(Irina) So with respect to your dancing abilities
remember
that if you were the worst dancer
of your country, here you will be the best
you will be a success here¡
but what else?
(Conor) всем привет (Hello everyone¡)
... I'm going to speak Castillian,
in Spanish, and...
this video is a for
my Latino viewers
we will talk with
Iryna Fedchenko
who is a presenter on Mexican television
is a girl
who was born here in Ukraine
she is gonna explain to everybody
which are the five most common mistakes that
latinos make, when they speak to
or want to pick up Ukranian girls
here in Ukraine, so let's go speak with..
Iryna
(Ir) my name is Iryna Fedchenko and welcome everyone here to ukraine
so welcome I am here with
Iryna Fedchenko...Yes, I am journalist..
I am also Youtuber
I've been living in Mexico for five years
because my husband is mexican...
So, why did you invite me here?
yes, to talk about the mistakes
that latinos make with ukranian women..
So, you have a mexican husband..
you are Ukrainian, so you are...
... the perfect expert
to advise my watchers from latin america..
ok, which are the biggest mistakes that...
Latino guys make when they talk to Ukrainian girls
Well, first of all, greetings to all the bunch of Latinos who are watching this..
I am not an expert but..
the truth is I receive many e-mails..
in the comentary section, of questions..
on how to meet Ukranian girls..
and well..
and well I've been living in Mexico for some time..
and I already know how is that mentality, in what we are similar..
and in what we do are different.. So first mistake..
they ask me "hey, which websites do you know ...
to meet Ukrainian women"..
and one is Vkontakte (vk.com), that's is our social network,
a kind of a Russian Facebook
or I dont know where I can meet them ... on the internet
But the first recommendation is to go to Ukraine..
I've always said that. you know it like nobody else, if you are here...
you are living the experience 100 %..
and besides that, if you want to know Paris...
I always make that comparison...
you can see wonderful photos...
on Instagram ..you say "Oh Paris is so wonderful"
But...is not the same as really going to Paris...
You really have to come here and..
..Because here is where Ukrainian women are..
because they are from here, Ukraine...so everybody come here..
and..
next advice
I will tell you right away
Websites, ok I dont trust them so much..
websites on internet, even though..
I know all that internet is very widespread..
but truly speaking there's nothing like a
direct connection with the people here
besides that you're gonna know culture and tourism
It's a wonderfull country I miss it a lot..
I always come here and enjoy being here in Kiev,
which is my hometown
So, you have to come here.. (Co) Yes, exacly
thats the first mistake, not coming here..
and second, what are we going to talk about?
about women, directly about women,
there is a stereotype, of course many people..
of course there are many stereotypes about women here ...
that we are very serious...
that we are... I don't know.. that you are maybe afraid..
of getting close, that they don't want to talk...and so...
for Latinos specifically
I could comment the following
many think that if she is a very beautiful girl...
obviously here are many beautiful women ..
(Co) ..for example.., (Ir) Thank you so much..
..is like they think that...
..they should not get close to them..
because they are "not cool"
because they are not women...how to say.. mmm
approachable, or they are not nice?...
yes, that they are not nice
that they will be with a very big ego ..
..Not, it's not like that, here there are many beautiful women and ..
they are very nice, very approachable
you can speak with them freely...
if you approach them in the park, in any other place ..
we will talk about that later..
don't be afraid...ok Yes, we are serious..
what happens is that our culture is..
...a little bit reserved..and the people in the street have a serious face
yes...but in the moment you start to talk to them ...
you know... (Co) Yes I know that pretty well because..
the first time I came here..
I had like not fear ...but it was...
it was difficult, and you think .
if I speak with them...
and I didn't speak Russian very well..
they were not going to be so nice to me...
in general....
But that's not true, you only have to try..
(Ir) to speak....(Co) Yes! Try! Speak! Say something at least...
because, I know that here not everybody
speaks English, so that difficulty
to survive here
or solve .. I don't know how to say in Spanish.. let's cut this ...
(Ir) you speak very well in Spanish!
(Co) thanks, thanks Iryna..
But if you have to make..
the first step and talk..
and then your gonna see..
that it's very easy..
