of
desperation that leads to neediness
Most people
end up
going through a separation or divorce because
they could not
stop themselves
Their
emotions get the best of them
You feel like things are just slipping away and you
start to beg you start to become needy, you start to seek
reassurance and validation
from your spouse, from your significant other
and the more you do that the more you push them
away.
It's not easy
because emotions can
tend to get the best of us but if you're watching this
it means that you are already trying
to find solutions before the separation
has occurred so you can still do this
as long as you're resolute
and as long as you make sure that you don't let
negative bubble take over
You need to be in control of yourself
and your actions. Just because
you have a negative thought
does not mean
that it should result in a negative action
You can
break the cycle
and you can be sure that
your mindset
is strong enough
to not be needy and to not make those mistakes
that continuously push your significant other
away
The reality is that you can't control what they do
You can't control your significant other's
action
And that
should not be a statement that leads to
stress or fear or worry. On the contrary
it should free you
to focus on yourself
and on the things that you can control
in order to inspire
your significant other to see you in a different
way. It doesn't happen overnight. It takes time but it's
the only way to build a sustainable
relationship
and happy marriage
by takiing care of your end of the bargain
by doing the things that your'e supposed to do
by bring about well-being and happiness in order
to positively impact
this person who has chosen to create a common life
project with you
It's not too late. You can still get it done
I know because help people do so each and every day
in coaching sessions and in different programs
that we've created and you can find more information
in the description below.
The bottom line is you need to take ownership
of this process and stop worrying about
what your significant other may or may not do.
If you want to avoid a separation perhaps
you should also think about making
yourself more appealing
You need to pamper yourself a little bit more
Perhaps you've been too stressed, too desperate
and you stopped taking care of yourself
It's very difficult to inspire
or attract your significant other
if you are in crisis mode or if you're
desperate
and so look at yourself
in the mirror every day
Are you looking sharp? Are you proud of what
you see when you look in the mirror?
You better be because time is of the essence
and I want to make sure that
you become your best self
in each and every way possible
So pamper yourself. Perhaps you need to buy
a new shirt of some new shoes
or new cologne or get a haircut
but just watch the way you present yourself
to the world and to your significant other because
it will say a lot about how you feel inside
and it's very difficult to inspire or attract
someone when you're not inspiring
yourself.
So keep yourself accountable and make sure you look
your best. Finally
I want to make sure you are always thinking
in terms of renewed energy
How can you surprise?
How can you bring about excitement, wellbeing and happiness
into your home and into your relationship?
Challenge yourself. Step out of your comfort zone.
Try new things
in order for your partner to see
that you are not the worst of their
thoughts and fears that you can
actually inspire them, that you can
transform yourself into the person
they fell in love with. We are
Happily Committed. Our mission
is to help you make your relationship great.
We are very thankful that you tuned in.
We have tons and tons of resources at your disposal.
This is who we are. This is what we do.
We are Love Coaches.
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A lot of articles on building confidence
and strengthening your relationships
You can find more videos on our YouTube
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And you can also get
programs and toolkits
to help you get the support you need along the way.
and for more information, again you can find links below
Keep fighting the good fight. Continue to create
the relationship that you really want.
And I'll see you soon for another video.