- Привет! Welcome back to another Tip Thursday with me Conor Clyne and yes
there are scammer girls looking out for you on the watch everywhere in this
region whether it happens to be here in the Odessa Mama or even in Russia in Rostov Papa
you need to be careful in this video we're going to be diving into the biggest scams involving
usually something romantic or that's presumption here in countries like
Russia Ukraine and even sometimes a more honest Belarus so let's dive into
today's video! Поехали!
So these next three scams are kinda on a continuum right going upwards in
terms of value what they're trying to extort out of you so I'm gonna call the
first one of these three that are kind of related as the meal plan scam
listen if you are a pretty girl in Russia Ukraine Belarus and you go on to
something like tinder and you go swipe swipe swipe swipe swipe right on
everybody you are gonna be inundated with guys offering to take you out
to restaurants at the very very least and that means basically if you're
disingenuous and a little bit unscrupulous as a girl and here in this
region you can basically just live off these guys and go eat out in restaurants
three times a day without having to spend a penny because guys pay the bill
they pick up the bill in Ukraine by culture and most foreign guys who come
here they of course like you just adapt to that and they pay the bill if they
invite the girl out so it is super easy for them to do this I actually had an
incident before where one of my friends came with me to a restaurant where I just met
two guys randomly at the time actually one of them became a very good friend and one is still
I'm in contact with and they had all been out with the same girl from tinder
in fact one of them had gone out immediately after she had had
dinner with the first guy so basically during the summer in particular it
seemed this happened to be in the summer in Kiev seems to be a pretty good
strategy for girls just to go out to the nice places and of course take lots of
Instagram photos and show off to their friends all the places that they're
going to but they are not in there for you that's the key thing now this is a
pretty minor one of course in terms of cost because it's like the price of a
meal that's not going to be obviously very expensive here in this region whether
it happens to be Ukraine or Russia maybe in Moscow especially you
go to a you know just a normal place nothing super super extravagant but it
is a waste of your time and that's the biggest issue with this bringing a girl
to a restaurant is not gonna impress her in any case it's just to get to know her so
definitely don't do something that you don't feel comfortable with and at the
end of the day if it turns out to be for a free meal it's not the end of the world but
definitely be definitely be aware there are girls who take advantage of that and
they just want to eat out for free off guys disingenuously
so that is the first one so definitely don't accept that at all so that's the
lightest of the three that we're about to jump into
So the second one is the swimsuit scam I call it more specifically about swimsuits because it seems to be one
that they use quite a bit especially in Ukraine but it's basically a shopping
scam I had one consulting client and they told me that the girl that they had
met online on Tinder had suggested that they go to the spa together
now the spot is a great place to hang out with someone to get to know
them not very very much clothing it's kind of you know all that heat in the sauna
should be fun but it's a bit odd for a girl to suggest this if she's never met you
before so I was like red flag and of course
what happened she didn't have a swimsuit she needed a swimsuit to go to the
spa so she tried to persuade him to buy a I
think it was like a five hundred euros swimsuit for her now there are two things going
on there what she might just want a five minute euro swimsuit she's obviously not
returning that after the day at the spa the other thing is she may just have a
deal with the shop that sells them and then after she just goes back hands it
over and they do something with the tags and they resell it again and she gets
her cut of the cash maybe she already has plenty of swimsuits for having done
this over is a summer that goes for any sort of shopping scam it can also be
just that they bring they just suddenly suggest to go to the mall it happened to a
friend of mine before 2 friends actually in Belarus and all of a sudden
they're in and they're picking out stuff and they're kind of suggesting that you
pay as a gift this is a girl you just met and just went one maybe coffee or
dinner a day with of course never buy them stuff
like this we see your big fat Western wallet and they want to take advantage
of that and themselves a gift
Now the thirds scam in this increasing cost to you if you're unfortunate enough to get
caught up on it is the restaurant nightclub scam and that's different to
the three-meal-a-day scam in this sense that they actually have an agreement
with the restaurant and the idea is not just to get a free meal actually to rack
up an enormous bill and then receive a kickback from the restaurant so this
is fraud you will be brought to a place where they have a deal with the
restaurant there will be the order lots of stuff maybe and then the price will
be astronomical for this region it will be New York London Paris prices there
are some places of course that have a menu in English and a menu in Russian that's another way
different prices so again if you don't speak Russian
just basically the way to avoid this is always be leading her to a restaurant and it's very
unlikely but they have a deal with the restaurant that you picked it can also be
with nightclubs I talked about in an earlier video here on my channel about
some German guys I met during the summer and one of them got caught out he was
brought to a nightclub in Arcadia this is kind of a very touristic part of
Odessa and he met two girls he actually met them online on tinder showed up with
her friend and they said let's go to this club they sat down at the table
ordered lots of stuff 20-30 minutes later oh we have to go nice to meet you bye
bye bill comes and it was 1000 euros so that's about 1,100 US dollars and they
had ordered a bottle of stuff and some fruit what can he do two big bouncers telling
