I'm struggling.
Like, they're giving me the energy
and showing me, right, but not verbalizing.
I want the actions to--
but I don't want to force someone's hand.
We here for love.
Everyone that's in here understand the process,
and understand that, hey, I might get hurt.
She might choose someone else.
I was so in my head about my two connections.
So having a male's perspective is huge for me.
So listening to Tony is perfect right now.
You have a great problem on your hands.
Wait, look at--
Tony, I need your grounding.
Jeffri, listen!
You have two great men.
And you're walking around like somebody died.
Jeffri. - Stop.
Am I really? - Yes.
I'm just--
I was worried about you this morning.
I didn't see you at all.
It's a lot for me, right?
And how I deal is I retreat to myself.
I light my candles and I try to be--
Jeffri, don't do that.
Welcome it on.
Jeffri is such a gentle soul.
She wears her emotions on her sleeve.
And I was just letting her know that.
Go with your heart.
Everything is going to be all right, Jeffri.
Don't miss your blessing because of your indecisiveness.
We here to find love.
It's about to come to you, something great.
What you wanna fuck around for, girl?
Where were you all my life to help ground me?
Hey, hey, hey, pretty lady.
Hello.
How's it going?
It's going OK.
How are you feeling?
Just packing up.
Um, I'm feeling OK.
After being eliminated, I am extremely
disappointed that I will not be able to continue
my connection with Blake.
So I have feelings over the situation.
I mean, it's something that I'm definitely going
to have to talk to Sam about-- - Oh.
--and see how this process is supposed to go from here.
It is what it is at this point, right?
I can see how me being eliminated
puts Blake in a tough position.
And he has a lot to figure out.
Need help?
- Yes. - OK.
I'm going to close it up for you.
That's everything? - Yeah.
All right.
Let's close it up.
Oh man.
This was tough for me to do at all.
This was my first elimination, like to--
You were standing up there talking, I know you were like--
You felt-- I'm like--
it wasn't-- wasn't really flowing.
I absolutely didn't feel well delivering the news to Sue Ann
that the men don't think she is ready to love.
It was right for me to do because I believe
that me and Sue Ann had, like--
like, we didn't really have a connection at the beginning.
I'm not usually the guy to deliver bad news.
I'm the cool guy, you know what I mean?
But this is what it takes to find love.
You got to do it.
So we got to talk.
I feel like it's winding down--
you know what I mean-- with that decision.
I think today will determine a lot for a lot of people.
And I need that.
Tony is, like, coming in like an angel
and telling me, think for yourself.
It's OK.
He's giving me a go-ahead.
Yeah.
That feels good.
I'm good.
And babe, I haven't even gotten deep, you know?
I can get--
Hold on.
I'm gonna have you--
please, just rub your little--
cute little baby hands on my back.
Oh.
It's usually me giving a massage,
but this feels good for a chance.
Like--
You deserve it.
There's so many things running through my head
when I see Andre.
He's trying to make sure that he stays kind of afloat
with all of his connections.
But then, I feel like he knows deep down what he wants.
That actually feels really good.
How did you know how to do that? - We're connected.
That's why it feels good.
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