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- That's rolling, yes!
Testing 1, 2, 3
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This is the moment.
...and take two seconds and...
- what was the first thing?
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The Foundation Access Consciousness
Family
I never felt like I fitted in,
how many of you don't feel like you fit into your family?
- Me!
My family actually called me, "the black sheep of the family".
They labeled me, "you're the black sheep"
and it was like, "Okay, nothing empowering about that."
It was just like, "You're different, let's label you, let's put you in the corner there."
So, anything that I was ever choosing,
one of the things that was told to me a lot was I was choosing against them
but I was actually choosing for me.
That's one of the tools that I got out of this was
that I don't have to choose the same thing that my family is choosing,
you are different!
Just because you're born into that family
doesn't mean you have to choose the same as them.
- And if you're not, you're not choosing against them.
No, you're not choosing against them, you just choosing for you.
- Yeah!
Most people think in order to choose for them
they have to choose against somebody else
but that's what we're told our whole life from the time we're little kids.
- Yeah!
And when you choose something different than your family chooses
your families like, "Well, you're wrong, you're not part of us, you're not..."
and it's like, "No, I just...I dance to the beat of a different drummer, I'm sorry!"
- I just want to be me! Yes, exactly!
That's one of the things I love about this class is
we're conditioned into this way of how we think we need to choose
based on somebody else's reality that we never ask for what's true for us.
- Yeah!
We just spoke about financial reality,
how many of you create your financial reality based on what your family did?
I'm sorry, that's not your reality...
- Did you hear that?
Even if you start to ask, "Okay, so today if I was choosing my financial reality,
what would that be?"
Not your family, YOUR financial reality
and that's just a couple of the questions and tools.
- Whaaat?
And in asking these questions it's like when you ask a question like that,
be silent and let yourself start seeing the different places
where you could start getting the awareness of what's true for you.
And that thing about being silent for a moment because if you say,
"If I were truly creating my financial reality, not from my family's point of view,
what would I choose?"
It's like, it can be a little earth-shattering.
- You're trying to figure that out!
- It's not going to show up instantaneously maybe!
Yeah!
- You're not going to get an answer, you're not looking for a result.
Exactly!
But if you'll be with that question and ask it today and just then go live your life
and then ask it again tomorrow and go live your life
and ask it again the next day and within a few days or maybe a moment for some people
what happens is you're like, "Oh my goodness,
I've got a different point of view about money!
I got a different point of view about struggle,
I've got a different point of view about the rightness of not having,
the wrongness of having it, than my family does!"
And guess what?
That doesn't make your family wrong but it doesn't make you wrong either.
- Exactly!
So, here you are, you're just friggin different
and I gotta say if there's one thing people get out of the Foundation class,
the awareness of, "I'm just friggin different
then I thought I was and than I tried to be and it's okay!"
- Yeah! - Yeah!
And you're not wrong!
- Yeah and you're not wrong!
- And that's huge! You're not wrong!
And you're not wrong! - You're not wrong!
You're not wrong! - You're not wrong!
You're still not wrong!
And you're STILL not wrong! - Even now, STILL NOT wrong!
Even after listening to that, still not wrong!
And if you got a little excited by that, still not wrong.
This is where also though it starts to become about actually,
"What would you desire to create as your life?"
If you choosing for you wasn't against somebody else
and didn't need to be framed that way,
"What would you like to choose as your life?"
The Foundation has so many of the tools to actually create it.
It's frigging awesome!
- Literally, the foundation of starting to create your life!
Yeah! Yeah!
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