alpha female, assemble Alpha women are everywhere. And they
are amazing and totally misunderstood. Do you know how
to spot an alpha female, I'm gonna bet that you don't, don't
worry, because today we are about to fix that. And we're
going to fix a whole bunch of other misconceptions that you
may have about what it means to be an alpha woman and how to
spot one, you might be intimidated by going after an
alpha woman, even if that's what you're most attracted to. But
today, I'm going to pull the wool off of your eyes. And I'm
going to let you know that there is nothing to be afraid of, we
don't bite unless you want us to in this video, I'm breaking down
the eight shocking traits of alpha females and I guarantee
they will surprise you by the end of this video, you're
probably gonna be thinking to yourself, how can I get myself
an alpha female, and you're gonna want to make sure that you
are an optimized high performance alpha male. Before
you go do that. I'm gonna tell you how number one trait of an
alpha female she doesn't try to dominate her man, huge
misconception about Alpha females is that they're
basically the same as their alpha male counterparts, just
more boobs and less body hair. Not true. We can't judge the
alpha female. By the same criteria, we judge the alpha
male and alpha female is actually an alpha amongst women,
her Alpha status has not so much to do with the way that she
relates to men. So are alpha females confident? Yeah, do we
go after what we want? Yeah, but that doesn't mean that she's
going to try to overpower or dominate you. In fact, she is
way less likely to resort to manipulative tactics than beta
women. Plus, there are tons of alpha females out there that
actually prefer to be submissive in the bedroom, because they are
alpha all day kicking ass taking names, and they would like to
just come home and be taken care of a little bit, have their
pleasure be your main focus. So no domination from Alpha
females, and they may want to just be a little submissive and
be your main focus. Number two, alpha females can be very
feminine. There's this idea that alpha females are not girly. And
I think this is again trying to judge women based off of the
criteria of men. Because this is far from the truth personal
style and expression has very little to do with whether a
woman has Alpha status. So while there are absolutely Alpha women
out there who embrace their masculine side, there are
equally as many who are super feminine. Alpha females are
totally capable of living in their feminine power. They value
collaboration taking care of their community emotional
intelligence. And that doesn't have so much to do with whether
or not they like lipstick. They're creative and
compassionate. They don't see softness as weakness. This is
how they became alpha to begin with true confidence in an alpha
woman is knowing that there's power and vulnerability, and not
being afraid to lean into that. Which brings me to number three
trait of alpha females, they empower others, alpha women,
nurture, they don't get to the top of the heap by belittling or
putting down others. In fact, they gain their Alpha status by
inspiring others to step into leadership. Other women don't
take power over people, they have influence. Others naturally
look to them for inspiration and for guidance, they uplift their
communities. Alfa women aren't power hungry, they're not
interested in being dictators, they naturally and confidently
lead by example, number four traits, they are in command of
their emotions. True Alpha females have this quality in
common with their male counterparts. They are in tune
with their emotions and they understand how to process and
manage them. They don't throw temper tantrums or fits. They're
confident they're emotionally intelligent, at least enough to
understand what they're feeling and let their emotions guide
them. But in a mature and considerate way. They also are
not afraid to face the ugly parts of themselves and they do
it with grace. Sure, they get jealous and insecure because
they are still humans, but they are competent enough to take a
real look at what's beneath those feelings and work towards
healing what's the opportunity within the challenge for growth,
and that my friends, to me it's pretty badass. Number Five trait
they cultivate harmony. Alpha females are natural social
conductors,
they have an ability to set and maintain the vibe of a social
group. And they tend to be naturals at it. They're mindful,
they understand that everyone needs to be checked in with and
that the dynamics of a social situation are a little bit of
like a conduction. So imagine them as the conductor leading
the vibe for a party for an event for family for an entire
business. Number six, there can be more than one alpha female in
a group. This is huge. A true alpha female is not threatened
by other Alpha females. She's comfortable in her lane and not
intimidated by another woman's or Man's power. There's this
idea that there has to be just one person at the top of every
heap, and everyone else is below them, like there can only be one
opha. That's not true. If you haven't already gathered, I'm an
alpha female, and most of my friends are two. On top of that
I live in a home with two alpha men. And no, it is not a
constant battle between us to see who gets to be in charge
true, alphas are self assured enough to take turns. When it
comes to leadership, they recognize that they don't have
to be driving the social situation, or the car or the
house the whole time, but that other people can lean on and
rely on them to take charge when they need to, and let other
people shine when that's more appropriate. Alpha women in
particular tend to be open to collaboration. So if you end up
with an alpha female in your life, it doesn't mean that
you're doomed to following her being whipped, it means that she
knows when it's time to step up. And when it's time to step down
and let someone else be in command. Number seven, they
command attention, alpha females draw attention to themselves,
not aggressively, not verbally, like, Hey, look at me, they do
not need a bright, blinking neon sign like that says, Hey, over
here, instead, they have a natural gravitational pull, that
draws the attention from both men and women alike. If you look
at a group of women speaking to each other, you can often tell
who's the alpha female, because all the other women will have
their bodies slightly oriented towards her. It's subtle, but I
invite you to look and see if you can spot it. Number eight,
they have a growth mindset. The vital trait of an alpha female
is that she is here to grow and get better. The alpha female is
constantly improving herself and pushing herself to be the best
that she can be. Not only does she do this for herself, but she
actually extends that quality to the people that she cares about.
She sees the full potential of others and she's down to help
them achieve it. She doesn't do this by being pushy, or
asserting dominance or taking power over people. She does this
with love and care and lifting up and getting under other
people putting them in their power. Alpha women are amazing.
Not only are they constantly striving to make themselves
better, but they're striving to make the world a better place
around them, which I think we can all agree is a pretty sexy
quality, you might be thinking to yourself, now that I know how
epic Alfa women are, I want to date one, or maybe I'm in a
relationship with one and I want to secure that relationship. And
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to all y'all out there. Whether you're male or female, alpha or
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