Hey, what's going on? Tripp Kramer here from Tripp Advice.com. On today's video,
I want to talk about some behaviors that are just the worst when it comes to the women that you're
meeting. This is going to have to do with whether you meet a woman at first. And it's going to even
go as far as to when you're in a relationship with a woman. Watch out for these, and do not
tolerate this at any cost. The reason why you don't want to tolerate this is mainly because
all the five things I'm going to tell you today are a sign of disrespect. One of the downfalls
of a woman being attracted to you and a downfall of a relationship that you're in with a woman is
when she starts to disrespect you. That means that she, in her head, literally is not respecting you.
Therefore she's going to be acting out with behaviors that are disrespectful. Number one,
and let us start with one of the more obvious ones, flaking. When you first meet a woman and
she flakes on the first date, maybe you give her a second chance, if she flakes on a second date,
you should drop this woman immediately. This is a sign that she's not respecting your time.
And this is also a big sign that she's not really that interested. Let me give you a
little hint here. Imagine that she had a date with Leonardo DiCaprio. Do you think that she'd
be flaking on that date? I don't think so. Why? Because she really is attracted to that person,
this person's high status, she's going to make sure that she makes that date. You want to be
the person in her life that is high value enough where she's excited to see you and there is little
to no flaking. Now the second thing, which is sort of similar to the last one flaking, is
being late. I'll tell you a story, the woman that I'm with now Megan, who is absolutely amazing,
she was late for the first date, and yellow flags went up. I was thinking I don't know,
that's not cool, a little disrespectful. She told me that she was late because she left her wallet
at home. I was like what's going on? And then after that she was never late again, which was
a little surprising, because I thought, well, you know, a lot of those first impressions do come off
pretty fast on that first date. So there's always exceptions. But if you're finding that a woman is
constantly late, of course, it's going to happen from time to time. But if it's a regular thing,
this is a sign that it's disrespectful. And it's also a sign that, well it's not a sign
that's disrespectful, it is disrespectful. But it's a sign that this woman also doesn't really
have her life together. It's like, why is she always late? Why does she 50% of the time show
up late? What does she not have figured out? That is not a behavior that you need to tolerate. As
you can see here, I'm really into the idea of someone not wasting your time, because that is
the most valuable resource that you have. Number three, and I don't think guys really pay attention
to this one. Once you're dating a woman, once you start to get into a relationship, if she ever puts
you down in front of her friends, or if she ever nags you in front of her friends, this is a no go.
This is a zero tolerance policy. I don't even want to let one slip through the cracks. I mean, okay,
if it happens once and you tell her that you didn't like that, and she never does it again.
That's fine. Two strikes and you're out. That is one of the biggest forms of disrespect that
you can ever see. She should be lifting you up in front of people, she should be showing the world
and everyone that you're around how much she loves you. Not only should she not be disrespecting you
or putting you down or teasing you in front of her friends, she should be doing the exact opposite.
Good examples of this are any form of criticizing. If she's like, oh I hate the clothes that Tripp
wears, or I don't know how he dresses himself in the morning. Anything that's gonna put you down,
even if it's a joke, any form of criticism. Maybe she's saying like, oh yeah, I don't know,
Tripp's just being really weird tonight. Or I don't know, me and him have just been not
getting along lately. It's been so annoying. Tripp has been so annoying lately. Anything around that,
no go. The fourth thing that you should not be tolerating. Is her having a lot of male friends.
Why is that? First of all, it's not very normal for a woman to have a lot of male friends. Usually
she has a lot of female friends. Why is that not normal? Because at the end of the day, a woman who
has a majority of male friends guaranteed that 80% to 100% of those guys are actually trying to get
in her pants. They're orbiting her. They are a guy who maybe got rejected in the past. They're hoping
for you to go away. That's why they're spending so much time around her. Generally speaking,
men are hanging out with men and men who are hanging out with women are usually because
they like them. Obviously, there's exceptions here, but we're talking about this situation,
which is she's got a lot of male friends. I'd be wary of that. Why is she letting that happen?
She knows what's going on. Women, they're not dumb. They know when a guy likes them. And if
they ever say "I didn't know" that is a downright lie. If you find out that she's got a lot of male
friends and she's letting that happen, and she's letting these men hang around her that like her,
big red flag. Number five, this one I didn't learn until I got into a real relationship. But what
ends up happening sometimes is once you've been dating for a while, and once you've been hanging
out a lot, you get comfortable in front of each other. What happens when you get comfortable in
front of each other? Well, we tend to kind of do our little ways. We have our little ways about
ourselves. And we're okay with that in front of the other person. What's the example I'm talking
about here? Her being on her phone every time you guys are talking. When she's on the phone and
you're trying to talk to her, what she's saying to you is, I'm not really into this conversation.
I don't care too much about this conversation. And to be honest, I'm half checked out because
I'm scrolling through Instagram. Now listen, I get it. Sometimes you might interrupt your girl to go
talk to her and she's already on the phone. But if you guys are talking and all of a sudden she
picks up her phone starts looking at it. That's strike one, strike two, you're out. I want her to
know. And you should want your woman that you're dating to know that when you guys are talking,
this is a special time. This is a time when you guys should be connecting and should be present
and she shouldn't be distracted by other things. Don't let that behavior get in the way of your
dating or relationship. You, my friend, need to treat yourself like a king. You are high value.
You are someone who doesn't need their time wasted. And you should be with someone who
super super respects you. Make sure that you're looking out for any of these and any other signs
of disrespect. You should be with someone who is dying to be with you, loves every second
with you and is not doing what I mentioned. Hope that helps. And I'll see you on the next video.