Hey, it's Mark here, founder of Make Him Yours and creator of the Find Love in Five Steps
system. Today, we are discussing shy guys, I assure you. I actually used to be one, so
I know a bit about this topic. How do you go about dating and even getting into a relationship
with a guy who's really shy? Today, I'm going to explain exactly how you can do it. Stick
around
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Hello and welcome to my video today, and we are talking shy guys. I often get asked by
women, how do you go about dating a guy that's quieter, who keeps to himself a bit more,
but who does seem very genuine and sweet? So they asked me things such as how can I
make things happen with him? And it is a great question because as I said in the intro, some
shy guys make fantastic partners. They're often loyal and caring and many are just waiting
for the right girl to come along. But there are challenges with dating shy guys. Shyness
is a form of anxiety, and you have to understand that and decide whether this is the right
characteristic for you to have in a man. First thing you want to do is avoid the biggest
mistake women make with shy guys. And that is confusing them with regular guys who just
aren't that into you.
When you think about it, it's kind of easy. I mean, shy guys don't talk to you. A disinterested
guys usually don't talk to you, but when you go more into detail, it gives, it usually
gives it away. So trust your intuition with this one. Uh, but look, if you're still not
sure, here's a few little tips for you to tell apart of shy guy from a maybe disinterested
guy. So shy guys may not talk to you, but they'll either be enthusiastic or kind of
awkward when you talk to them. Whereas a disinterested guys, just disinterested, right? Shy guys
also will never hit you up for sex. So if he's hitting you up for sex, he's not really
shy all right? And number three, shy guy's friends or people who know him will usually
tell you he's interested. Whereas a disinterested guy's friends, obviously they won't say anything
at all.
So there's a few ways to tell a shy guy apart from a guy who's actually just kind of disinterested.
Let's say you're now confident, you're like Mark, he is a shy guy. I've ticked the boxes.
I'm sure. What the hell do I do now? Well, step two you get into the more difficult part
of potentially dating a shy guy and that is you. You are going to have to start making
some of the moves yourself and this is where a lot of women struggle with shy guys. So
look, depending on his level of shyness, you are going to have to get comfortable making
some or even all of the moves yourself and you now see why it's so important to make
sure he was a shy guy. Otherwise, this is you just making a lot of moves on a guy that's
just not that into you.
And look, the fact is when you make all the moves on a guy, part of you is still probably
going to feel a little bit like desperate or needy, but you're not. But that's how it
might feel sometimes because you're kind of doing a bit more of the chasing yourself,
which is so often something the man would do. So ask him out. If he's positive and he
seems to enjoy it, you might have to ask him out again, and again. You might have to be
the one who kisses him and look, if he's really shy, you might have to be the one that leads
him to the bedroom. But if you can handle all of that, he could make a great partner
for you. And look, step three of the whole process is just keep monitoring his responses,
see, see what he does. Again, you don't want to be like the desperate girl or anything.
So his responses to your moves should always be positive. The moment he gets negative or
funny or starts turning you down, that's when it's time to dial things back and leave sort
of the ball a bit more in his court. So look in summary, shy guys aren't for everyone.
They're not for every girl, but if you're okay making many or even all of the moves
yourself, you might find yourself a great partner in a shy guy. So just make sure that
he's appreciating your efforts and he's not using you for them. Well look, thanks for
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