Okay, so to get your ex afraid to lose you, there's a couple things you need to know
First and foremost.
Um, if this is the first video of mine that you're watching, um, you may be expecting
this video to have hips and advice on how to, you know, use reverse psychology or how
to play mind games in order to create some sort of perception that, you know, you're
dating like a million people or something like that.
Um, that's not what this video's gonna be about, and we're gonna talk about why, and
then we're gonna talk about later on what you actually need to do to make your ex, um,
afraid to lose you in an authentic and genuine sort of way.
So the first reason why you don't want to use mind games and reverse psychology is because
it puts you in this energetic state of inauthenticity as to say there's nothing wrong with, um,
you know, playing hard to get, if you like, genuinely are hard to get.
I mean, in that case, you wouldn't be playing anything.
You just would be hard to get, or there's nothing wrong with, you know, acting like
an alpha male, if you genuinely are an alpha male.
But if it's just an act that you're putting on, if it's just a performance that you're
putting on in order to try to elicit some sort of, um, response, some sort of result,
then it's going to put you in an energetic state of inauthenticity.
And this is something that we don't want to do.
Why is that?
Because this is going to cause us to, to start to bring a different level of energy to our
interactions.
We're going to start to, um, be less authentic.
We're gonna have a much more difficult time creating genuine connections and emotional
bonding.
We're gonna have a more difficult time actually, uh, creating the sorts of, um, that are going
to really inspire someone to want to be with you.
Okay.
Instead, we're just going to be caught up in a performance.
And even if you were to get back together or even if you were to succeed in making your
X fear losing you, there'd be a deep part of you deep down that would know that it was
all just fake.
It was all just perception.
It was all inauthentic.
And that brings us to the second reason why, um, these mind games, aren't something that
I'd recommend.
And that is because it creates this sort of split.
In reality, it creates this split between the perception that you're putting out and
how you genuinely are, and this can be troublesome for of different reasons.
It can be troublesome because eventually when we are being inauthentic, when we are per,
uh, putting out some sort of perception that, um, what we, what we are presenting, um, is
one way, but how we really are, is a different way.
It can be difficult because it causes us to in a certain way, believe that we are not
good enough.
We are not good enough with who we are.
We're not good enough as who we are.
And it starts to actually limit our energetic ability to create the kind of relationships
and the kinds of connections and the kinds of impacts in the world that we really want.
Because on some level we don't believe that we can have a real, genuine, meaningful connection
with someone.
And so this is actually a setup for a lot of challenges and a set set up for a lot of,
uh, hard times moving forward.
Plus beyond that beyond if you're just able to look at how you feel about yourself and
your level of self-esteem in the whole process, it's also going to cause you to additionally,
um,
Put yourself in a place where you're likely to get found out.
That's just say, okay, maybe you are able to get back together with your ex.
Maybe you're able to get them to fear of losing you and they cling onto you, and they want
to work things out with you and you get back together.
But if it was all just an act, if it was all just a show, if it was all just a charade
Sharad depending on he pronou it, um, then there is going to come a, a time where you
have to pay the debt of putting on a performance that's to say, you have to, they, they will
discover that really there weren't a million people dating.
You they'll discover that really you really weren't this alpha male that you're pretending
to be again and nothing wrong if you genuinely are that way.
But if you're just putting on a performance, then it's likely to, um, not it's, it's likely
to catch up with you in the end and you know, there's nothing wrong with, um, any of these
other things, as long as they are genuinely, uh, who you are and how you're showing up
in that moment.
If it's not genuine, it will catch up to you.
And they will be this big disappointing moment where the two of you, where, where your partner,
your ex realizes that, Hey, I thought I was signing up for this, but instead, what I got
was that, and that can cause a lot of relationships to struggle.
It can cause a lot of relationships to breakup and it can cause a lot of relationships to,
um, go in a direction.
That's not going to be very great for, for you and what you want.
So what we really want to do here is we want to create an outcome.
That's actually going to, uh, bring the two of you into a place where you can genuinely
create this experience of them being afraid to lose you.
Now, how do you do this?
You do this by number one, understanding.
So, so first of all, they're, they're your partner.
The two of you were together.
The two of you should have an idea about, you should have an idea about why they wanted
to be with you, what they're looking for in a relationship and all of that stuff.
And so what you want to do is you want to really live into that as much as possible.
So, you know, you really want to demonstrate to them that you embody everything that they
were looking for in a relationship, and you embody everything that they're looking for
in a partner and that you embody everything that they want in, um, love.
And if you're able to do that, then they're able to say, okay, here is someone who was
really living a it all out.
Here's someone who is everything that I was looking for in a partner, in a relationship
in love and all of that.
And I walked away from it.
That can be hard for them, and that can make them think, okay, I made a mistake.
I think I, I actually do want to get back together.
The second thing you want to do as well is to really live into your own values because
as you live into your own values and live your best life, you're also going to be maximizing
how you are showing up in the moment.
Now, again, they chose to be in a relationship with you.
There's probably something about you that they found attractive, interesting, desirable,
et cetera.
And if you can align yourself with the highest version of yourself, pull yourself out of
whatever challenges you're going through depression, um, struggle, let down stuff like that and
create a, a version of yourself where you can move forward and authentically what it
is you want for yourself.
That is going to be incredibly attractive to him.
That's probably going to play up the most attractive qualities about yourself and give
them someone to look forward to, uh, being in a relationship with this is incredibly
powerful stuff.
You really wanna make sure you, you put this into action.
If you found this helpful, please make sure you hit the thumbs up button for this video
and up next, please make sure you check out this video series over here, where we'll go
ahead and talk about how to automatically attract your ex using all of this stuff by
aligning yourself to who you want to be, and really embodying that fully.
Anyway.
Thanks so much.
Take care.
I'll talk to you next time.