I personally think that here people or women in particular
are more approachable in general..
because...
it's only a stereotype that you cannot speak to them...
that they're not nice...They are very nice
in my experience, so...
after you come here, you have to open a conversation
(Ir) yes, don't be afraid
thats what I want to say, don't be afraid, approach them...
serious, very beautiful, it doesn't matter...
yes, most probably they will be interested in you
Ok, the next stereotype , that is also a big mistake..
also many ask me...many ask me...
that women here are very interested
that they only want money...
or all that things..you have a video about that..
(Co) yes...
where I outline the 5 reasons...
...never to date..
... Ukranian girls ..(Ir) that's how stereotypes work..
there's some truth there, and it's something that's not
that's what I say, its my opinion..
because in terms of money
it's always very important, many don't want to spend...
others want to spend all they have..
to find a girl, they think that is gonna help them..
Yes , here education is more..
cannot say more "male chauvinist" but
women are not feminists here...we like to be invited..
it's obvious, it's not like in USA, or
Western Europe..
that they like that woman...
pay bills for herself.. here it's not like that..
if you want..
kind of a romantic plan..
you have to invite her..
yes, they like to be invited...
but be aware.. yes..there are frauds
there are women that only want you to pay for things..
they only know you for a couple hours and already want you to pay for something..
be aware..thats more than obvious that is a scam..
obviously there are women that want you to buy them something
like you invite them somewhere, give her gifts..
and ok..
I don't know, why you have to spend a lot of money..
on a date..yes there are many different type of places
that's why I would reccomend to come here in summer..
because there are many things to do... if there's not much money..
you don't have to invite her to the most fancy restaurant
also, if it's your first date I would say...
its a little bit uncomfortable, is like too serious...
you could make another kind of plan
like go to a park, there are festivals, music,
I dont know there many things to do..
even more in summer, so one more reason to come in summer
to Ukraine, I always try to come in summer..
(Co) yes, also cold here for latinos..
in general...
you don't have this climate of minus 35 C° degrees ..
in winter...
like here, so be careful...
if you want to come because its gonna be very cold..
previously I went to Kharkov once..
minus 35 °C on the street
can you imagine.. (Ir) yes, to walk in a park with -35 °C
its not the option of course
So, not all are interested,..
even more..some girls are very reserved
it's like the education at home
do not accept being invited, they think that...
if they invite you it means that you owe something
so many girls do not like ..
to go to very expensive places
also if you're getting to know a girl
a cool girl, a normal girl...so not every girl its like that..
and another thing...
if you see yourself as a walking wallet, if It is clear that you have a lot of money
or if you offer drinks to everybody in a bar
you will be approached by women who will only want that for you
what you give to the world...
thats what you receive back.. (Co) Ok and ...
which is the 4th biggest mistake?
it is not using your Latin charm..
I don't know if you have any connection with Latin world
(Co) Yes, I go to Brazil every year...
the others, the Hispanic countries I know them very little
But, I know that in Latin America they...
like to dance, it's a very sexy thing..
and it's very rare here, because..
Ukranian men that...
I personally see..
in the clubs don't dance much..
well, yes that's something..
in what Ukranian men are failing a bit...
because they don't dance...
they like to drink ...
but, in latino culture...
there are a lot of people interested in latino culture...
the songs, the dances, bachata, salsa...
the people, specially women are very attracted...
by language, culture...
but, is not very developed, not many people use it over here..
there are latino bars...
you have to go there...
so, you have to use your latino charm..
to dance, always, invite them to dance...
the Ukranian girls move very well...
they have a sense of rhythm..
and they want to use, but they don't know how...
So, you are who's gonna help them with that ...
so, invite her to dance..
the Mexican hats here, I don't know if you know that, but...
here they are a hit
in Ukraine if you are gonna go out...
obviously you're not going to go out with a sombrero ...
but, something that identifies you as a latino...
so..
(Ir) who? what?.. (Co) a flag? like this...
(Ir) thats more like for soccer, Mexicans use flags more for soccer things...
But I don't know, if you are going...
to come here, and you want to impress a girl or several girls..
then, bring a coin from Mexico...
or from your country...
they also like, Argentina, Colombia, Brazil
obviously they don't differentiate all of these...
