Welcome! This video is about "Does Walking Away Really Work?"
There are four reasons why you walking away from toxic people and relationships is so powerful
and really really does work! So please stay tuned to this video...
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You will never be good enough for the wrong person!
Let me repeat that again you'll never be good enough for the wrong person!
I'm sorry to tell you it's just the way it is! The wrong person may be anybody in your life as
well = it could be a parent, it could be a friend, someone you're dating, a spouse, it could be a boss
a co-worker! I wish we could all just assume the best in people these days, but with narcissism
rising around the world that would be very naive and potentially extremely dangerous for our own
well-being and safety... if you stumbled across this video I know exactly how you feel (I really do!)
you've spoken until you've come blue in the face with these people, when you've just got nowhere
perhaps you've tried even changing who you really are, and need to have an identity crisis going on
inside you... basically you've forgotten who you are... completely you have no idea
who that person is staring back at you when you look in the mirror! You've consulted everyone and
anyone, now resorted to watching videos and the one thing that can make a difference... the one
superpower that you can apply to your life for the better = walking away! No it's not a weak move
it's one of the strongest moves in your arsenal! This is the power play when all hope is lost if
you're watching this, you've already considered walking away, you've contemplated it in your mind
and thought "maybe I should give up!" Giving up is not walking away, let me make that very very clear
giving up is allowing someone to carry on abusing and manipulating you for the rest of your life...
Walking away is the opposite of that completely and as someone myself who has walked away from plenty
of toxic people I can assure you it really does work! So here are four reasons why in my opinion
walking away is powerful and it really does work for the better!
Cut off supply = narcissists and toxic people thrive off your attention, be it good or
bad hence why they're referred to sometimes as "energy draining vampires" Have you ever been around
a toxic person, when you get home and you just feel so exhausted, you're so drained... well now you really
know why! But what happens when you walk away instead from these types of people? What happens
when you push the block button on your phone and go no contact forever? The supply is gone! Supply
is cut off it's like the water board switching off the supplies of water to your home....
Okay you have no more water in your house and the toxic person no longer has their supply
I've seen it happen to a toxic person with my very own eyes! A friend will cut them off and I will see
the confusion on their face almost straight away! They cannot reach out to them anymore because well
they're blocked and they don't want to be spoken to anymore. Sure they can drive to their homes and
stalk them but why on earth would they want to do that? It is completely over it's finished! Initially
they will struggle to comprehend it! They will feel extremely confused, frustrated and angry
but gradually over time like a moth to a flame they're on towards finding a brand new victim
aka a new supply! You are now old news... you will be slandered... they will despise you for what you did
why should you care? Remember who the toxic person is right? At the end of the day you are victorious
you're the one who has realized what this person is genuinely like and cut ties to your own benefit
you have chosen to improve your life! Walking away and going no contact cuts the supply off immediately.
No more abuse... no more stress will come your way and also no more drama either!
The power is with you! = You have the power! (Just like He-Man!) What do I mean by the
power exactly? Well most likely you have any type of relationship with a toxic person of any kind
you've had to endure a hell of a lot of suffering! Maybe they bullied you... maybe they manipulated you
abused you... humiliated you... insulted you... took pure advantage of you... but whatever it was or is you
were pretty much defenseless! Sometimes you stood up to them yet somehow, someway they always won!
You tried reasoning with them... you tried talking things through and again somehow they always made
you feel like you were the problem, and not them! You started questioning your own mental health
your own reality... your own sanity... DR Sigmund Freud said it best "before you diagnose yourself
with depression or with low self-esteem, make sure that you are not in fact just surrounded by a**holes!"
Would you be watching this if you felt loved by this person or these
people? Would you be watching this if these people complimented and improved your life?
Probably not, but I do envy such people. Sadly the power lied with them if you are in their lives
if you chose to see them ....if you chose to speak and engage with them
if you chose to have regular dialogue with them... they win, they have the power!
but that is all hopefully about to change for the better and the power is now drastically going to
shift into your direction, and no it's not about getting violent, revenge, abusive, back with them it
is about picking yourself up, dusting yourself off, and saying "I can't do this anymore, enough
is enough! I'm putting on your metaphorical shoes and walking out the door towards the horizon!" Yes
walking away is a superpower! You will have better! = Another fundamental reason walking
away really does work is you will attract so much better people and opportunities into your life
This is actually just the law of the universe - I remember when I was
flying high before I met a toxic partner that I ended up dating for a few years
my career, my health, my social life was the best it ever was, and then I started dating a narcissist...
everything went wrong! I looked at their life and their home life too - they're abusive, manipulative
argumentative, toxic, negative overall... you become who you surround yourself with
that is a fact of life! If you surround yourself with a winner you will become a winner! If you
surround yourself with a loser you will become a loser! There's no correcting this, this is the way
it is! So by walking away from the toxic people in your life or a toxic person, the universe can and
will reward you by attracting better... sending you better opportunities... better people... you will give
off an aura of much deserved and needed self-worth and self-respect that has possibly been dormant
for a long time, and with that you can attract better people into your life! What do I mean by
better people? I mean people who are genuine people who are not drama kings or queens people who are
respectful people who genuinely care about you... people who want the best for you and support you
associate with people who genuinely want the best for you... now what is the alternative of all of this?
A dishonest, abusive, toxic negative person... trust me do yourself a favor and walk away and go no
contact! It works because you will be rewarded for doing so... it may not happen straight away
it may take a little bit of time but whenever it happens I really do want you to remember
this video! Walking away will (I guarantee you) bring and attract better people into your life!
You will have peace! = And when I walked away from any negative person
I would always go for a walk in nature immediately I'd go without my phone just alone, me and mother
nature.... I'd take a big deep breath in and let out all the negativity I've had to endure = all the
fights or the stress or the arguments...I'd release it back into the world and I would ultimately be
and find peace... only those who have endured a toxic partner really knows how peace is the end goal and
I would ultimately say happiness is is not the end goal, peace and tranquility is! Walking
away really does work, because it will allow you to have that much needed peace... what more can you
ask for? Your body mind and soul needs to revive itself and heal from potential trauma or maybe
so much stress and tension that has mounted for decades even! Please let it go and as you walk
away go for a physical walk in nature - it could be on a beach, a forest wherever, preferably somewhere
a little bit quiet not so busy...so you can relax... you need to recharge and look at what's happened
and let it go! You may have tears running down your face... this is all part of the process
Walking away and cutting the supply will work on re-centering and grounding yourself! You need
to rediscover who you were and who you now are now going forward... People can change! You need to remind
yourself who you are...it took me almost one year to remember who I once was after walking away and so
much happened in that one year too, you would not believe it! But now I know who I am and I am better
wiser and healthier as a result... Walking away will give you peace and you deserve it! So in summary
of the reasons why walking away really does work = it cuts off supply...the power is with you...
attract much better, and you will be at peace! Thank you so much for watching...