you have to pay up this is the bill and he had ... he paid the bill and that's
it they were obviously getting a kickback from the club so they are the
three like two three four in the scams here that I'm going into and increasing
in terms of how much they are gonna cost you so you've been warned
So another way that dishonest and disingenuous local girls in this region
make money that they milk foreign guys when they come here for example to Odessa
is with variations on the transport scam so how does this work well
basically say like one of my clients you've met a girl online and you've
been talking to her a bit before you arrived and then you want to meet up
with her and she says I don't actually live in Minsk in the example with my
client I live in a provincial small town village not so far from the city but I
need a taxi in order to come into the city and that taxi will cost something
like a hundred euros it's 100% if she's coming to meet you to get
her hundred euros she's taking the bus so that's the first thing is like these
inflated prices and she if she's in you know really interested in seeing you
genuinely she's not gonna demand a hundred euro taxi ride to come in she's going to be in
Minsk to see you and pay for the bus probably herself it's gonna cost maybe a
couple of euros and they rely on the the price differential say between where
you're from in North America or Western Europe where it's a lot more expensive
versus here in Eastern Europe where the prices are obviously normally about a
quarter we'll say in general and on top of the fact they're never taking that
mode of transport in the first place so not a good example I have heard from
plenty of guys especially in Kiev is that they arrange a date over normally over
tinder because that's where they meet these girls and they come in and say yes
but I need to have my taxi paid inevitably the taxi is like over 30 euros
they said there's no taxi because 30 euros in Kiev no matter where you're
going even if you go out to the airport it's gonna be a third of that so you should
know straight away that this girl is a scammer and shouldn't be going anywhere
with any girl who demands that you pay an inflated price for transport to come
and meet you now you course the way to control all
this is just to say ah that's great you're gonna come by by taxi I will
order you an uber what is your address send it to me
and then it will come and pick you up and I screenshot and send you the the
taxi driver with the number plate and the phone number and probably most these of
girls are gonna refuse because they actually want to make the money you are
gonna be really sincere and probably just think yeah taxi costs 30 euros in
Kiev but not the case my friend
- There's a little story I want to tell as well and put out there so me personally I
met actually on Tinder two scammers before I had met them I had on I was
feeling that there's something wrong I felt some reflex the thing is
that the girl starts very aggressively to write you where are you who are you where are you
from I mean that's normal but when they insist too much
you understand that something something is up right
anyways let's see what happens that's my philosophy always be open and see you
what happens so I said okay let's meet and we met and she came with her friend
and the friend was pretty good pretty hot and herself was average looking
relatively to Russian people and women in general but in comparison
to Western Europe she was also good - Why did they come 2 together if she's on a date with you?
- yeah it's not the same now they happened to be together so there's another red flag two
red flags already within 10 minutes so be vigilant anyways I was like yeah
do you smoke shisha but that's the first I personally don't smoke nothing but I
said okay we can go to the so-called shisha lounge they insisted they knew some
crazy place in some crazy alley backyard whatever
and we went there it took 5-10 minutes to walk we actually sat down enjoy start talking
and then of course they brought the card with the drinks and with the bottles
whatever and they wanted wine I personally prefer vodka
but the girls wanted wine I said so let's see and then I see the prices
of the wine that's the third red flag so when you see a bottle of wine costing
the same as a bottle of vodka you know something is not normal nevertheless it
was a party day I wanted to drink so I said ok I knew what already what was
going on I was pretty sure 90% at that point but anyway I said I wanted to drink
so I took control of the situation I said I order one bottle to the waitress
I want this wine it was like 110 euro for that bottle of wine a bit over overpriced
in that area of Saint Petersburg I would say maybe if it was in a nice club
and other things okay that could be but in that area no it was overpriced for sure
nevertheless the bottle comes we start drinking very aggressively they started
filling up the glasses with like try to empty the bottle very fast I said relax
enjoy one glass enjoy one glass does we are not in a hurry again
you have to take control do whatever you want buy whatever you want but you have
to be controlling the situation always if you're not you will lose and you will
end up paying a lot of money for nothing anyway so the wine was almost the bottle
was almost empty and they said let's order another one I said girls
relax so one of the girls she said to the waitress in Russian and I don't
speak Russian but I understand what's going on blablabla
in Russian and I said wait a second what did she say She said that she wanted to order this
and this this I say let her order whatever she wants but on her bill I only pay for this
bottle and that's it I will only pay for what I order so again of
course she did not order anything long story short they got irritated because I
did not want to spend more bottles and more money on bottles in the end it ended in
nothing in the end and I was like okay so just leave and then my friends just
came and we enjoyed the rest of that bottle and that's it basically and I
was totally fine I start getting tipsy and getting in the mood
and we went clubbing afterwards but the point of the story
be vigilant don't be delusional don't be intimidated because two hot girls come
and don't behave like you never seen hot girls in your life right so that's true
they they should actually be happy to spend time with you and not the opposite