I know more of that, I can differentiate more of that..
but for her it is more general, but you're gonna be their ambassador
you're gonna teach them how is Mexico, Colombia, Argentina..
how it is from where you are come from..I don't know... Peru...
so, yes Latin things have a lot of appeal here
so, you need to invite her to dance...
yes, the image of a latino man, is very positive here...
in Ukraine, Russia, in this part of the world...
and Iryna, the 5th mistake that you think
the latinos make here...
with the ...
with men... haha ...with Ukrainian women?
not with men, hahaha...(Ir) Well, there's something for everyone
(Ir) and you can come here and it is also possible...
ok, the last mistake I would say...
is to be in a hurry...
then, maybe beacuse of...
latino customs they tend to think...that things happen ...
that things happen very fast..Here it's not like that...
it depends also on your goals, but...
Ukranian girls are not so fast...
in many aspects...they are not so fast.
if you really want to know somebody to...
be your girlfriend, to have a serious relationship..
to have something romantic with her...
you have to invest some time...
so you first come with time, or..
come on several occasions here to Ukraine...
invite her several times
if you know her in ..
if you meet her in a club, take her phone number..
see her later, invite her to some places....
and invest time in that..
women here are more..
I don't like the words traditional, and reserved...
but it goes like that...
women need that you take them seriously ..
that you are interested in her personality, in what she does
here there are many educated women,
even two careers...
or they study in university..
they speak different languages, not all of them speak English...
(Co) hahaha Not, I have to say...
so, if you have to learn a bit of Russian, that helps a lot..
that's one of the advices if you..
want to make one investment, a good investment in something..
then yes, learn a bit of Russian..
that will help a lot ..
and come with time and don't be in a hurry...
take it easy...
here are many beautiful girls...
that's easy, well not easy, hard but..
enjoy your time here...
Ukraine is not only women
Ukraine it's a country to travel, tourism,
language, culture, food, music, festivals,
here we have everything
and of course that women here, I don't know, that women here are beautiful
that's also important..
(Co) yes, of course women here are beautiful..
in this region, part of Europe, and..
it's something that surprises a lot of foreigners..
that there's a myth...
that Ukranian girls are..
possibly easy..
I personally don't like this word, but ok
it is not true that Ukranians
are all going to be in your bed...
because you are a foreigner..
and in my experience here as foreigner also..
but
it's worth the time as well, because as Iryna said
they are very educated,
they are very pretty, and
they have a hearth, how to say, very ...
very ...hot?
hahaha hot (warm) , (Ir) well latinos are more warm hearted...
here..I would say it also depends, we have everything here..
obviously
here there are girls that are easier than others
that's nothing bad..
you can fall in love faster
there's nothing bad with that,...
but..
if you come here for a week you are not going to come back married...
that's not gonna happen..
so, you have to invest a little... and
get to know people and to get know...
it is gonna take a bit of time for you to know people here in general..
its going to be a bit strange for you..
so you need a bit of time here...
so, enjoy it more I would say..
Yes, It's very important to know ...
the country, culture, ...
and the people in general in the country..
not only coming thinking I want a women...
it is going to be very fast, I am going to go back
to Mexico with my girlfriend or my wife..
Iryna thanks so much for ..
your advice,...
it is my first video in spanish in a long long time..
(Ir) hahaha, Congratulations, we already opened the spanish section..
if you like it, then let's see ..
furthermore, if you're gonna travel
All my videos are in Spanish, I always talk about Ukraine...
about people from here, about Mexico and many other things
and I always try to
answer your doubts, about money, how to go, and all of that...
(Co) Nice, she is the...
more mexicanized woman in ..
the whole Ukraine, that you're gonna find on the whole internet...
hahaha I am sure... (Ir) Yes..
(Ir) a special greetings to Mexico, because they are special for me..
ok, thank you so much..."spasiva" (Спасибо - thanks) [Russian]
(Дякую-thanks) [Ukrainian] ... goodbye friends
So, this is my video
the 5th biggest mistakes that you...
latinos make
with Ukrainian girls, with Iryna Fedchenko...
thanks so much Iryna for your advice
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if you want to write me in Spanish, if not
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let's talk more about this theme,
I will add more vlogs from here in Ukraine this summer...
also from other countries in the region such as..
Belarus (Bielorusia)
and Moldova (Moldavia)
and possibly Romania as well
so, see you in the next video...
see you later,
до побачення (goodbye) [Ukrainian], до свидания (goodbye) [Russian]
from here, Ukraine