so don't be too needy and just be calm and behave like locals and you will do
alright right and always have to always be in charge of the situation
and nothing will happen
- So the final scam that I want you to be very wary of involves romance and women here
in Eastern Europe is one that affects this
city scam central Odessa Mama and basically it runs an entire gauntlet
as I've gone into it other videos on this channel you know from just girls
trying to waste a little bit of your time I mean the price of a meal it's not
really that significant all the way up to of course you know you've been lured
somewhere on the edge of this city and then basically it's an empty club
and there's a huge bill like maybe over a thousand dollars or something that's
what I've heard about thousand euros and big bouncers there may be blocking
your path until you pay the bill so want you to definitely avoid that now
also some other scams that happen with like online dating or of course
disingenuous marriage agencies are dating sites where you pay for
communication that means like to write messages or receive emails or maybe even
to video chat with girls any sort of online service that makes you pay
for communication that's a huge red flag for me in general those are
not genuine agencies because you got to think of the incentives there
right for both the agency and for the girls who are on those sites it's basically
like the longer they keep you on there talking or communicating the more money
is being generated that's a very bad incentive for you know
you to actually meet someone that you are going to spend time with and also if you're
communicating you're not seeing the person's face at all like I mean you haven't talked
to them on video chat then you don't really know who you're talking to it could be
Igor sitting in Siberia not Nastya here in Odessa Mama so definitely be very
careful and never send money online to anyone that you've never met in person
no matter what sob story they give you about their grandma being in a hospital
or they need to go learn English in order to talk to you so be careful be
warned I've given you a lot of tips here they're everywhere they're looking for
you but at the same time there are great women that you can either date and if
marry like some of my clients have in the last year in countries like Russia
Ukraine and Belarus don't be put off completely you do need to be very
careful and not be naive
So if you are keen to avoid the scammer girls of Ukraine Russia and
occasionally Belarus and you really want to meet the good girls I have another
video about that I'm gonna link up in a card above and down below in the
description then what are you doing next weekend because it could be you
living the tsar experience I have an application below also in the
description below this video but the tsar experience is not for everybody I
only want to work with high-level clients who are interested in developing
themselves they're not looking for some sort of quick fix like a marriage agency
or a matchmaking service directly which just presents them to a lot of women
irrelevant about how they look or how they want to develop themselves and
learn about you know traveling the region in this region and of course how
to meet and date beautiful women here that's the kind of client I'm looking
for one who wants to invest in themselves both in terms of time and in
terms of money to actually get to actually maximize their own potential
here so if you are looking for a quick fix like you're just a little bit
unrealistic you think that you can just fly in from say the US to a city like
Odessa and that there's gonna be all these beautiful Instagram models 20
years of age waiting for I don't even not 20 years of age but just women who
are maybe five levels higher than you are what you can find in your home
town because you're not very charismatic and you know don't project yourself very
well then that's who the scammers target that's
what I've been trying to warn you about in this video so you know forewarned is
forearmed now you know that's not realistic and you're probably going to be
scammed unfortunately if you were to do that but if you are the kind of person
of course who is looking to you know just have an absolutely unforgettable experience here in Eastern
Europe and you are realistic and you're interested in developing yourself and pushing
yourself to a higher level and definitely you'll fill out an
application form if on the other hand maybe you've been talking to women
online maybe from Odessa in Ukraine and you're not sure about
them I do help clients with also vetting through my online consulting so you can
definitely go and just write me a message and explain your situation and
then it's a good fit for me to help you I
will do that we'll do that on a consultancy basis so basically we'll be
able to do everything either over WhatsApp or
over Skype and I can help you
obviously it's a paid service but that's a premium also a paid premium service
that I offer to clients who just want to have you know women vetted or just want
more information about what it's like to travel here and don't actually want to
live the tsar experience but they do appreciate the fact that I can give them
great value and save them a lot of time a lot of money actually as it turns out
especially if they have been the target of scammers you can do that by writing
to me by email ConorClyne@TsarExperience.com or reaching out to me
on Instagram my handle there is @TsarExperience and definitely if you're not
interested in either go check out the Instagram there's a lot of great
additional content that I produce there just in my stories I don't focus very
heavily at the moment on Instagram but I do give you a little bit of a window
into what my life is like just traveling around here in cities like Odessa or
Minsk or St Petersburg Moscow gonna be very soon because I'm gonna be going a
lot to Russia in 2020 very excited about that going to be vlogging from
Kaliningrad St. Petersburg and let's see where else in Russia maybe a big special
surprise I may be going skiing just working on organizing that right now in
Siberia so a lot of great content coming up have a great festive season Happy
Holidays whether you happen to be celebrating Christian Christmas or maybe
Hanukkah or maybe some other religious festival over the next month
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